hey.i need help.im going out with my best friends brother.im not a bad person its just that if she eva found out she would kill me and our friendship would be ova wich means mine and my boyfriends relationship will be ova too cuz i wont be able to c him much.she is always tellin me that he isnt good enough for me but he really is.he is the sweetest peron.i hate hidding or relationship from her and keepin it a secret but i dont know what to do.i love both of them so much and i dont wanna loose them.Please i need some advice..anyone can help me.thanx so much.
blake08 answered Friday August 6 2004, 11:37 pm: i dunno...
WEell i think that u need to decide which one is more important and go from there..If you need more advice email me at big_blake08@yahoo.com or add me to yahoo as big_blake08
Lena answered Friday August 6 2004, 6:02 pm: tell her how you feel! and be nice and honest... shes your best friend, best friends are suppost to tell each other EVERYTHING!! =) [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
TheKnightOwl answered Friday August 6 2004, 5:45 pm: You're between a rock and a hard place. The time may come when you'll have to choose, your best friend, or your boyfriend. There may be a way to circumvent this mess though. Be honest with her, sit her down, make sure she's comfortable, maybe over lunch or whatever. And then tell her, that you've been seeing her brother, and that you think it will get serious, but you want her approval first. Nine times out of ten, they will stop to think. Decide that this is really important to you, and its been really doing a number on your conscience. She may give you the okay, but I would try this. And remember, be sincere about it. If she sees that you're sincere she'll give it even more thought.
xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Friday August 6 2004, 5:03 pm: I think you should be honest with your friend and tell her what's happening - and explain to her that you would NEVER want anything to happen to you and her's relationship. Hope I helped <3 Steph [ xO_sTePhIe_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_sTePhIe_Ox A Question ]
hotcherry answered Friday August 6 2004, 4:48 pm: thats bad. You need to tell her...she'll be more pissed off when she finds out later!! If she has a problem...tell her that you guys love eachother...and she'll get over it as soon as shes done bitching like girls do. [ hotcherry's advice column | Ask hotcherry A Question ]
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