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soo i was doing some facebook stalking of a good friend of mine. and she has alot of pictures with this one guy, so they're good friends. he is the most attractive guy i've ever seen haha. i added him as a friend and sent him a message like a week ago but he didn't say anything back:/ not to be cocky but i'm a pretty goodlooking girl. should i tell my friend i want to meet him? or would that just be creepy? anyy advice?

ask yourself this question
is it good to talk to people on facebook that you dont even know
for my advice you should talk with your friend first
and dont fall for that already witout seen him in real person because maybe the real him is just not the kind of guys you want
good luck

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Basically, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 16 and I'm 14, so hes leaving school soon.
Im just really worried about him leaving. Going to college, meeting other girls, possibly moving on. :(
it really stresses me out thinking about it, cos I really am in love with him. Obviously because im young people will think it's stupid for me to think I'm in love :/
but to be honest only i know how I feel and I don't want to ditch all my friends for him but i cant really help it? :S
I love spending time with him and he says he wants to be with me forever.

love is hard to let go i know
but you know what they say ,,if you love someone so much you have to let them go, and they will come back if they are the rigth one for you

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In your opinion do you think a 15 year old girl and a 16 year old boy have a long distance relationship? Do you think it would be worth it or not?
Thanks!

i will say no ,,well that is my opinion ,because you never know what hes doing there
i will say no , its not worth it, and you cant really feel him

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17/f
so there's this guy at my school that I think I kinda like. I feel soo dumb for havin a sort of crush bein 17 but I can't exclactly help it. Okay so the problem is he doesn't have a facebook an I don't have his number so i don't know that to do...I have pe with him but I don't know how to just go up and randomly start talkin to him. And how would I get his number if I did because I don't wanna seem like a creeper. We have hung out once before at my best friends block party but thy was a while ago and we barely talk. I get the feelin that if I were to take initiative that he would want to talk to me but I just don't know how!!! Please help I wanna talk to him but don't know how to go about it! Thanks in advance!!

if you know someone that you know talk with him, try to say to that person what do you feel about the guy maybe and also asked that person if she could get that boy going somoere with you guys so you guys can talk

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I'm 18 years old and a girl. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. We dont really fight much but when we do its usually about his family. They dont like me at all. Which i think its fine doesnt bother but what i dont like is that they want me to respect them when their constantly saying things about me and mean things to me. His older brother who's 23 calls me immature and tells me i need to grow up. He's always making fun of me and once he even said he's gonna burn his clothes because he touched me. if that isnt bad enough my boyfriends sister hates me too now i called someone a jerk and she thought i meant her brother and now is giving a bunch of crap when it didnt even deal with their family.
I'm tired of all theses things and i really dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend or just tell his siblings to butt out of it? Anybody got advice for me??

if i were you i a was going to leave because how can they tell you to respect them when they are talking bullshit behind your back

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~Male,15~ . I met this girl at a military ball on Saturday (last weekend).Then on Monday we started talking more and we start going to the basement of the school ever since Monday to Hug up on each other ( other peoples be down there sometime to). Here come my first problem i don't know when the right time to kiss her and i don't want to talk to her about it ( so any advice on that am thankful for). Now i got her friends walking up to me threaten me.Today her friend told me to keep my hand off her ( the girl i like). I ignored her and walk away and i still didn't keep my hands off and my girl don't know nothing about her friend walking up to me cause i didn't tell her. Me and her business is spreading around the school like HIV. here my last problem i don't know if she playing me or if she for real ( she don't got a phone). I been told she be on lock down after school. So i don't know she got a lot of friends ( boy and girls). i don't want to talk to her about it. Cause if she is playing me i rather just not know about it ( but i want to find out :(. cause i had past relationships problem. and my heart can't take another heartbreak

Thank :D ( sorry if it to long)

you should not care about what other people are saying about you twos, if you like her a lot just dont care about other people are saying, and there is no right moment top wait to kiss , if you are ready take a chance

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So me and my ex are friends. I really miss her and want to show her I care. This month is really hard for her because her mom passed away 2 years ago. What can I do to show her I care and I am there for her?

the only thing that you can do is to BE THERE EVERYTIME, BESIDE HER, and she will know that you care for her, dont forget to buy her some flower to show her your condeleance ( sorry if i spell it wrong) ,,if you are wondering which color of flower , take pink, because pink flower means caring for someone

