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HELP ME! I WILL RATE 5s FOR ANYONE WHO TRYS TO HELP! i am going out with this guy that i really like and i kinda like this other guy to and he likes me and idk what to do cause i like the guy i am going out with and i dont want us to break up! what is a better choice. THANKS SO MUCH

stick with the guy you are going out with, i mean you obviously really like him and you were with him first, if the crush on this other guy gets to be bigger than the crush on ur bf then you should break up but for now it seems like you still like your bf too much to just break up with him
good luck!

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ok, my girlfriend's dad died the other day (they were on vacation in Qubec with her, her dad, her mom, & 2 friends) & so she was very upset & so she broke up with me. I understood & said it was ok. & so I bought her a card (witch I'm gonna send once I get her address from her friend) & I'm afraid to call her & everything cos I don't want to talk about it & that'd be the only thing we'd talk about.

but what I'm asking is if I should wait for her to get over it all & maby go back with her, or if I should just move on?

more about our realationship, she lives about 45 mins. away & I haven't been able to see her much & I haven't been the best boyfriend since I'm going through some really hard times right now, but I try

I'm 14/M & shes 14/F

thanks

ok you need to ask yourself how much you care about her, if you care enough to wait for her, then i would wait, if you dont think it is worth waiting, and maybe you would break up anyway because of the distance then just move on, do you think she is worth the wait?? how long could you really go with the distance? i know i'm just askind questions when i should be answereing them but you are the only one who can answer those questions
good luck

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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

well there is no absolute correct answer to the question because all guys act differently, if he flirts with you, seems to watch you a lot, acts truly interested in you, pays more attention to you than other girls, maybe even gets a lil upset when you talk to another guy (he may be jealous) otherwise all you can do is maybe have a friend ask him or talk to his friends, show an interest in him and see how he responds, i really hope this helped
good luck with him!

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i like a guy, but whenever im around him i get nervous and start acting like i don't like him (like im not interested) and basically ignore him. And its not just around that guy, its like around all of them. what can i do to make talking to guys easier?

that's actually a really hard question: ok i would just pretend like the guy is your best friend and maybe when you start to get to know him better things will get easier. If know that you are doing this couldnt you stop yourself in the process? just calm down and think to yourself that he is just another person, things should get easier as you go. sorry if that wasn't much help!

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Well. For your sake of answering, here's a summary.

I met this guy, I'm pretty sure we like each other alot. hopefully that is.. We've been dating for about a month, but yeah I am prone to get jealous Really Easily I honestly don't know why, but that's how it is.. Well This guy always is really nice to other girls.. like comments he leaves on his friend's blogs and xangas or whatever.. he's always like Super nice to them.. and it seems like lately, he's been less nicer(??) to me. AND being prone to jealousy I'm getting a little jealous.. Is that bad? well What should i Do? should i just lay back and just let him do what he does.. or interfere? well thanks for ur help

ok um i think you should wait a little bit and see how it goes, meybe he is just going through a phase or something, if it doesnt change or it gets worse i would talk to him but be careful of what you say because if you say something like "i dont understand why you seem to like other girls more than me" he will get mad but just talk to him about how you feel without making him feel bad and if things dont change then i hate to tell you but maybe you two werent meant to be
good luck
hope i helped

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ok.. this guy at school likes me and i kinda like him. But he said he might ask me out. The only thing is that he has a reputation of being a jackass and doing stuff with girls. And i always see him like hugging other girls and stuff. SO even if i was going to go out with him i would be nervous bout it cuz all the stuff above makes it look like he might cheat on me. what should i do?! PLEase hELP!

i would give him a chance becuase you never know when someone could pull through and are you positive that stuff about him is true?? maybe he isnt even like that or if he is then maybe he will change but if you do go out with him be careful and watch closely to see how he acts, maybe talk to his friends and see what they say about him

good luck!

