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Hey yall i'm MICHELLE i am a senior and i *LOVE* giving advice! i am really ditzzy, creative, LOUUUUUDD, fun to be with, outgoing, wierd, very very very RANDOM and CRAZY!

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People i am honest! Sorry if sometimes my advice sucks! But, i hope you understand that i try my hardest! If i didnt completly understand you question, please contact me ASAP for clairification! Thank you!


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M A t T ♥ M i C h E l l E (not my bf just a boy that is funny as hell! hah)

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Im "seeing" this guy, Javi *but Im not dating him* and there is a huge story behind it all, to make it easier...I dated an ex (Aaron) and my best friend, Josh is and was in love with me at the time. I didnt date Josh because I didnt wanna ruin a "best friend" friendship if I got into a relationship (cause it happened to me once before) I dated Aaron and when we broke up, Josh still loved me...I began to give in to just being his best friend and then he went to Greece, when he got back he had changed into an asshole and the reason for that is cause he found out I was hanging out with a friend named Javi....well Josh thought that the same thing would happen to him again (When I decided to date Aaron instead of Josh) last year...So he had pissed me off to the point where I didnt like Josh anymore cause he was such an ass to me and now (2 months later) he is a sweetheart to me because he "tested" me to see if it would happen to him again. (To wrap this up because it is SO MUCH MORE detailed than this) Im dating Javi now and Josh wants to be with me badly and the fact of the matter is that I sooooooo badly want to be with Josh too (while Josh was an ass to me, he had told me that Javi liked me more than He did himself, but he lied so he could test me)...except I told Javi I loved him...and I had mentioned that things would definitely work out between him and I (while I was pissed off at Josh)I don't know what to do...Im in love with Josh and I clearly don't have the kind of feelings for Javi as I do for Josh. I just dont know what to do or say. It's a really complicated situation without loosing Javi as a friend and hoping he wont hate me too. Please help me out, Ive gone to a bunch of friends about this and none of my friends know what to do:/!

Well, Honestly go with oyur heart. If you Love Javi but not as much as Josh tell Javi I have my heart set on someone else, maybe we can try it another time. But I would never go out with Josh he is an ass seiously putting you on tests.
♥ Michelle

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there is this guy i like that i send letters to but i was wondering should i ask him if he is single or would that be to rude of me?

Its not rude!
♥ Michelle

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well i love this kid named phill..when ever i havnt seen him for a long time (1 week) then when i see him i love him!! he just got out of a 1 year relaship (sp) with a girl named gina. phill likes me and stuff..but idk i love him..should i like ask him out or wait a little bit! i rate high

-confused

Heyy. I would tell him how you feel about him then see what happens from there. Then ask him out!! Lol if yu get what im saying.
♥ Michelle

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omg thank you so much!! you made me feel alot better! and yea..me n my boyfriend are doing really good now! and i've realized how much i really love him and how much he means to me..and i think he's realized it too! he told me he wants to marry me someday.haha. you REALLY helped me. you dont know how thankful i am. that boy means the world to me! if there's anything i can do for you just tell me! thank you s0o0o much!!!!

Wow i am really happy i helped you! Im me sometime! You just made my day!
♥ Michelle

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me n my boyfriend are really in love and we've been together for 5 almost 6 months but like things have changed between us.we dont talk like we used to..like we dont talk about how we feel etc.. and we dont really spend time together anymore. and like we've had sex and everything. but it seems like he's not happy with me or doesnt wanna be with me anymore. i still love him but its not like it used to be and he's more worried about his friends rather than me. i dont know if im just being selfish and have to have all the attention but..he's kinda mean to me to, but hes also really sweet to me. its kinda confusing but i dont know what to do. i still wanna be with him but not if its gonna stay like this.

Aww, hey. He likes you, dont worry. He isnt worried about you prob. beacuse he knows he has your love. If you want to have your old relationship back, you have to attempt to talk to him first and set time to hang out! Try telling him your feelings on how you feel about your relationship now. How you would like to improve it! Good luck! If you need 'more' to the answer just drop another one in my inbox!
♥ Michelle

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my girlfriend doesnt tihnk she is hot what do i do ?

Aww, you being her bf explain to her that she is no matter what she says. Prove to her that she is!
♥ Michelle

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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months then all of asudden he says he wants to take a break. i asked him why and he said we need to live our lifes. what do you think he ment by that?

He wants to look to see what other girls have to offer. Dont worry he wants to just take a brake, so youll get bak with him!
♥ michelle

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Well i've been going out with this guy for almost 5 months and i love him and i'm glad we're together. but the guy i went out with before him, well he was the first guy i ever loved and even though i don't like him anymore, i still think he's good looking and i love talking to him and stuff.. is that bad?