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I'm 15 and I recently started talking to this guy, lets just call him matt for now, and he seems really, really nice. His mate was being a dick to me and he stood up for me. He always flirts with me and always seems to find excuse to touch me (not in the rude way :P)
I think I really like this kid and I think he has some feelings for me too.
My parents are kinda strict. They dont want me to go out with this nationality because they're like this and like that. And if they catch me going out with someone from this country or that country they'll skits it at me.
They have like a list of nationalities that my boyfriends cant be.
and Matt unfortunately is on that list.
I don't want to say what he is or where he's from because I don't want to offend anyone.
I dont know what to do. I like him alot but his nationality kinda scares me because of the stories that I hear.
I know you shouldn't believe everything you hear but I can't help it.
I like him and I want my parents to approve of us going out. I want them to like him but if they find out his nationality I don't think they'll give him a chance.

I'm really confused.

Any help or suggestions will be greatly appreciated.
:)

first of all when your parent tell you those story, i know that it is not hard to not trust them or ignore them. but you have to put in your hand that we are all different, maybe that matt kid is different form other and it will work our between you guys for a long time, you still young ( the same age with me) , at this age when you fall for a guy its hard for them to share the same feeling as we do, if the guy likes you, you should go for it, and let your parent know that matt is different from other people, he is sweet and he will not do anytthing to hurt you. tell your parent to give him a chance because you cant say no to love when is comming to you .....

good luck , peace

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I've been in a relationship with Corey for the past 3 years. We met on myspace at 1 or so in the morning. Before I met him, I sat in my room very depressed, so depressed, that I prayed for at least an hour or longer to God and even was desperate enough to wish on a star... stupid, right? I don't know whether the person reading this believes in God or wishing on stars, but not a month passed when I met Corey. We just barely got our internet up and running for the first time since I was 14, and my sister and I got our first myspace pages up and running. When Corey and I first met online, Corey asked for my number, and we started from there. There was a huge connection right from the start, but there was a downside.... he lived 3 hours away from me, so this was a long distance relationship. It was tough at first, but I got used to the distance, and we saw each other every 2-3 months and we stayed at each others houses for 1 week to a month at a time. The very, very first night we met was so passionate, and I felt completely loved and adored by him. He was such a gentleman! Sadly, this was the best night of my life... We've never had a day or night like this or even passionate or romantic like this... But now, everything has changed... What seemed to be a fairy tale come true was now becoming depressing and even nightmarish at times... so now Corey and I are hanging by a thread. I love him, but I don't think I'm "in love" with him anymore. I feel like he's cheating on me. I've seen his AOL instant messenger before, but when I look a year or two later (in his contacts in his mailbox) he has all sorts of girls names... ones I won't be able to post here because the names are pretty disgusting... but the names were pretty straight forward, like you could tell it was a girl, and that that specific girl was skanky or whatever you want to call a girl like that. There was a whole bunch of contacts like this there... at least four or five at least. His excuse was that he has had that AOL account since he was 15 or so (he was 19 then so that was way before he met me [if he's telling the truth]). I feel like he lies to me all the time, I can't be myself around him.. like this time I was being goofy and he gave me this face that looked as if he thought I was stupid or something. He has a cruel sense of humor and makes fun of me a lot, like he calls me Pinocchio (my nose is kinda big) and he's even made comments about me being heavy. My sister thinks that he is emotionally abusive and he tells me things like I can't drink on my 21st birthday (which is coming up), can't get a tattoo and my sister thinks that if I wind up marrying him, that he wouldn't let me do anything. He'd control my life, and would probably wind up hitting me or something. Every time I try to talk to him about what has been hurting me or bugging me, he always turns it into a fight and makes it my fault. Like for example, I got mad because he could talk to everyone else it seemed, besides me. He could easily open up to a stranger, or a friend, but never to me. So I got really upset and started asking him why he can't talk to me, he never sees me but doesn't care if he talks to me at all. He will only stay on the phone for a couple of minutes before letting me go, and if on a rare occasion, he will talk to me, we sit there in silence... if I complain about him not talking, he'll ask me "Why do you do this? You act like you're perfect and you don't do anything wrong, you can talk!" but I've tried telling him that I don't talk because every time I try talking to him, he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. I've even tried talking to him about something he's interested in, and it still doesn't work... There's always something he has to do, and he never seems to have enough time for me. Constantly busy. He calls me psycho (I have a couple of mental disorders), bi*tch, whore, hoe, stupid and there's probably more...
He's told me recently "you're another *insert psycho ex-girlfriend's name here*" and "I hope you die". He tells me he hates me and if I get angry it's because I'm pmsing. According to Corey, guys are always right, girls are always wrong. He's sexist big time, and is also a complete hypocrite. Guys say to never argue with a woman, because you'll never win, well no one will ever win an argument with Corey... just because the way he is. He has an excuse and an answer for everything. He never admits he's wrong at all, very rarely anyways. One time, I gave Corey a hug while he was sitting on the couch, and he snapped at me accusing me of wanting sex when I was really trying to be loving and cuddly. I even think he may be gay or bisexual... That's all I can think of at the moment... but anyways, a childhood friend recently popped into my life. My ex best friend Timmy. Not ex best friend because we stopped being friends, but just because our families moved away from one another and we simply stopped talking and whatnot. We were 6 when we met, and my sister and his sister are best friends. We have known each other for a very long time as you can imagine... the difficult thing is is that I'm now developing feelings toward Timmy... Growing up, he used to protect me from his little brother (who I was going out with at the time [I was a little too young for dating... but oh well, we were kids :P]). His little brother would always hit me and beat on me and Timmy would always defend and protect me. One day, I got sick of his crap, and dumped him, and asked Timmy if he would be my boyfriend and he said yes :) But his little brother went home crying to his mom and she separated Timmy and I and I was back to square one.... If I were older, I'd tell her off lol but I was 6 and didn't really know... but anyway, almost 21 now, and it seems the more I spend time with Timmy, the more attracted to him I get. Not just his looks either, but his personality as well. He's giving, trustworthy, respectful, a gentleman, a virgin, never had a "real" kiss (not like that stuff matters), he's funny, and caring, etc.. I know the guy to choose seems pretty obvious, but it's not that easy. As mean as Corey is, he can still be very sweet and I still love him and care about what happens to him.... How do I let him go? What can I do to make it hurt less? How can I let him down gently? Can someone please help me? I've never been in this situation before....this is really tough!!

