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~ gaming
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~ meeting new people (even though i'm antisocial)
~ helping people
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22 year old girl.
Been in a relationship for the past 2 and a half years with a guy that is 24 and is great. Funny, intelligent, ambitious, and caring. And things were wonderful until I found out he was talking to another girl ..Texting, snap chatting, face times.. I talked him he apologized. He then went to the movies with a girl that he went to middle school with that he hadn't seen for years and used to crush on her to "catch up".. He then went out of the country and met up with the girl that he was constantly face timing and texting.. That bothered me... I started to get very fed up and stopped caring as much. recently went out with a friend and met this one guy who is a cop. We kind of have the same history and let me tell you that every time I see this guy my heart starts racing.. I love talking to him and how much of a gentleman he is and I just feel so safe around him.. My feelings for my boyfriend are starting to fade and I just don't know what to do.. Advice greatly appreciated (link)
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Hun, you know that your boyfriend isn't probably remaining loyal, and I think you've found the man your meant to be with. Leave your boyfriend and be with the man that makes your heart race c: Hope I helped
~ Mandi
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Hello, I'm 21 years old and I have noticed that since I can remember most likely sophomore year in high school that I check out a lot of girls. I look more at girls than guys. I have only had boyfriends my entire life and I was always attracted towards them. However, I have kissed a couple girls and again, same attraction. Could I possibly be bi? I'm not sure if this is a phase.. Please advice. Thank you (link)
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If you have the same attraction to women as you do men, then yes, you're most likely bisexual. Also, I know a lot of people don't accept the idea of same sex couples, but don't let that bring you down. No matter who you like, embrace it.
I hope I helped, milady,
~ Mandi
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I have not HEARD from him since 28 of June wtf.?i asked u ever liked me and he said duh yea. we can try . next day he ask me you wanna come see me I got mad cause we 38 miles away and he should of asked it nicer and my RESPONSE was na no. he said playing games is gay and stop texting me and I was like no more.
I miss and I ain't texting him
what is happening
I wish so bad he could text me does he have any idea
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He sounds like...
1) He has no respect for men/women (you didn't mention your gender which makes it a little difficult)
2) He's a player
3) He's only trying to use you for something to do
Even though you miss him, you deserve way better. The best thing to do is find someone who's worthy of your time, maybe closer, and definitely more polite. I wish you luck c:
~Mandi
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I'm a sixteen year old female, and the guy I will be mentioning is a seventeen year old male.
I met him online, and we've been talking a lot ever since we met. I like said guy, and he likes me too.
Here's the problem: I live in the United States and he lives in Russia. We're both a little hesitant about the distance, and neither of us know what to do. Any advice? (link)
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I'm a 13/F and I tend to do long distance relationships. The best and most important thing to do first is to make sure he's truly who he says he is. Try these:
~ Skype
~ Facetime
~ Oovoo
~ An app that tells you if the picture was taken right then, such as kik
~ Talking on the phone
Even though trolling may/can be fun, it can hurt the person/peoples it's happening to awfully. Next, find something to do that relaxes you, such as a warm shower or a favorite hobby, so you can ask yourself questions and answer them honestly. Some questions to consider:
~ Do I truly love this man?
~ Do I want to one day meet this boy?
~ Am I going to be both loyal and faithful in this relationship?
Long distance relationships are challenging, and they require patience. I'm sure you're an amazing, intelligent, beautiful, sweet young woman that doesn't want her heart toyed with, so I will warn you, you never know if the other person is cheating on you or being unfaithful, so make sure that you trust your heart to him. I hope I helped, and I wish you both the best of luck and that it works out.
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My boyfriend has had trust issues with me. He believes I violated him multiple times with the same issue, which I have, in a way, with another guy. You see, I'm in a little local band within my community and one of the members and I were close friends. I went through some problems with the "boyfriend" I have now and the other guy was just trying to be a good friend to get me through it. He eventually started to develop feelings for me. I told him I didn't like him like that or would ever see myself with him. At first he was upset. (He wasn't too fond of my boyfriend, though we're all in the same group together) But he eventually got over it and told me he'll be there when he needs me. My boyfriend was furious that I even let the other guy into my life to try to turn my mind away from him. We had lots of issues, my boyfriend and I, and he was being really neglectful. He left the state for months to get away from me at the start of our relationship, when I thought things were getting better. When he came back permanently, I welcomed him back with open arms but he told me that I had to give up talking to the other guy completely. Tell me if it makes sense that for someone who I have to see all the time, I should stop talking to him completely? For someone who's done nothing but be there for me, I had to stop talking to him. His only mistake he ever made was falling for me. And he knew it. But my boyfriends hatred for him never went away. I did speak to the other guy on occasion behind my boyfriends back, because I knew I was doing something wrong but neglecting him. My boyfriend doesn't see it that way. He threatened to leave every time he found out we've been talking. Some drama happened within the band lately and it was sparked by me unintentionally (lesson learned) and I carried some news to the other guy. My boyfriend learned of it and hates me now, says I never stopped talking. Thing is, he said he doesn't love me anymore but doesn't want me to leave him. Says I have to try to gain his love again but he doesn't expect it will happen. He curses and me, calls me names, taunts me, tells him I'm worse than dirt but he doesn't want me to leave him. My boyfriend isn't perfect, he has a LOT of faults in himself, many which have been pointed out by other people that I've seen for myself and yet I still love him. Even with him being nasty and rude to me, I still love him. I know you will say I shouldn't stand for it but I want him to love and trust me again. It will take time. Am I wrong for still having faith? He will make me suffer for it but I think I deserve it. I left the band and so did he and others for drama reasons. I don't know what to do. I hate myself so much for what I did and my bf has even supported my hatred in myself. What do I do? (link)
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I understand that you have feelings for this guy, but he honestly isn't worth your time. Women are not to be considered "property" like they were back in the older days, and he's breaking this rule by treating you like he owns you and you belong to him. It'll only get worse if you stay with him. A woman deserves to be respected, and he apparently doesn't get that because he's too immature for relationships. You're an amazing, intelligent, beautiful young lady her deserves to be treated with respect. He's trying to play a game that he knows he'll never let you win at, and he's only playing it so he doesn't have to give you up.
