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what is ON his mind me or not me? I don't get men
I have not HEARD from him since 28 of June wtf.?i asked u ever liked me and he said duh yea. we can try . next day he ask me you wanna come see me I got mad cause we 38 miles away and he should of asked it nicer and my RESPONSE was na no. he said playing games is gay and stop texting me and I was like no more.
I miss and I ain't texting him
what is happening
I wish so bad he could text me does he have any idea
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He sounds like...
1) He has no respect for men/women (you didn't mention your gender which makes it a little difficult)
2) He's a player
3) He's only trying to use you for something to do
Even though you miss him, you deserve way better. The best thing to do is find someone who's worthy of your time, maybe closer, and definitely more polite. I wish you luck c:
~Mandi
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Danicus answered truthfully.
I will say that I am positive that your intent was NOT to play games or do anything wrong or hurtful to the relationship. Its just that people of today who grew up with cell, pc's and texting are finding they have even less ability and common ability to do the right things in a relationship. We relate to many, not just sweethearts, but an error such as the words you shared, would hurt a family member, or friend as well. A relationship between a male and female if they bond closely can be the strongest and most fulfilling relationship in your life, but it takes work, hard work and determination and effort on both parts, to make it work. Its not just love and cuddly feeling all the time. It actually takes good communication skills, some very basics of understanding human personality types, some very basic psychology and the ability to place yourself (in your imagination) in the other persons shoes to be able to understand why a person reacts a certain way, why they do or don't do certain things.
One more thing I'd like to point out is that it is very important to not let things done or said to you be taken personally. Its not about you as often as its something about the other person, maybe inexperience in communicating well and thus angering other or being misunderstood often.
So you allowed yourself to react in anger. Anger never solves things, only makes situations worse. I know from experience. I am a Scorpio. We're known to have tempers. I learned quickly how to control mine when repeatedly things fell apart if I reacted in anger. So hon, I am not judging you. All you need to do is study on male-female relationships, and better communication for couples or with anyone. It would take forever for me to just share the actual helping advice in those areas. You can get a better more thorough teaching through books on the subject. Ask at your local library what relationship help books they might have. A librarian can find it faster than you can. Or look for these kinds of books in bookstores. You could also do searches for basic dating advice on youtube. There are some really good video's out there. Dating do's and don't for women, Better communication between partners, etc... I wish you the best dear.
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You were playing games with him already and you weren't even in the relationship yet. He asked you if you wanna visit him and you got mad cause he wasn't nicer about it? He told you he wasn't into playing games and he meant it. How would you react if you invited him over and HE got mad cause you weren't nice enough about it? Think about it. What would YOU think? No man (or anyone for that matter) wants to deal with that. Sorry. Let this be a lesson in playing games with people.
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