whoo your situation is pretty big, if you dont love him anymore leave him im sure he has a bunch of other girls that he met online. just tell him that you dont think this is going to work out anymore between you two and if he try to say word like bitch, hoe ignore him because you are not he is the bitch here
have courage ok ,,
good luck

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Ok this is my question iv been with my girlfriend for 10 mounths and i want to tell her something tht would make her love me even more but idk wat to say help me out


whoo thas aweasome but 10 months dont you think its too early for that, to me i will say to you to write her a poem aboout what you think about her, tell her how aweasome she is
good luck, hope you the best

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Does anybody know any good songs that help them get through hard times in relationships? Or just songs that are empowering to women and talk about respecting yourself and confidence......my bf cheated on me and music really helps alleviate my stress and make me feel better...i would appreciate your suggestions thank you

oh my good im soo sorry about that i hope you wil be okay and foud someone better than him
ok here are some song that could help you relax\
this is all some confident song i found on the web for you

It's a Beautiful Day,,,,,, U2
Restless ,,,,,,,UNKLE
Rockstar .........Prima J
World Town,,,,,,,,, M.i.a.
Just So You Know ,,,,,,,,Jesse McCartney
You're Beautiful ,,,,,,James Blunt
They Dont Know,,,,,,, Jonb
Meant Every Word He Said ,,,Ricky VanShelton
You Don't Know My Name ,,,,,Alcia Keys
I Told You So,,,, Keith Urban
I Loved You Once In Silence ,,,,,,Soundtrack to Camelot
Can't Stop This Thing We Started ,,,,Bryan Adams
ABC ,,,,,,,,,Jackson 5
Schools Out ,,,,,,,Pink Floyd
High School Confidential ,,,Jerry Lee Lewis

