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I am fun and can give good advise wothout laughing. It may not always work but I will still do my best to anser honostly and fully. I have honestly had my fair share of problems in life and can use experience to anser problems.
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my boyfriend's birthday isn't until september, but i want to put a lot of thought into his present. i have no idea what to get him. please give me as many ideas as you can. he is a huge sports freak, so it could have to do with sports maybe or anything else. thank you soo much.
Somthing N.F.L. like a sports bag. Sports would be the way to go, or you could get him watch.
I am 12 and a half and 4 weeks ago I hooked up with a boy named Luke and I really like him. Although I am supposed to go out with him I am really scared because when my mum will pick me up if she sees him, that she will abandon me from seeing him. I am scared to tell her that I have a boyfriend because I am scared that she wont allow me to see him. Please help!
A guy is a guy and even if you do like him then it best to be truthful with your mom. Even if you don't want her to be you mom will always be in your life, not some boy. Hope I helped, and sorry if I sound a little mean
Daisyswim
I have a guy friend and I think I like him... as more than a friend. What should I do? I don't know how to react around him.
Please!
I was un the exact sane situation last year. I had the hugest crush on my best friend! It was weird but I jsut went with the flow. Act norrmal if you do he will see the best in you. Do not tell, at least not yet it could ruin your friendship. My best friend and me never got together, evern though we got really colse and I am shure he has a crush on me now. My crush went away maybe yours will too. Hope I helped
Daisyswim
hey, how can i get a guy to notice me and to like me. my friend said i should get my ears pierced and wear dangly earrings to help me get moticed but so far its not working!!!!! can you help??
Be yourself. What I did was become friends with my crush befor any major moves to be shure i like him. Friendship is the best way to go. Even if doesn't work out between you two you will always have a friend who is a guy. I have plentty of x crushes who are my friends and it is great ( they didn't know who I was until I starrted hangging out with them)
i really like this guy, and i have heard ors that he might like me. i heard them about a month ago. but now thanx 2 some blabbermouthed friends, he knows. i havent really talked to him since. cause i used to occasionally flirted w/ him. but now.... i dont know wat 2 do!!!! help!!!
Talk to him. A guy may not always want to talk about his fealings but, if you really like him then he should. No matter what happens try to stay friends, freidships last longger then boyfriends so keep that in mind. Hope I helped don't bother ratting me,
Daisyswim
There is more to life then a guy. You may like him but all the same you need to experiense all the fish in the sea, things may work out between you two and they may not. Hope I helped a little more
My boyfriend and i have been going out for a while now and he wants to do more things then hug/hold hands.. he wants to kiss/make out and i have never done that before.. so my question is how do you actually make out and what do ou do with your tongue and mouth thanks i rate 5's
Women inganewidty, you'll know what too do, dont' do it if you don't feal comfortable. The time will come and you will be ready.
Well my bf of over six months is leaving for the summer. Im not gonna be able to talk to him or see him all sumer till he comes back. So I'm thinking do we stay together or should I just tell him well see what happens when he gets back (not necciseraly breaking up)or should we just stick it out all summer and stay together. we both love each other very much Im confussed what should we do? I rate 5's!
I live in a different state then my best friend, and we still managed to be good friends. One summer won't hurt and you will stay together if you are in love. Stay together, when he gets back he will have tons to tell you and you'll have a good new topic to talk about especially how much he missed you. Hope it works out between you too good luck
Daisyswim
there is this girl named Courtney and she as a crush on my boyfriend. Well he has track with her and sits with her at lunch sometimes. Well she knows me and him are going out and she flirted with him right infront of me yesterday and then has the nerve to talk shit about me and give me dirty looks! Well me and her got into it but it was only words being said. My boyfriend yelled at me for yelling at her! He said that if I hit her at all that me and him are done! We I don't know what I should do.. its complicated! Please help!
.: Miss Confused :.
It seems like every girl I know who's name is Courtney is a witch. Tell your boyfriend not to hang around her. She has no right to flirt with your man. I don't blame you about wanting to punch her, I would too, but don't do it. It will give her plesure to see you mad. Good luck
Daisyswim
lord i dont no what to do. my dad is prejudice and theres this black boy i love half to death and he likes me i want to go out wit him but my dad said he'll kill me and that boi and i was like is love worth gettin killed over please tell me what i can do..?
No one can stop love reach for the stars and follow your heart!
Daisyswim
ok...i went out with this guy for a while on and off then finally we just stopped going out...then one of my friends went out wit him and i wasnt that comfortable at first but then got used to it but still thoguht about him..they broke up for a couple days and i started liking him again..but they got back together..and i still have feelings for him...whut should i do!?
Tell your friend the truth. She will understand. If you still have fealings for him then you need to resolve them befor it gets out of hand. If he still has fealings for you maybe you need to discuse them. Your friend will understand, but just remember
Guys never
Friends 4 ever
Daisyswim
Okay heres the deal...
Ive been dating this GREAT guy i mean he's perfect..But im not exactly the most loyal person..So over spring break i lost mah virginity 2 some one else..Yeah i kno its bad and n a way i regret it..But the otha guy well call him Will is soo hot, popular, cute, sweet, and hes jus a lil freak and we mesh good togetha. PLus i think (i know) i could really stop my game for Will which would be a HUGE achievement for me!! Now on 2 mah boifriend again well call him Jay. Jay is okay lookin, sweetheart, says he loves me 2 death, hes perfect ecspect..he cant make me laugh like Will and he thinks hes funni when hes not @ all..Me & Will jus have more n common PLUS he took my virginity!
Well i dont want 2 be with Jay anymore but im n fear of hurting him AND everyone says ill be making a huge mistake because hes so good 2 me.
But I would prefer 2 date Will jus for the simple fact we have more n common..
But i dont know what 2 do OR HOW 2 DO IT!!
-Caught Up-
O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please.
Guys can be jerks, but I am pretty short, have braces and get strait A's to so I know. The right guy will come and will see threw all that. You will get your braces off soon, and you still mite grow. I don't think anyone can have friends who say they are not pretty. Maybe they are jelous. Someone will come, don't worry. Hope, do well and peace out
Daisyswim
i have been friends with this guy for a while now and umm we are really good friends. ALL of our friends say we should go out cause they all know that i like him more than a friend they all say we look so cute together and blah blah blah and he even knows i like him cause we talked about it one night but he said he just wanted to stay friends cause he didnt think of me as more than that. i was okay with that or thats what i told him but im really not i want to be more than that but i just dont know what to do he like this one girl that i dont like that much not cause he likes her but because she is a hoe!!! when im around him i feel like i can tell him anything even though he tells his friends but i dont care, he just makes me feel free, i guess you could say. his parents seem to like me but im not to sure cause i get nervous when im at his house. i dont know what to do can you help??
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Try your best to think about what you really feal. I have a friend who i have fealings for too. But, maybe you should ask one more time. After all he is a boy they don't talk about fealings. If your his friend then tell him how you feal about the hoe-girl. You need to make the desion for yourself, it's your life. And maybe he just needs some time.
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