About 4 months ago i cheeted on my boyfriend. He know's all about it and were still together but i still dont no why i kissed the other guy and im still so confused.
Please help
I think you probably cheeted on him because you wanted some excitment or something like that. Maybe you don't like him as much as you think you do? And I don't think you should still be together, because if he didn't dump you when he found out about that, then he is desperate and has no self respect. He probably dosen't love you as much as you think he does and may just want a gf. You need to seriously think about it
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me and my bf have been togethr for almost 2 months. and i liked him so much like a month or two before we got together. well we both told eachother we fell for eachother. and were in love. and i feel like im hella sprung. every song on the radio reminds me of him. i cant go a second without thinking bout him. i get butterflies. i think im seriously sprung. but is that a bad thing? i just dont want to get hurt. cuz my friend is the same with her bf and she got hella hurt recently but there beter now. but my question is how can i not be so sprung? and not be so much in love. i dont want to put all of myself into a guy and something does happen (which i dont think will happen) but still. i dont want to get hurt. well thanks so much in advance!
First of all, are you gay?
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okay, i broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago and we were going out for about 10 months. I really liked him but i liked someone else and he was just really immature. I still like him though and i cant convince myself to not like him. he has another girlfriend now but i think he still thinks about me. sometimes i can see him looking at me throuh the corner of my eye and i glance at him sometimes too. One thing is though, he never really liked to talk to me at school because we didnt have alot in common and he talks to his new girlfriend ALL THE TIME! I still cant help liking him though because i was never going out with someone that long. now im going out with someone else who i dont like at all but i did it so i would get over the other guy. i dont wanna break up with the other guy but i donno. does anyone have advice on what i should do???? PLEASE!!!
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So I don't really know why but
today in science class we were pricking our fingers to draw blood and test our blood type, and I couldn't get my fingers to bleed enough to fill this little tube. so this guy, we'll call him adam, offers to help me and i say ok, because i really do need the help.
well ive been mildly attracted to adam for a while, sort of off and on, but today when he pricked my finger and it started bleeding it really turned me on. I think it might have had something to do with him causing me minor pain. But when he did it I cried out in..well i guess it was pleasure rather than pain. I have been thinking about him ever since. I flirted with him the rest of the day. Is there anything...weird about this turning me on like this?
Nope! I don't really want to get into it, but that is kinda sexy what he did. Just flirt with him and see where it goes.
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This guy sort of asked me out, but I dont know if he was joking or not. I was in gym talking to some friends and a guy I hate. Then the guy I hate went and sat by these other two guys. Then like five minutes later the guy I hate called over to me and said, "hey, Lynn!, Edward likes you and wants to know if you will go out with him" and I ignored him. But he asked me like three times. Then our gym teacher told me n the guy i hate and my two friends that it was our turn to play badmitten. When i was walking up to the laughing with my friends, "Edward" said hey...lynn? and I ignored him too because hes the kind of guy that asks people out as jokes and laugh in the persons face if they say yes. And I kinda like this guy but I dont know if hes joking. Any thoughts? Thanks
Well, I think you should just take a chance and tell him you will go out with him, if you really like him and everything. I think that it will be better if you say yes and he is joking and you get embarased for a few days than if you never hook up. Just say yes. If it turns out that he's joking, oh well! Just move on and find someone else to like.
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okay, so on the 12th of May I will have been with my boyfriend for 1 year..
It's not my longest relationship but it's the longest he has ever been with someone.
I was just wondering what to do?
Presents... going out etc
What would you do?
I'm never very good at this stuff..
But i wanted to make it a nice day.. so I was just wondering about presents and stuff..
So please help!