~Mandi
P.S. No one should hate themselves... especially because of the guy they're with.
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Why won t he text me?
I met this guy about a month ago at work, when I first started my job. We began hanging out outside of work and I thought it went really well. This has been going on for about a week. There was one point we hung out FOUR days in a row. Not pushed by me... It just happened. He would text me all day, even at work, sending me sweet texts. We went on our first official date Friday. He planned everything. We went to a really nice restaurant and held hands at dinner. Went back to his house and cuddled and watched a movie and told me how pretty I was. Toward the end of the night he started acting weird. I tried to come on to him, and he just gave me a few kisses then I left. He's been MIA since. I gave in and texted him first Saturday and he seemed so disinterested. I didn't want to appear desperate so if he didn't reply, I didn't text him. It's now Sunday and I haven't heard from him. I'm just confused how he could act so interested and then drop off after a seemingly great date. And we have sooo much in common, so I'm confused. Maybe it's because we work together? Should I reach out to him and ask what's up? (link)
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Perhaps he received bad news. Maybe he began to feel guilty because he's a player and he knows he'll only hurt you, but he really likes you, so he doesn't want to. Just give him a little time and maybe he'll come around.
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What does it mean if you cry over a boy every night while he has a girlfriend but he isn't happy with the girlfriend because every night he cries at night because he misses you? (link)
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It probably means that he still has feelings for you, but if he's an ex, make sure you consider the thoughts of who left who and why. Make sure he actually LEAVES his girlfriend before trying to make moves and hit on you also. It wouldn't really be fair to you or her if he didn't.
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I've been seeming this guy for 1 year now. and he has always liked me since day 1. Now. He has a friend who is a girl. I asked him how he met her and he said that theyve talked dating while we broke up (almost 4 months then got together again). He hooked up her SNF my friend together. We went on double dates together. And I've noticed how much they talk to each other. And the way he looks st her.The way he looks at her, the way he talks to her. I don't read their messages but he always texts her. He doesn't talk to bestfrined as much as her.and i know he likes her becsuse she told me. His ex use to text him all the time and he didn't let me read the texts. She use to send him hearts too. I told him to delete her off his Snapchat, she was back on there. He won't even let me touch his phone. But I believe when he tells me he loves me. He knows how I feel about these virls. Yet he just doesn't seem to stop.and its makes me feel like someplete shit. What does this mean ugh (link)
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It probably means that you have a feeling he's cheating on you (which is most likely the case), but you're heart has feelings for him, so you're trying to dispose of the idea. You're probably an amazing, intelligent, beautiful young woman and you deserve better. I know it might hurt to hear this (well, read this), but you'd be better off dumping him and finding a much more respectful person to be with. He's nowhere near being worth your time, milady.
~Mandi
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I've always thought that I was straight. I'm a sixteen year old female. I've been watching this show and I began to realize that I had feelings for one of the female characters. Some scenes where she's kissing other girls really turns me on. I've also realized very recently that I have feelings for a girl a year older than me who just graduated from my high school. I've just lost interest in the boy I'd been crushing on for a few months and have been texting and chatting with this graduate instead. I don't know if I'm making all this up in my head or if I'm really bisexual. I don't want to make a move on this girl because I'm reasonably sure she's straight, plus what if I kiss her and it turns out I'm not bisexual after all? (link)
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I know what you mean. Im only a 13/F and I used to think I was straight, but I had always had an interest in girls since kindergarten. Anyways, if you want to find out if you're truly into girls or not, you need to be with one, or at least kiss one. You can kiss girls in role play (if you use that like me), but that doesn't really answer your question. The kiss needs to be physical, but only when you're ready. After that kiss, you can determine your preferences. For example, maybe you're straight after all, or perhaps you're a lesbian. Most likely, you'll be bisexual, but prefer one gender over the other, like me. I'm bi, but highly prefer girls over boys. As I was saying, you need to physically kiss another girl to truly determine whether or not you like women, and get to know the graduate's orientation before you assume that she's just into men. Many people are straight, but perhaps she has feelings about you and is willing to try something.
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