hey everyone... Im just a girl that loves to give advice...and hopefully im good at it...dont get mad at what i say tho because all I do is tell the truth on how i feel
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ok, so heres the delio, i had been waitin for this guy to ask me out for 4 months, he had told a bunch of ppl he was gunna and we had been flirting and stuff, well he finally did on halloween, and i said yes , well 3 or 4 days into the relationship he gets in a fight with my friends, see hes christian and he believes no sex beofre marriage and no abortion and that kinda stuff which is what i believe too, but my friend dosnt, and so he called her a prostitue, well i stuck up for my friend, and was pretty much you dont have any right to call her that, you can tell her what she believes is wrong but thats crossing the line, and he got mad and is now ignoring me because i "took their side" over his, he has been ignoring me for the last 5 freakin days! and i have apolgized like 3 times, even though i feel like i did nothing wrong, and today i finally said we either need to fix this or break it off, because i dont want to be in a relationship where my boyfriend ignores me, even though i really really like him, but im sick of it, what should i do? should i try and work things out, or break it off with him? (link)
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if hes getting pissed off for you standing up for you friend hes just being an *** tell him that you dont think you did anything wrong and say that you wish hed forgive you but it was your friend so you stuck up for her...hopefully thatll work but if he wont forgive you then maybe you should just end it
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about brothers and sisters having sex
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what? im not exactly sure i remember what your talking about but like when brothers and sisters have sex if they have kids they have deformities and having sex with your sister or brother is just kinda gross
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Well this is a record 2 problems from me in one night...
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months. I'm 16, he's 18. We are having sex. Mom knows, but hates the fact and thinks he wouldn't stay with me if I told him I didn't want to have sex anymore, and I'm DYING to prove her wrong.
But the thing is, I don't really want to stop the sex because quite honestly, I like it. lol. Obviously he does, too, but I know he'd stay with me even if I did say I wanted to stop. Our relationship is based on pure love, not lust. (not to mention the fact that we're engaged. Mom doesn't know that, though. She won't know for about 3 or 4 years.) Mom doesn't believe he'd stay with me. I'm dying to prove her wrong, but that involves sacrifice on my part.
If I actually wanted to test him, I'd have to lie to him, and I don't want to lie to him...
What should I do? Should I test him and prove mom wrong, or just leave it alone? (link)
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leave it alone..if youre engaged he obviously really love YOU not just sex...i mean if you want to prove her wrong that he really wouldnt stay with you tell her that you are engaged and shell realize that he doesnt just love sex
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i had planned on asking one of my sort of guy frineds out at our schools homecoming game , and i had told all my friends that i was asking him a while after he got there and that i was gonna ask him alone, i didnt want my friends coming in to play and pressuring him. so when he got there i got there my friend called him over by her and then she told me to come over by her like she was setting us up for me to talk to him! like "ok here now u ask him", i was so pissed so i walked away. turns out without me even telling her to she asked him out for me so she came up to me and told me how he said i dont know, for one i was mad and her and two, it was gonna be awkward the whole night now because of her, and now i dont know what to say when he gives me and answer, if he says no i dont want our friendship to be ruined, and if he says yes i'll feel wierd because i dont know why he said idk, like he didnt like me that much or something, like if he liked me why would he have to think about? help me to fix this awkward situation! (link)
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tell your friend that it was really rude of her to do that if she knew that you wanted to do that and tell him that you wanted to ask him yourself or hell think your to shy...so go up to him and say something like...im sorry for my friend...i wanted to ask you myself so DO you want to go to homecoming with me? and then hell know that you werent to afraid to ask him and that you were brave enough to take the first step...guys like when girls take the first move it takes pressure off of them for once to ask out the girl
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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
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wow that is young...i think you need to wait a little longer...i mean dont break up woth him if your really in love but i mean YOU FOURTEEN! i mean come on....you need more time to find THE ONE...like the person your SURE you want to marry i mean FOURTEEN....no affense but its kind of naive to think that you really are gonna get married and have a perfect life itll be way to stressful for you...i mean you have school and youll have to get a job if you want to live with him and are your parents really going ot approve?
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I am soooooo entirly confused! See I've liked this kid named... well lets say CJ.... I've like CJ for 2 years now... and from what I know he hasn't liked me. We've been friends for 2 years and I want something more of our relationship. He's been dropping clues that he has liked me but he also did this before, like 1/2 a year ago. The other day I was talking to him online and he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no and asked y hoping he might ask me out... but he said "uhh...nvm gtg" and then he signed off. So I am totally confused and I need advice of if he likes me and also what I should do next....
