Hey my name is becky and im here to help. if had alot of problems in my life and people have help me so i guess im returnig the favor. I like sports and i do good in shcool. i think i can pretty much answer w/e u thorw at me.!
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I've liked this guy for a while and now he knows it, I haven't told him but he just figures/d it out. So, next week we're going to a party together and everyone who knows us says we should go together and that Josh likes me and he acts like it and says stuff that makes it obvious he does but when I ask him what stage he thinks our relationship is at he was like "Friendship" and I was like "That's it?" and he was like "Friends..getting closer and closer and closer..to the...top..like dating." He says that he does like me but he's not sure about exactly how he feels and all. He's trying to think it all through a whole lot. He doesn't think I know him that much, that I don't know the "whole" him. So, we talk and he said he wants me to come over his house sometime. We've gotten to be very close/good/whatever you wanna call it friends since school started. We're always ALWAYS talking to each other. In and outside of school. Another thing, he likes to talk about my "bubble butt". One day he even played the beginning of "Baby got back" up to "I like big butts and I cannot lie" and he was like "Thats all about you" and I was like "Why?" and he was like "Big butt". So the other day, we were talking about the party and he was like "How freaky and crazy do you get when you dance?" and I was like "Depends on how hyper I am" and he was like "You should eat a lot of sugar before you come" and I was like "And why is that?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed. So then I said, "Are you gonna dance with me?" and he said, "Of course," then he said, "I need a girl with hips" and I laughed. Then he asked me what I was going to wear and I said I didn't know and he said, "You should wear a real tight skirt" and I was like "Why is thaaat?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed again.
Me and him are always flirting no matter what, always talking and we talk about anything and everything and he comes up to me a lot at school just to talk to me. Even when we're in a group, we always manage to all behind or go ahead of the group just caught up in talking to each other. One day, we fell behind our group after lunch and we were goofing around in the hall and I pushed him and he pushed me and I pushed him and this boy behind us was like "Hey Josh, quit flirting with your girlfriend and get to class before you're late" and he just smiled slightly and looked from the boy to me, then we kept walking. I don't know, it's like there's some kind of connection between us that everyone else around us sees.
Another thing, I asked him if me and him were locked in a room together(we'd been asking each other hypothetical questions) would he want to make out with me and he said "Whatever you felt okay with" and he asked me "Would you want to?" and I was like "Yeah" and he said he'd want to, too. We also talked about once he got a new bike(not bicycle) that he wanted me to come over and ride with him.
I'm not sure what to do. I really want to hook up with him but I'm just so confused. I'd like to know what everyone else thinks of my situation if you could, thanks so much and I'm sorry this thing was so long. Anyone who actually finished reading it and still wants to reply, you are very patient and I really appreciate it. Thanks. (link)
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go for it. if you like him and feel comfy doing this then go for it. who know , you miht get to know him better. it sounds like fun. i think yoursituation is comon so i think if you dont go then u might regret no goinng. have fun , enjoy your self , be safe!
>>Becky
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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do? (link)
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if you really like this boy then ignore your head and follow your heart. your age may seem BIG now but most people end up marrying people up to 10 yrs apart. 2 years isnt really bad . id say go for it !
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OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks (link)
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call him one day and if he says he call you back later then tel him no i want to settle this now ! get every thing straigt and if he keeps this up , try and scrae him tell him its over if he keeps saying this stuff.
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well I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. I feel i am insecure about myself and constantly feel myself feeling and thinking that i am not as pretty as the girls that he sees. I have become controlling because i tell him he cant look at other girls and he can not have girl friends. I feel if he loves me like he says he does then why does he need to talk to other girls. I do not like him to work with pretty girls because i am afraid that he will flirt with them and not tell me. I get angry when he stares at other girls. We are constntly fighting. Is this all my fault. How can i stop being so scared that he is going to leave me for someone better. Even though everyday he says he wont i still get scared. And when i even see a pretty girl i say she is ugly so he wontlook . i know we care and love eachother so much . i do not want us to fight we are getting married soon please help my problem stop (link)
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Oh gosh thats tough huh? really sit with him and talk that you get worried about him . But if you guys are really in love, then u will learn to trust him
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Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school! (link)
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anserw to 1- do some things he would like or talk about things hes familar with like old school memories or if hes into foot ball talk to him about that.
anserw to 2- go to a movie and see if he ptus his arm around u if he does then from there it will build up.