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So, there is this guys that really likes me..like alot. and i think he is really cute, but not my type really. now there is this other guy who is pretty much every girls dream guy, except for one thing! he is so cocky and kinda rude! i have kissed him before and i miss him alot. i want to be with him. but i dont want to hurt the guy who likes me alot.. ahh.. what do i do??
Thanks--

the other is rude and lots of girl go after him , i think you should give the other guy a chance be cause he is dying for you, try to be friend with him you, i know that he is not your type, just guve him a chance, you dont knoe how it could tuned out be friend with him,he is good guy.
just try to erase the other guy out f your mind ok , he can go after 4 other girls and you would not know it

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hey i am a 19/f. I've posted so many questions about this guy in my art appreciation class. & well i was wondering, what are some good conversation starters? i plan on talking to him after class since he's really shy. well maybe on monday because before spring break i did take the stairs after class to talk to him except while i was going down the stairs i turned around & he was there & he smiled at me. But when i turned back around my hand was stuck to this wet paint sign!! :( so yeah lol i really embarrassed myself, but idk if i should still try. help!?

you sound so nice, whoo he is shy try to ask her some questio you know llike the thing he likes, ,about his family and talk to him like everyday, does he like school , if i have pets those kind of questions and see how its going to turned out ok

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My boyfriend sometimes twists my wrists and pulls arms, hair, etc. But he says that he is only "playing". About two months, while playing, he dislocated my shoulder. All my friends say I'm to blame. If I wasn't rude to him, he wouldn't have to put me in my place. But all I said was that I wouldn't get him a soda!
I really love him and he's not mean or does anything to hurt me emotionally me. But I'm afraid that someday he might do something that will end up with me in real pain.

yes, he has no rigth to twist your hand, there is going to be one day that he will do something very bad to you, dont let him control you like that
i know you love him, but there is sometime that you have to think about you body first, before guys, ask yourself this question ,
does your boyfriend deserve somoene nice like you ?
dont let him do those bad things to you, express your deep feeling to him and tell him to stop what his doing to you, you may end up in some serious pain
good luck

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U can txt it to.me if u want

ok here it goes

there is something about your eyes
there is something about our love
that i could never forget
you shine like a sun
your smile make my world magical
you are the one for me
im the one for you
when life gave me you
my world is completly good
when life doesnt have you
i fell that half of me is missing
you are the sour of my desert
the key for my happiness
and the one that i love
there is just something about you
that make me really happy
you and me will last forever
i love you from the bottom of the ocean
be mine always

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I need a poem that will make my girl friend smile :)

ok wait im going to check on my poems ok ,,and im going to try to send you that ,
do you know i can send it you

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Can i have a poem plz

about what

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13 F

well, i just started high school and i really like this guy. a couple of days ago he found out i liked him and he was really cool about it. Then today he told me that he likes me to, but not to tell his girlfriend (who is one of my friends). im really scared that he will dump her to go out with me and i will lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!

well if he likes you and he still going with your friend , maybe he wants something for you, you better not go out with him, because if he dump your friend, your friend would be heartbroken and im sure shes going to need someone to help her pass her pain, if you do go out with that guy your friend would think that you are the reason that the guy left her, you wanted them to broke up. my advice is to stibk with your friend and not caring about this boy right now, you may lose your friend.
do the right thing , and try to talk with your friend about all of this ok

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Ok i need ur help iv been with my girl friend for 10 months andi want to tell her something thats going make her smile becausr she has the.most beautiful smile ever can u help me ohh and im 16 :D

you know what, if you sing her a song it will be awesome , its going to put a smile over her face i swear to god .
if you cant sing, go with a poem , read the poem in front of her, she will smile big, if u need a help with a poem i can help you writting one since i write poem

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So i've liked a guy for about a year now and we've hung out a few times and stuff. well, my friends went to semi and i didn't (prior engagements) and one of my friends danced with him (she knows i like him). Then they started texting all the time and he asked her to prom and she's going!

I feel so hurt and embarassed and ugly and i really dont know what to do. she'll probably ask me to go dress shopping and stuff with her but i think i might cry if i do.

Am i being overdramatic? Everyone is telling me that i am but i can't help it :(

what do i do?

oh my god sorry to hear that
try to forget your friend, shes not a really friens , if she knows that you like that guy she shouldnt go for that guy too , thast not a good away to help you
just calm down, and try to talk with someone close to you, go cacth a movie or something, its going to help you

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