No, you still have feelings for your first love. You can still keep in touch with him there is no harm in that. But remember you have someone who loves you, and loves to be with you.
♥ Michelle

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How exactly do you hook up? And what is it?

'Hooking up' is like when you 'make out' with a guy/girl or have sex! Or, meeting up with freinds!
♥ Michelle

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im still pondering about what to get my boyfriend for valentines day before I put it off until the last minute...any cute suggestions?

Flowers and candy. Those hearts that say things on it like I LOVE YOU and stuff. Boxers with hearts on them lol i asked one of my guy friends it was really funny!
♥ Michelle

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you see,i have a lot of friends i guess. i have one best friend and i dont know...my lifes pretty good, but ive lately wanted a boyfriend.. ive had a few before it just didnt work out that long. but anyways, what do you give a guy for valentines if you dont date but u want to make it sorta clear your interested in them?

Hmm, a box of chocolate and roses? Lol a shirt?
♥ Michelle

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does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE?

unfortunatly, you cant. Your feelings ar you feelings :/. Try to get your mind of him as much as possible!
♥ Michelle

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i like this guy but i am not sure if he likes me, how can i find out if he likes me without telling him that i like him? I need advice please!!!

There are many ways! If he flirts with you, hangs out with you and holds hands with you.
♥ Michelle

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what does it mean to be fingered?

Hey, fingered means when a boy puts his fingers in your v-part and moves his fingers around.
♥ Michelle

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me and this guy had a really really fun time one night (not sex) we just cuddled and kissed the whole night. I really like him alot, but im not sure if he likes me too. yeah we cuddled but he's kind of a user so i couldn't tell. ANYWAYS! that was 4 days ago, and he hasnt called me yet. would it be extrally gay if i text him while i was at school just to have a regualar convorsation an be like "whats up? im bored at school an decided to text u." would that be gay, weird, or just normal? i've never texted him an im to nervouse to call him. would it be cheesy if i did? tell me your honest opinion, please!

Oh My Gosh... no offence lol but that is the stupidest thing i have ever herd! Text mess. someone in the middle of class? Gay4LIFE!!!!!!! lol! call him whats the wrost he can do? Lol! Sorry i was harsh! I am telling you the truth srry!
♥ Michelle

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Do you think it is possible to find "The One" you are going to be with for the rest of your life in highschool?

Ya!
♥ Michelle

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Alright i was talking to the guy that I have kind of been more than friends with and his girlfriend called him while i was on the phone with him... when we were doing stuff together he didnt have a girlfriend... but ne wayz he came over to the other line and i asked him who is was and he said it was his girlfriend.. i asked him if he wanted me to let him go and he said no. he told his girlfriend he was busy and then he told me that he was talking to me ne wayz. well anywayz i really like him but i dont want his girlfriend to get hurt should i back off until they break up or what... plus doesnt he seem like he likes me???/ im confused please help......

He likes you, but i would back off until they break up! Dont interfere with their relationship!
♥ Michelle

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i feel so lonley without a boyfriend. i miss having some one here to always talk to and stuff, is that wrong?

No, i feel lonley sometimes too. I never have someone to rely on! But in someways it is a good thing. Sometimes boys can be jackass's (excuse my lingo) So you are really lucky to not have a boyfriend. They sometimes tend to get jelous too! So it isnt wrong!
♥ Michelle

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I went out with this guy last summer, but he lives in NJ, we still talk about when he was here and how we had so much fun together and he is comming down this summer also, and i told him that i dont think i could hang out with him but i really want to and he was like Why not? and i said because i might end up liking you again, and that he might not like me back and he was like well i wont have a g/f when i get down there and we ARE going to hang out. Does this mean that he will go back out with me again or not? does this mean any thing?

It means ALOT! It is a hint that you are going to hand out and go out! He likes you hun!
♥ Michelle

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ok, i am a senior at my high school and i am on yearbook staff. i have this spread assignment and i have to sue a pic of my ex on it (he is not pictured to much, so my teacher told me to use the picture.) now everytime i go to work on it, i think i am gonna cry! and i hurt so bad. this is just about the tiem i thought i was over him. is there any way to make the pain not as painful? it doesnt help that he was the first guy i ever loved and we have been togethre off and on for 4 years. what can i do to help ease teh pain?

Aww. Hey! Maybe you can tell your teacher you arent comfortable doing this picture, or ask one of your friends to do that picture for you!
♥ Michelle

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