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Okay, i dont usually do this, but i cant trust my friends with this one. I have a boyfriend who ive been dating for 13 months. in the last four months, ive started to fall for a guy i work with and have been working with for two years, we are jokingly refered to as the work couple. lately my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot, and i spend more time at work (im working full time this summer) i dont think that i will be truly happy with either relationship, but the situation im in right now isnt appealing either. i feel like im losing interest in my boyfriend, yet i love him just as much.
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talk to your bf about your fighting and just keep it on the down low about the worker guy and try to work things out before making any drastic changes
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omg i need hellppp!! ok so there is this guy wwho was my best friend he asked me aout and we went out for about a month then one day out of no were he broke up with me and a day later went out with another girl. i cried for days adn i was still in ove with him the today he calls me up and says i made a huge mistake i dont know why he said he didnt think he liked me untilli was gone he realised how much he did he said he only wen tout with the other girl because he friedn pressured him in to doing it and my other best friend as a guy told em the same thing so i noe thats true he said he like me and that every one deserves a secound chance and he said he was not ganna force me to say yes again he promissed he wasnt lieing and then he asked me if i would give hima secound chance and i said yes did i make the wrong choice please help me out
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well if you really like him then it was a good decision, but you have to remember that he did break your heart, and that he cannot do it again unless he has a good reason. make sure he knows that or it might happen again. it is not completely his fault though, becasue his friend did pressure him. and that is a rele rele bad feeling.
It might also be a good reason that you said yes again because he was your best friend before, and you two know each other well.
i think it is sweet that he only realized what he had when it was gone. it almost puts you in charge.lol
tell me if you need anymore help! i will try my best!
tell me how it goes!
hope i helped
~dorin
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Well i've liked this girl for awhile. I am planing to tell her how i feel on Valentines Day. Are there any ideas how I could tell her? Also, are there any gift ideas?
Thanks in advance!
P.S. - We are both 13, and she is kind of a silly person if that helps any... (link)
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well i am 13. and i kinda am a funny, sarcasticy girl, so if you think she will be akward and shy with something like a regular teddy bear (which is still very sweet) then get one of those teddy bears that talk and have it say something witty or funny. or chocholate roses. those are soo cute! they might be expensive though, so get a few, or a box of chocholates, like godiva or something cute.
also a regular bouquet of flowers, either very colorful, one color, or (alittl eedxpensive) white, pink and red roses. they are so effing pretty together!
hope i helped! ask me in my in box if you have any other questions, or comments!
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how do i get the guy i like who kinda likes me too to ask me 2 homecoming if its this saturday? (link)
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who says guys have to ask the girls anyway ask him yourself....but if you don't wanna ask yourself try to be around him a bit more, but don't be too clingy. and try to be alond eoth him sometimes, so that he has a chance to asctually ask you out without all his friends around him and stuff.
ask me anytime!
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How old do you think you should be for it to be okay for you to start dating? I need a lot of opionions !! all ages!! please in your answer put how old you are because i really need a lot of different point of views...
thanks soo much
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well it depends, when you are little you can date but it's not as serious, like in elementry, (3rd or 4th grade)
and then in middle skool it gets a little more serious, (like hooking up and stuff, and after that it is definetely more serious. so i think like 5th or 6th grade
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-dorito
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Alright, well basically the story goes that i'm a freshman. And my first homecoming is a big deal to me. I said yes to a sophmore who i barely know. Then after about two weeks I said I didn't want to go with him.(this happened today) I feel so guilty but he never talks to me or even tries to get to know me. I want to go with my best friend ever (whos a guy duh) but i secretly like him and he goes to another high school. He wants to go with me too. I feel really bad about ditching the sophmore though and all my friends think im a big bitch for doing that. What do I do? Go with my bff? and do u think my decision to break the date was wrong. any advice is appreciated. im a girl also. thanks!! (link)
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definetely go with your bff, he sounds cute and u probably like him alot more and will have a better time with him...unless you won't
go with the guy that you think you would have more fun with, and who cares about the other guy you barely kno and your friends will get over it eventually
And maybe he'll like you even more b4 the party is over... ;)
ta da
have fun!
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I am attracted to guys but there are these two women i am too. One is my moms friend who is 42 and her daughter who is 17. I like them a lot like more than friends and im only 13. After i stop liking these two girls i dont think i will like any others. After thse two im back to guys 100%. Am i bi? (link)
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yes, u might be and who caresa it doesn't matter anyway...but u might no want ot go for te 42 year oild that is a little...not for your age. Just don't make a big deal abvout it...
-hope i helped!-good luck!