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there is this guy at school who likes me ALOT! and i kinda like him, but hes part of the popular group, and im not really.. im just part of the normal group. His friends asked him "why do you like her, she doesnt hang out with us, she doesnt deserve you" should i go out with him even though his friends said that, and people would make fun of me if i went out with him? PLEASE HELP!

if the guy likes you and admits to it then popularity obviously isnt a problem for him, who cares what his friends think! if you like him then go for it! i mean c mon he sounds like a real good guy and if he is willing to forget the popularity differences then you should too...

good luck!

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I am a 15/m. I was wondering what girls expected from a guy. Guys tend to want to feel girls breasts etc. and most likely go further. Do girls want to go this far with guys? What is your personal experiance with this and what did you feel. How far would you want to go with a guy. Lets say it was a serious realtionship also.

ok well the farthest i would go would be second base... and that's if it's a really serious realationship, there are many girls who would go a lot further so i might not be the right one to ask this question anyway i hope that kinda helps

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O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please.

ok first of all if you have friends that tell you that then they arent really your friends, second if a guy doesnt like you for who you are on the inside then he isnt a good boyfriend, and third i'm sure you are beautiful and smart and funny, you just have to wait for the right guy to come along... i know it's hard waiting especially when everyone else seems to have a boyfriend and you dont, but if you wait you will find an amazing guy that will love you because of who you are and will look past your braces... if guys at your school dont like you becuse of that then they are all shallow and dont deserve someone like you... i know it's hard to wait but hang in there!!!

have fun and enjoy being single! it's not all THAT bad!

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Does age really matter when your falling in love? I'm fourteen and I would like to think anything is possible. I've been dating this guy for a short period of time but it has felt different than anything other than before. On this chain letter thing, and I know this sounds so stupid, but I made a wish to fall in love with him. My friends hate the fact that this guy and I are together, but for the first time I couldn't care less what my friends think. What do you think, is it possible?

of course it's possible!!! i know this one couple who met when they were 13 and they are married still today! just dont do anything rash like go all the way with him because that can totally ruin a relationship then you arent ready... but have fun and enjoy it!

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the guy i like broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago because he liked me, but then he started going out with another girl. they just broke up. he knows i like him and he told his friend that i'm cool and hott but he needs to get to know me more. and i'm not sure what to do because i talk to him like everyday. any suggestions? is this a lost cause?

ok try and hang out with him, get together with him on the weekends and stuff, mostly just try and be his friend because then if you end up going out you will know him a lot better and it will be easier to talk to him... i dont think it's a lost cause but dont act like you're gonna be around for forever and dont act needy, just be yourself around him and if he doesnt like you then it wasn't meant to be and there are plenty more guys out there that are probably better... good luck!!

much luv
donny

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Ok there is this kid at school and i really like him and he likes me. But im afraid to tell him that i like him because i think ill be imberrassed. Plzzzzzzzzz help me.


signed in love but confused.

i would just tell him, if he likes you and you know it then what is there to be embarrassed about?? maybe just start talking to him and ask him who he likes even though you already know then he will probably ask you who you like and just say that you like him, don't be scared what's the worst that could happen?? besides he probably already knows you like him... good luck!

much

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I like this guy, like SOO much and no matter who i date or how much i try he's the ONLY guy on my mind. The thing is he's a popular sophmore, and im a not so popular freshman. but he's different from all the popular guys i've known though, like hes really caring and REALLY easy to talk to ..
I told him i liked him a long time ago but he said he didn't really no me well enough to like me.. so its been like a month and half and hes started to act different towards me like in gym we had to carry really really heavy boxes because we were doing reconditioning, and he offered to take my box, but nobody elses. and just like it came up in convorsation who he liked but he wouldn't say like it was a HUGE secret (my friends said its beacuse they think he likes me, but i dunno).
And yesterday when we were gettin out of school he was behind me, and he threw a nickel and it hit my back pack, but i didnt even realize anyone threw it so i kept walking. and three other times he threw pennys and i didnt do anything. and after he threw the last one he's like "Hey" and i turend around and "he's like im trying to get ur attention here and" and im like so why r u throwing stuff at me like kidding around and hes like b/c i can. then he asked how i was and then got on his bus .. but i dunno its just weird .. maybe im being to hopeful or could this possibly mean something? ... how do i tell if he might possibly like me .. or if he's just friendly ..