Thanks x
Well, if I was you, I would make sure that he was getting me something first. (don't ask him directly. Ask one of his friends if he has said anything about getting you a present) If he is not getting you a present, then don't bother. You can write him a poem or a nice letter or go out on a date or something, but don't get him a present. He will think either you are trying to hard to be nice, or he will feel awkward because he didn't get you a gift. But, if he is getting you a gift, then you should get him one too, no duh. Get him something that matches his interests and something romantic too since you are his girlfriend. (if you are a guy then boyfriend) I would get him a card and a stuffed animal and maybe like a guy bracelet or his favorite magazine and possibly some candy if he likes that kind of thing. You could rent him a movie and give him candy so he will invite you over to watch the movie and eat the candy with him.
I hope I helped
Gogurl10
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Ok maybe it's just me but i always watch these movie with people and their first kisses and stuff like and it makes me want that even more i mean i'm 14 and never exactly had a real boyfriend and obviously havent had my first kiss yet but watching these movie always makes me want it even more it might sound crazy or stupid but i am definitely into the 'find your one true love' kind of thing and i know someday it will eventually happen but the wait is killing me and maybe that sounds stupid but it's just seeing these great relationships and how much in love people can be it really is a beautiful thing and maybe i'm just babbling and sounding crazy here but like i said i really want that you know that kind of relationship where of course you have your fights but in the end their always there for you where you can see how much they like you just by the way they look at you and stuff like that i want that and of course my first kiss but i want it with someone really special and it has to be that right moment and everything and the right person and the right place and i know it will happen someday and that the longer i wait the more special it will be when it does happen but i dont know i guess i just want opinions on this like have you felt this way before how was your first kiss what happened you know those kinds of things
Hey!
Omg! I am in pretty much the same spot as you, but i have had a boyfriend before. I think my story might help you.
Well, i went out with this guy named Trevor and i went out with him four times. The last time that i went out with him, i really wanted to kiss him. I rushed things and he broke up with me. I wanted to be in love and kiss him and have my true love and stuff. He wanted to kiss me too, but we had our first kiss all planned out and i think we just screwed things up. I learned that you should go out with someone because you love them not because you want to be in love. Get it?
Also, I really love this guy named Brooks. He is my true love, I am not joking. I love him to death and he is my best guy friend. I really want to go out with him, but i don't think that he will ever ask me out, and i wont ask him out. I think about him all the time and when he touches me or looks at me, i feel like someone shocked me. He has the most beautiful green eyes. But i know that if it is made for us to be, that it will happen.
So my advice to you is, don't go out with some one because you want to be in love, but go out with them because you love them. So first, find someone you can be friends with and get to know. If things are meant to be, they will work out. Even if nothing happens this year, or the next, or the next, know that some day, someone will love you unconditionally and sometimes, it is better for them to be the only one that you loved. So don't rush true love! it will happen. And STOP watching romantic movies. lol.
Hope i helped. :)
gogurl10
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okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 years off and on. Just recentley we found out that we were FOURTH COUSINS! it really bothered us both. we broke up cause of it, and im so upset, cause i really wanted our relationship to grow, and i wanted us to be together. he wants us to be together also. but i jus tell him no, cause i dont want my family to know. and it wood just be too secretive, ya know? but i really want to be with him. i honestley do love this boy. is that nasty? whats your opinion on this situation? what would you do?
If you really like him, it won't matter that
you are realted. Besides, fourth couzin is like
way down the line. If your like great, great,
great, grandparents loved each other, than you
should be able to also. Okay, i know that made no
sense but i think you should date him anway. hope
this helped. :)
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okay soo i dated this guy and he broke it off like three times.lets call him "leon" and its been a while since we have last talked to eachother..but i guess he is mad at me..i'm friends with his brother(who likes me)lets call him "dan" and dan tells me all this stuff his brother said about me..for example that me and leon made out..not true..that leon called me a slut...and that he never wanted to talk to me again...i cried...then i went to a lockin at this place from like 11 to 6 in the morning.and they were there..leon kept looking at me and dan said that when i was sitting down stairs at the building that leon was going to come down and ask what was wrong...but dan said not to, to leave me alone!!!!i wanted to kill him so much!! me and leon had been off and on for about two years..we went out three times...one time last year..and two times this year...well anyways after dan came up to tell me what he said to leon we went gocart riding..and so did leon and a bunch of their friends.. but i had fun..but i was freezing...