answerw to 3- well get him a gift and call him alot ask if her wants to maybe go to the sk8ing rink or to a movie or somthing
hope ive help happy holidays
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha (link)
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All dads are liked that " I HAT THAT BOY" " daddy u never met him" "I DONT CARE" my dads like that but aprents are suposed to love their kids uncondionally no matter what they . This really is a tuff decision. if ur not reddy with ur bf tell him ur not maybe u shud postpone it . i hope it all works for u in the end. GL
*becky*
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my bf and me go to diff skools and we see eachother mostly lyke ery other day or something but we havent seen eachother for a week...well hes at the mall with his frends...and the mall is about 6 blocks away from my house...and hes walking around with his friends and hes like @ this church thats 3 blocks away frmo my house..he knows where i live n stuff but he "cant cmoe see me bc his friends will only come if i hav friends for them" and none of my friends r home....so ther goin bak 2 the mall....it really hurts my feelings bc I ALWAYS go 2 his house hes been to my house TWICE and i go to his EVERYTIME...so he called n was like uhh idk ill call u later if something comes up n we happen to go by ur house again and iw as like watever have fun at the mall bye nd i hung up on him...im realllly mad at him.....wat do i do? hes gonna b online tonite i kno that for a fact n hes gonna b all sweet 2 me....and if he calls bak....do ii answer?? wat do i say? =\ (link)
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tell him to start pulling his own weight! if he wants u for a gf then hes gota make things equal like u switch off going to eachothers house and tell him that it wasnt right to have his friends controll weather he comes to see u or not. and thats not right that theyre using u for your friends. im not real sure what to say and if he does call back answer it and talk to him aboutthis.
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me and my bfs relationship is not very well right now...we jsut got into a small fight a week ago and made up but we havent seen eachother for a week...we always see eachother every other day....and its mostly his fault....idk...im really pissed....he is @ the mall right by my house right now....and he called from his older brothers cell and sed if i wanted 2 meet up there with him i said ya but i had no ride and i didnt wanna walk and *he coulda offered to come swing by my house n pick me up* and then he was like well my older bro is about to leave so i wont ahv a fone but my friend is comin so ill call u back frmo his phone n see wat he wants to do (like if they wer just gonna come over) and he sed hed call me bak...and HE HASNT its been over an hour....HE ALWAYS DOES THIS....whenever we make plans THEY NEVER HAPPEN....how can i talk to hmi bout this i dont wanna break up with him i really love hmi (we been together for 11 months)...but lately hes been pissin me off....wat do i say??=[ (link)
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grr thats annoying isnt it? next time u shud make the plans from start to finish u arange the rides and calls and places so he cant screw it up. think about the things he likes such as if he likes rock music, suggest a locol rock show or if he likes sports go to a AAA team base ball game or skating. or just somthing as plain as a movie but if u dont wanna break up with him but ur getting mad.....become a threat. make him feel like hes letting u down make him feel guilty like hes gunna lose u and that will hit him like a ton of bricks that he should try to get with you more. i hope i helped u
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Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do? (link)
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well try and find a day when u know u wont be busy then call him and ask if he would like to go to the mall and if u do go then maybe he'll get to know u more and like you more and wont flirt with other girls. ignore those other girls maybe thier jelous cus he likes you not them.and if he smokes weeed and u are against it just tell him "i wont make you quit but i ask that you dont do it around me." he should understand.
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PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!! (link)
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hmmm.... toughie.... try getting one of your friends to ask one of his friends if he likes u taht way u wont be the one asking and ull still find out. try and get people to find out for u...
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Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!) (link)
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hmm i felt that way when i qwent out w/ my 1st real bf..... u say u cant imagin going out to dinner with him.....then dont. maybe to skating or go to a movie. personally i dont like going to dinner much either, u say u also dont know what u wud do with one.... well u could talk to him on the phone and exchange gifts (x mas is commin soon *wink*) and go places with him... u dont have to get real serious to where u have to go to his house or go to dinner, just do what u think your ready for. oh yea ps. it dont matter what his friends think..... if he likes u thats all that counts.
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ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more? (link)
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Well try and play it cool.....trya and meet her at places like the movies or a resturant every once in awhile or call her and email her alot ...... heck send her flowers... with relation ships were u dont see each other alot .... the relationship starts to break apart so do what ever u can to let her know u sttill love and care about her.
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how can you tell when a guy likes u? ill rate (link)
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Hey.... some times it can confuse u when trying to figure that out, but try and make a trap for him to fall into..... like drop somthing in the hall and see if he helps you.....or try and get your friends to find out or try and find out from his friends........ if that doesnt work....let me knw ill see if i can give u more.
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