Been in a relationship for the past 2 and a half years with a guy that is 24 and is great. Funny, intelligent, ambitious, and caring. And things were wonderful until I found out he was talking to another girl ..Texting, snap chatting, face times.. I talked him he apologized. He then went to the movies with a girl that he went to middle school with that he hadn't seen for years and used to crush on her to "catch up".. He then went out of the country and met up with the girl that he was constantly face timing and texting.. That bothered me... I started to get very fed up and stopped caring as much. recently went out with a friend and met this one guy who is a cop. We kind of have the same history and let me tell you that every time I see this guy my heart starts racing.. I love talking to him and how much of a gentleman he is and I just feel so safe around him.. My feelings for my boyfriend are starting to fade and I just don't know what to do.. Advice greatly appreciated
Danicus answered Tuesday July 14 2015, 8:50 pm: I think you already know the answer. Your bf has been with other girls, (supposedly innocent) you're fed up with it and your feelings are fading. You're interested in someone else now. Relationships come and go. People grow apart. Don't stay in a relationship just cause its already there. Especially when things are only getting worse. I doubt that your current bf will change his stripes anytime soon. You confronted him about it but he keeps doing it and probably won't stop. If this other guy likes you too, then maybe its time to move on. One thing to be careful about is that you are not simply infatuated with him. How can you tell if its just infatuation? That, I don't know. But at least its something to keep in mind. [ Danicus's advice column | Ask Danicus A Question ]
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