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i have no clue what to do
ok well i am 13 and i havent had my first kiss yet. well my boyfriend (who doesnt know that i havent had my first kiss) said that he was going to kiss me tomorrow. well i have no clue what to do. i mean i have heard that it is so much more than just tocking lips. i mean where do i put my hands? how close do i stand? do i open my mouth? do we french? please help!!!
thanks in advance
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Wow you are getting really worked up over it. Try to calm down and not think about it so much. when it happens you will know what to do .You will end up putting your hands where ever it feels comfortable to you. Along with every thing else
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You should tell him the truth before he tries to kiss you that you A) want to be kissed and B) have never been kissed by anyone at all. After you do that all he will do is make you feel comfortable and walk you through it.
Most guys actually enjoy teaching girls who have never been kissed this skill. It should be fun for both of you as practising will make perfect. don't worry about a thing as all guys and even girls know that everyone has a first time at this.
If you talk to him before he ever kisses you you can prevent an uncomfortable or embarassing moment before it happens. Once he knows the truth he can help you learn this skill and you'll be fine from there on out.
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You've got nothing to worry about. Like everyone says, kissing comes super natural.
As for where you put your hands, wrap them around his waist, or hug him while you kiss. If you don't wanna open your mouth, then don't. Don't french if you don't want to, and stand as close as you want. Tell your boyfriend that it's your first kiss. I'm sure he won't mind & he'll be able to lead you.
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haha ive had the same thing happen to me and it really isnt as difficult as you have heard. Im guessing that your boyfriend has kissed girls before, and he'll be way too happy to be kissing you to think about what kind of kisser you are. So don't worry, just wait for him to kiss you and everything will be fine. DON'T think about it! Believe me it really isn't hard and everyone just kind of figures it out. You can stand close and put your arms around his neck or waist or just leave them at your side. If he starts to make out with you just kind of chill until you figure out what to do because it just happens as you get more comfortable. Kissing is fun so just relax and enjoy it!
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