--dorinflower55
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After my boyfriend & I broke up, I started hanging out with my guy friend a whole lot. We got really close & end up having sex a few times. He was pretty much my rebound guy and it was a huge mistake. He thought that it really meant something & told me he loved me. Now, we are just friends. I told him I was sorry, but I didn't like him like that & liked being single. Everytime I flirt with a guy, he gets extremely mad/jealous and brings up what happened between us. I could never tell him it was a mistake because he's too sensitive & I just want to forget it ever happened. How do I tell him I want to be single & flirt without him getting all mad and saying I'm a slut? (20, F) (link)
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well, you shouldn't have had sex with him, let alone more than once-that gives him the REALLY wrong impression-sex isn't just all for fun, it is for love also, that's probably what he thought too. Try telling him that you don't love him anymore (evene though u never really loved him, it's pokay to lie a bit) and that u both have to move on. try hanging out eith him a little less. and don't go to him only after a break up-it could really hurt his feelings.
-hope i helped-good luck!
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I want to dump my boyfriend...and yes I have my reasons. He asked me if I would go to the movies with him this Friday. And I said I would, but since then I have decided I want to dump him. I don't know what to do now though. Because I went with him to the movies last week and he thought I got mad at him there. But I didn't. His friend told me that my boyfriend was shy last week and he wanted to give me a kiss and everything but he was to shy. And he was going to this Friday. I need advice on what to do, because there is another guy that I want to go out with, when me and my boyfriend break up. I'm not sure if I want to dump my boyfriend before or after the movies. What do you think?
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i think you might wanna dump him b4, so then you will not have to deal with going with him somewhere you don't wanna go. also if he does kiss you at the movies then it will be harder to break up with him. you don't wanna put his hopes up for nothing. you wanna get it over with as soon as possible or then you will hesitate and put it off for later. then you will have to deal with not being with the one you actually like.
-hope i helped a little!
-dorinflower55
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14/f ok ive liked one guy and only one in my whole life.. we went out before but barely talked it was pretty stupid and now he has a g/f.. guys have asked me out and theres nothing really wrong with them.. i just cant because i always want to be open for him.. i dont want to be this way forever, always wanting him.. how am i supposed to get over it? (link)
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try going out with another guy, or just hanging out with more guys as friends. It might take your mind off him and then you'll be more open. try to think if there was maybe one characteristic you like about him in particular and look for another guy who has that characteristic. it might help.
-hope i helped a little
-dorinflower55
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well.. i have a boyfriend.. and i really love him and stuff but sometimes i feel like hes not treating me "best" although he seems a little obsessed.. haha and theres about 6 other guys that i could go to.. but i know if i break up wtih him for them ill never be able to get over him! hes an awesome guy.. help please!
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this has happened to me b4, try talking to him or getting your friend to talk to him, and tell him to give you a bit of space. if that doesn't work than just follow you heart, if you love a nother boy more then just break up with this guy and see if yu have a chance.
good-luck!
-dorinflower55
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My boyfriend and I really like each other but we don't exactly like each other’s friends.
My friends are the normal, get along with everyone, don't drink too too much, aren't slut/whores/man whores type.
His are the go to every party they can, get as drunk as they can, stuck up, screw everyone that comes along type.
"Popularity" wise, our friends as on the same level I guess you could say. We're all the "Abercrombie preppy" type and go to some of the same parties. I just don't like the way his friends act and he doesn't like how my friends don't act.
He isn't completely like his friends but he also isn't as "reserved" as mine. And Vice versa with me; I'm not as "reserved" as mine but also not as crazy as his.
Well, even though I don't really like his friends I'm still nice to them. He isn't as nice with my friends. He's always ignoring them and he actually tries not to talk to them. I don't really mind that he doesn't like them because I don't like his friends but it makes me mad when he isn't nice to them. I mean, he isn't mean but he could be nicer, ya know?
I was thinking of throwing a party for only his friends and mine so they could get to know each other more and then they might not hate each other so much. But I don't think I'll do that because I know my friends and his friends and they wont be into it.
And by the way, his friends are okay with me but my friends don't like him too much but they are nice to him.
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tell him that even though he doesn;t like your friends, he still has to be nice to them, because you mnake an effort to be nice to his friends. Tell him to tell his friends to be a little nicer around your friends.
hope i helped
-dorinflower55
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sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance? (link)
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in think you still have a chance but you have to wait for him and his new girlfrend to stop loving each other. He might still have feelings for you and have feelings for her too, he just doesn't know how to deal with them. Just wait a little, if he doesn't break up with her then too bad, go on with your life. if he does break up with her then ask your friend to ask him again. If he says he loves you then good for you, if he doesn't then i am sorry...
-dorinflower55
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