today i almost bumped into him..i'm thinking i should have..but yeah...lol...but he looked at me and i just really want him back..now that i moved i could walk to his house and we could hang but idk i want him back...help me....please....i'm begging
wow. I know how you feel. I have been off and on with a guy that i like and also i like this other guy that really needs to make a move on me lol... but okay here is your advice:
I think that you should just try being
friends with leon right now. Just talk to him
like you would to a friend. Maybe the reason that
you keep breaking up is because you don't know
each other well enough. When Dan sees that you
are just friends, he may try to flirt with you
even more. If you like him, you should go out
with him. It will make leon jealous and if you
and dan break up you and leon could go out again.
bottom line is that you should just try to get to
know them for right now. Maybe you dont even like
them as much as you think you do. When you know
more about them, wait and see if things happen!!
I hope this helped. :)
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14/f
i need a b/f cuz it seems like every where i turn seems like theirs always couples. i ain't just wanting a boyfriend to be part of the crowd. i just want someone to love me and me too love them back. I have a crush and we never talk because he is a junior and i am a freshman. I only see him on my highschool bus and i get a glimse of him a lunch and b4 and after 2nd period and after 5th. any advice?
well, if you ask me, you don't need a bf. they seem fun, but like you've probly heard love stinks. just keep movin on, if your crush likes you too he will be the man and ask you out. theres reeally nothing you can do to MAKE anyone go out with you but you know guys arent worth tryiing so hard. trust me i have seen many good girls gone bad from trying to make someone like them. just try being single and love it!!! :)
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ive been talking ot my guy for two months. not quite bf and gf yet. theres quite and age difference (5 years) im 17. since theres a gap, we question our relationship but he is like nervous to meet my fam parents, i told them hes 22. i was thinking about bringing him to my dads 50th birthday in october. is that a bad idea?
well he may feel really awkward if lots of your relitives are there but idk.
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im very deep in a pickle. ok ill try to make this short, but we know how that goes. i was with this guy for 14 months. we were very much in love we could sware up and down we were going to be together forever. i still think so. he was a great boyfriend. however, there was a lot of stuff that made the situation extremely difficult and one-sided for me. several times i considered taking a break so i could just breath and have a little fun ya know. but i never did. finally, at the start of school, i met this guy who i started to kind of like. something else was coming up that would make things between my boyfriend and i even more difficult and one sided, so i finally called a break. it was sooo painful and broke both our hearts in half, but i think it was for the best right now. this was roughly 2 weeks ago. this new guy confessed he liked me so were "talking" and flirting i guess however i want nothing more than casual dating with him [nothing serious] and i was planning on gettin back with my boyfriend in the future. the problem is, now that 'something else' happened and our situation will be much worse off than it was before, and i feel that because of that, itd be useless to get back together with him, because it was the reason i called a break in the first place. on the other hand, i cant imagine living the rest of my life without him. i know its kind of hard to understand given i dont give much info about the situation, but the whole thing was just extremely stressful for me and even my mom didnt like me to be in that situation. i have no problem casually seeing this other guy for awhile just so i can breath a little bit, but i just dont know what to do about the rest. any good, mature advice would be appreciated...
Hi. I think you should be friends with both of the guys. It seems like you are stuck. That's what happened to me awhile ago. I broke up with my boyfriend because I liked someone else. He got a new girlfriend and the other guy only liked me as a friend. I think you should stay friends with your old boyfriend so you stay connected. You should be friends with the other guy too just to show him you like him too. After that IDK, whatever you think you should do will be good, but I think you can be connected to both of them. I donno if this will be any help but oh well. I know love sucks and it's hard so I am tryin to help!!! yep. bye.
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