~*Confused*~ (link)
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i think he does it sounds like he thinks he could never get you or the whole friends thing will get in the way he might think itll ruin the relationship if you guys break up...but since he asked if you had a boyfriend then said he had to go right after i think he likes you...start dropping some hints that you like him to...flirt more with him...or say something about if he has a girlfriend...but if you already no say something like any girl would love to be your girlfriend or something
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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
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no deffinitely not...i know a lot of people who havent kissed anybody that are your age or older theres nothing wrong with it you just havent met the person you want to have that really special first kiss with
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ok well i think this guy that is a year older than me is cute-and like last year, we would always kinda glance at each other and stuff or look at each other if we passed in the hall ways or after school. so, this year, i have the same pe hour as him. but diff. classes. yet somehow, we got switched into the SAME CLASS. so its awkward like bc weve been like always kinda lookin at each other and stuff and now i sit 2 rows up from him. and its kinda a long story but then he was goin out with this other girl in our pe class 4 like 2 days then they broke up now shes goin out w/ someone else but the girl asked me the other day who do u like? and i was like well _____ is kinda cute and she was like omg i know i USED to be like in love with him! and i was like yeah i know but i told her not to tell n e one so i hope she wont. im so embarressed at my self bc like last year i would always like glance at him and stuff and its not like i was trying to but i would look up and he would be there like already staring at me! so idk...what should i do bc i dont want him to think im like obsessed with him... (link)
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well if he was looking at you first then he wont think that...and obviously you arent obsessed with him...but maybe you should say something to him **not necessarily that you like him but like hey whats up** and that will break the ice and mayve hell get up the guts to ask you out
**hope i helped you**
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okay, well i have a friend that has known for a REALLY long time that i have liked this certain boy..i am CRAZY about him...well she is "talking" to a boy we'll call him "tzp" and this boy that i like asked her out...and NOW shes askin me who she should choose...even though she KNOWS and has KNOWN for 3 years that i like him! UGH it makes me so mad...WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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tell her that it would hurt you so much if she went out with the guy you like and if she is a good friend she'll say ok i wont but if she says yes she IS NOT a good friend at all
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*I rate*!ok... the like 2nd week of school my friend in 7th (im in 8th) tells me that this guy told her that he likes me (hes in 9th) and he told her my first and last name and said he really wanted to go out with me but he wouldnt tell her his name... now of course after she tells me this im curious so she looks in my yearbook and says i think its him... and im like omg! cuz he is really hott and nice cuz i had p.e. and swimming the same time as him and i had a huge crush on him and i kinda still do... and i want to go out with him really bad! wut should i do?
(sry so long) i rate! haha
~Beccah~ (link)
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well it sounds like hes gonna ask you out! but until then whenever you see him flirt and start making converstaions with him this will deffinitely tell him that you like him and to give him the little push he needed to get the courage to ask you out...but dont just sit on the side and wait for him to ask you flirt flirt flirt!
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there is this guy named michael and he is my friend but then he asked me out and i said yes so i told my best friendand she said i like that guy break up wit him or i wont be ur friend not more so what do i do? (link)
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I dont think this girl is a very good friend if shes not happy for you tell her that you think its unfair for you to have to break up with him because you really really like him...if she doesnt understand thats not very nice...i dont think you should have to break up with him if you really like him
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im goin out with a guy i kind of like i mean i dunno but i like some one else ( his friend) and hes goin out with a girl (no one knosz) but hes gunna dump her i realy like him a lot and he told a lot of people he likes me and my friend asked me if i liked him and i said yess so she knew i liked him n now there goin out whut do i do im sooo confused HELP SOON (link)
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i think you need to dump the guy you dont really like and your friend sounds like shes not really a good friend if shes going out with the guy you like...
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Hey, I was on vacation n i lyked this guy that was always having sex n stuff n i dont talk to him ne more n my frens still do but they wont give me his number or sn. Now that i have a boifren my frens r saying hes asking about me n saying that he wants me to go outside my confort zone and do stuff with him if u noe wut i mean. but i still lyk him a lil bit but my fren told that to my boy fren n now there both questioning me? N i think its my frens fault but its mine too i think? wut shood i do? (link)
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well this guy**i think** probably wants more than you want to give if you really like your boyfriend a lot you shouldnt do anything but if you dont like your boyfriends y r u even going out with him? but i think you shouldnt do anything with this other boy and tell you boyfriend that nothing happened or will happen and that you like him not this other guy
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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!! (link)
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ASK HIM! dont wait for him hell take to long guys get nervous to and they like girls who take the first step
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ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do?????? (link)
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okay from a girls perspective I think you should just think before you speak...always...what kind of stupid stuff? if its just your personality i guess you cant change it but if its your nerves making you just spit out words than you should try to talk to girls and get closer to the girls you feel most comfortable around if a girl intimidates you stay away for a while until you feel more comfortable with her try and be friends before girlfriend boyfriend...girls tend to fall for the guy friend...happens to me all the time...
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Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!
-Nerveous (link)
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tell him you arent ready and want to take things slow and not makeout right away if he is rude about that then he isnt worth it
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hi. my name is nicole n im 14. ok so heres the thing. i am like in lve with this kid named robert. like in love in love n ok i dont think i will ever have a chance with this kid cuz likehe is in love with this girl even tho he seys he isnt. so like i think i kinda gave up on him n started lik in this kid chris. which is horrible cuz like my best fuckin friend likes him. i have no idea wat to do cuz like i dont have a chance with either of them n i dont wna get my heart broken again.... (cough lke alan n ian)
HELP lol (link)
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you can never know that you dont have a chance with these guys...if you really love robert tell him because if you dont youll feel horrible and never feel like you tried...but this other kid chris its probably just a crush
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i have a boyfriend who means the world to me. but some people are telling him that i flirt with this other boy.. but i dont!! he is like me best friend and i have never thought of him as being anything more than a friend to me. some of my friends say he likes me but i def dont like him at all. my boyfriend thinks i do .. but i dont know how to prove it to him that i dont! (link)
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you should tell him that your friend is only a friend and that you would never do anything to hurt him(your boyfriend) and that you would never do anything with your friend
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hey.i need help.im going out with my best friends brother.im not a bad person its just that if she eva found out she would kill me and our friendship would be ova wich means mine and my boyfriends relationship will be ova too cuz i wont be able to c him much.she is always tellin me that he isnt good enough for me but he really is.he is the sweetest peron.i hate hidding or relationship from her and keepin it a secret but i dont know what to do.i love both of them so much and i dont wanna loose them.Please i need some advice..anyone can help me.thanx so much. (link)
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tell her that you are going out and that you really like him and that you dont want it to hurt your friendship and you dont want to lose him
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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
--CoNfUsLeD-- (link)
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tell him you dont really want a relationship and that you just want to be friends...
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