he's definitely flirting with you and it sounds like he really likes you... just flirt back and see how it goes from there, but make sure that he's not just a big flirt who does this with everybody :)

much

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ok well i like this guy. i dont know if he has a girl friend. he always says hi to me and gives me hugs. and were both like involved with singing adn stuff at school so we like sing songs together and stuff. and he kissed me on the cheek once when he was leaving somewhere. and he asked for my cell phone number. and once he tried to hook up with me. stupidly i didnt know and didnt even open my mouth! ha ha. anyway i wanna know if he likes me. and if he does then what should i do? should i ask him out, or wait for him to ask me out, or ask a friend to ask him to go out with me? i am really confused and i really like him. please help!

ok i think he definitely likes you, unless he acts like that around everyone (he might just be a flirt which can kind of suck sometimes because you can get mixed signals) but i'm kind of old fashioned when it comes to the asking out thing i think the guy should ask the girl out, he may need a couple of hints... it's not bad if you ask him out i just think it's better if he asks you, o and dont have a friend ask him out for you because that just shows that you are not brave enough to do it yourself... good luck!

much

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well see ..i was goin out with this kid (eric) for like 4 months and yeah we had sex.. but then like .. i dont know we got in some kinda fight ish thing .. and then like .. i kissed this kid Jimmy and ended up liking him ..so i broke up with Eric cuz i felt wicked mean .. cuz i cheated on him and then i liked Jimmy so i dumped eric .. and now my bestfriend is goin out with him .. ( im goin out with Jimmy and she started goin out with Eric a week later) and Eric made out with my cuzin 2 days later,and then went out with her and then broke up with her and told me that he was like still in love with me and then went out with my Bestfriend.. i mean is it alright to be kinda mad about this or is it like .. wicked bitchy and stupid to be ?
please help =/

p.s i rate..

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right, um your question is kind of confusing and hard to follow but if i understand it correctly then yea you havea right to be mad at him! i mean i wouldnt go postal on him but make sure he realizes that he did something wrong and that you are uset about it!

hope i helped

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Well the thing is, my g/f has never been kissed and it'll be a long time before there is a special occasion to do so. I dont know when to do it. She might want one sooner. She might want one then to make it special. and no, this is not sean. really. What should I do

hmm... just wait for the right moment i mean i'm sure she really wants to kiss you and it doesnt really matter when because she'll be happy that she's with you

good luck!

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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


=)

you need to do things for her that make her feel really special, pretend like you have all the time in the world even if you are really busy.. listen to her and be interested in what she has to say, and lastly do little things like surprise her on a date and take her somewhere really romantic or something like that

hope i helped!!

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ok im gettin mixed signalz from a guy @ school like he has a girl friend but he flirtz with me constantly but when she'z around im invisible! what should i do?

he shouldnt be flirting with you if he has a girlfriend and even though you may not want to hear this since he's taken you probably should try not to flirt back, you dont want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend then have him hate you, if you like him then you should just wait and if he really likes you then he will come after you but if he is just a big flirt then i would move on

hope i helped
-donny

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I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?

you just need to introduce yourself too him, you know get to know him first and when you do get to know him a little better then try flirting with him some and see how he reacts

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I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 2 months and 1 week. I really like him and all..but sometime he bugs me so much!! I kind of miss being single and I dont know what to do..
and i dont want to break up with him...ugh..i'm sucha mess...please tell me your answer

ok..... if he bugs you then you should break up with him, you dont want to get too far in the relationship because then you could really hurt him when you break up..... good luck!!!!

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