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should he still be my boyfriend, or my ex
ok, so heres the delio, i had been waitin for this guy to ask me out for 4 months, he had told a bunch of ppl he was gunna and we had been flirting and stuff, well he finally did on halloween, and i said yes , well 3 or 4 days into the relationship he gets in a fight with my friends, see hes christian and he believes no sex beofre marriage and no abortion and that kinda stuff which is what i believe too, but my friend dosnt, and so he called her a prostitue, well i stuck up for my friend, and was pretty much you dont have any right to call her that, you can tell her what she believes is wrong but thats crossing the line, and he got mad and is now ignoring me because i "took their side" over his, he has been ignoring me for the last 5 freakin days! and i have apolgized like 3 times, even though i feel like i did nothing wrong, and today i finally said we either need to fix this or break it off, because i dont want to be in a relationship where my boyfriend ignores me, even though i really really like him, but im sick of it, what should i do? should i try and work things out, or break it off with him?
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Your fifteen... there are plenty of guys who will give you the attention you deserve. If he's going to ignore you after you apologize, he's not worth your time. Especially since he expects you to take his side after 3 or 4 days. When you've been going out for like more than 3-6 months, then he should expect you to take his side, but he was out of line with what he said anyway. break up! :)
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OK seriously this is how it goes for girls...........chicks before dicks. and for guys its bros before hoes. I would have done the same thing if my girlfriend said somethin like that. so no u need to break it off he is an idiot for callin someone a prostitute because they have different beliefs. and u r a good friend keep it up.
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Well, it's great to see how loyal of a friend you are. But your boyfriend calling her a prostitute is crossing the line. Tell him that you are not sorry at all, that your friend has her own beliefs and is entitled to them. Ignore your boyfriend back. If he comes back to you, then it's your choice to accept him back or not for insulting your girl. Remember, friends last forever, boyfriends during high school usually don't. Good luck! Turn to your friends for support and help if this is tough for you, they'll help you through it. :)
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Look if he cant understand other peoples beliefs or opinions or at least tolerate them then hes a moron. He is obviously not going compromise. Men are so anal retentative sometimes. Im glad that your friends stood up to a christian male though who has no idea what its like to be pregnant so all of a sudden they get to have an opinion. And good for you for standing up to him. Id call him tell him how you feel say... " I am sorry but I would never let anyone down my friends or their beliefs just like I would never let anyone down you or your beliefs." If he does not call you back then oh well his loss your the better person for trying.
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if hes getting pissed off for you standing up for you friend hes just being an *** tell him that you dont think you did anything wrong and say that you wish hed forgive you but it was your friend so you stuck up for her...hopefully thatll work but if he wont forgive you then maybe you should just end it
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that reallie sux....u shuld tell ur bf if hes gonna b a dick then u n eed to end it or else make up now....bc ur waisting time...UR apologgizing thats all u can do....tell him thats ur friend and u think she was right on this one....tell him he can tell her her beliefs r wrong but not to call her a prostitute!...thats wrong! thats ur friend....and if he doesnt forgive u tell him its not like u wer even involved in the fight u just stuk up for ur friend! and if he kant get over it then u needa end it....tell him to stop bein so goddamn sensitive and grow up!
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