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What does it mean if you cry over a boy every night while he has a girlfriend but he isn't happy with the girlfriend because every night he cries at night because he misses you?
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It probably means that he still has feelings for you, but if he's an ex, make sure you consider the thoughts of who left who and why. Make sure he actually LEAVES his girlfriend before trying to make moves and hit on you also. It wouldn't really be fair to you or her if he didn't.
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I think it means you two love each other and can't stand the thought that you aren't together. If he cries at night over you, then he probably doesn't want to be with his girlfriend. There could be reasons as to why he has to be with her and he has no choice. But that really sounds like love<3
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Hello,
First off learning from experience, don't ever cry for a person unless they're hurt or dying. Some people are not worth your tears. Plus i heard it gives you wrinkles. i don't know how old you both are, but i'm assuming that you both are very young of age and that there will be plenty of boys later on in life.
Secondly, f he has a girlfriend, whether he is happy or not, should not be a reason for you to continue a relationship with him if there is a relationship, unless its a friendship. If he is in a relationship and he is unhappy, he should be man enough to leave. Also, please don't be the side chick because what happens and again through experience, a guy can tell you he likes you and misses you, but the girlfriend will always be a priority. this means that you will always be there for him whenever he fights with his girlfriend or when he gets lonely. TRUST ME HUN, no one wants to be that booty call.
Thirdly, a close friend of mine always told me to question everything. This does not make you suspicious or overbearing, but rather open to the ideas and opinions of other people. He may say he misses you and he may say he cries over you, but what if that is just a reason for you to stick around. remember you deserve better than that and no man or boy should make you feel like you're worth less than nothing. You are smart enough to realize that you do not need someone in your life who will treat you miserably or make you cry at night.
Finally, if he does end up calling things off in his relationship, do not be quick to assume he wants to be with you or that you guys can be together, because again if you do end up with him after the break up, you become what society calls the rebound and similarly to the booty call, no girl OR guy wants to be the rebound. Either way it both hurts.
Like i said, you're a smart girl, please make the right decision.
Hope this Helps
-Sandy
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For one thing, I don't know your ages. If real young, pre teen and teen age, it may just be due to lack of experience that you don't see the obvious answer as the other advice person mentioned, that if you both are miserable apart, you should be together. I see no reason for either of you to date a person you don't even want to be with.
May you are both legally adults able to make your own decisions but feel religious pressures from one family or both, or social status pressure from one family or both. It is not unheard of for a parent/parents to order their child to marry someone of the same faith or of the same or a higher social bracket to have the financial stability. that is fine but money cant by love.
If you are in this situation, then you need to live your live for yourself instead of allowing others to live theirs through you by making all your choices for you. They can not have that control without you giving it to them tho.
Heres another scenerio I will share and yet none of these may help as you didn't provide enough info to help me give a better answer for your situation.
Sometimes, a boy and girl can be best friends for years and then puberty hits or love starts to bloom very slowly, sneaking up on them rather than a one time big impact, this is still very real true love. the two do not talk and share their feelings for fear of ruining their friendship if sharing how they feel, that it will change the dynamics of their relationship if one does not feel that way and they lose the friendship. Since both of you are miserable apart, I'm 100% sure the both of you feel the same about each other. People who are best friends first but fall in love along the way, will force themselves to date other people rather than ask their best friend for fear of losing them. It isn't fair to the people either of you are dating if this is whats happening with you. they think you are crazy about them when instead your heart desires someone else. the tears of sadness are the clue.
Here is a fact you may not know, that the most rewarding and stable loving long term relationships, married or not, have the same two important things in common:
The two people are not only each others best friend but
2. they also have a very strong romantic, love and sexual connection
Too many couples have only one or the other and therefore the relationship is rocky or doesnt last.
If you have been best friends with this boy for some time, then you and he need to have a talk and reveal to each other how you really feel. You are already sad and hurting. Living apart and marrying others for life at some point means you'll be unhappy for life, live with regrets and always be wondering 'what if we had got together?'
Thats no way to live. It is better to take the chance of losing ones best friend if you discover they don't feel the same as you, they'll go on happy with the right person and you'll get over your hurt if you know they didn't feel the same but the hurt of being apart by choice when you both miss each other is something that can last a lifetime and never heal.
Hope this helps. If I didnt guess right, write again and let us know more specifics of your situation so we can help.
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well i think it means that your both really not happy without each other and he should just end things now with his lady and be with you....the answer seems pretty simple here even though its probably a bit more complicated then that because if life WERE this simple there would be a whole lot more happier people walking around right. lol.
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