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Complicated Mess :(
Im "seeing" this guy, Javi *but Im not dating him* and there is a huge story behind it all, to make it easier...I dated an ex (Aaron) and my best friend, Josh is and was in love with me at the time. I didnt date Josh because I didnt wanna ruin a "best friend" friendship if I got into a relationship (cause it happened to me once before) I dated Aaron and when we broke up, Josh still loved me...I began to give in to just being his best friend and then he went to Greece, when he got back he had changed into an asshole and the reason for that is cause he found out I was hanging out with a friend named Javi....well Josh thought that the same thing would happen to him again (When I decided to date Aaron instead of Josh) last year...So he had pissed me off to the point where I didnt like Josh anymore cause he was such an ass to me and now (2 months later) he is a sweetheart to me because he "tested" me to see if it would happen to him again. (To wrap this up because it is SO MUCH MORE detailed than this) Im dating Javi now and Josh wants to be with me badly and the fact of the matter is that I sooooooo badly want to be with Josh too (while Josh was an ass to me, he had told me that Javi liked me more than He did himself, but he lied so he could test me)...except I told Javi I loved him...and I had mentioned that things would definitely work out between him and I (while I was pissed off at Josh)I don't know what to do...Im in love with Josh and I clearly don't have the kind of feelings for Javi as I do for Josh. I just dont know what to do or say. It's a really complicated situation without loosing Javi as a friend and hoping he wont hate me too. Please help me out, Ive gone to a bunch of friends about this and none of my friends know what to do:/!
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Well, Honestly go with oyur heart. If you Love Javi but not as much as Josh tell Javi I have my heart set on someone else, maybe we can try it another time. But I would never go out with Josh he is an ass seiously putting you on tests.
♥ Michelle
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Hey. Well, continue to go out with Javi. If things go great with Javi stay with him. If you guys really get screwed then break up with him and go with Josh. Untill then i wouldnt go with josh, he seems like a guy who doesnt know what he wants and will put you under the test too much.
♥ Michelle
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