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Well, i have liked this one boy for about a year now. We used to talk all the time on the computer. But we randomly stopped. And every few months we talk, then stop. We talk every time we see eachother and he always seems to flirt w/ me by making fun of my height. (im 16, 4'11.) And he pokes me a lot. When we talk online, we talk a lot, and he tells me he likes me and hes extremely nice. Its been like this for a year, and i really, really like him. We started talking online again, and this time, i don't want to stop. What are some things i can say to him to help explain if he likes me like he says he does, to not do this. Because when we don't talk, i try to move on but can't. Please help!? And also, what are some things we can talk about so that i can keep him interested? Thank you soo much =] (link)
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if you want to keep him interested and guessing, be flirty.
try this when he asks you anything try using things like a flirty "maybe ;)" or "wouldnt you like to know" something small that leaves the doors open and has him guessing what the real answer was but dont use it everytime.
if you want to talk to him more you should start asking him if he wants to hangout like going to see a movie try scary movies guys love watching scary movies with girls because we get "scared" and we need someone to hold on to.
or you can try something smaller like hanging out with friends at the pool.
when you guys are talking online when you think the convo is coming to an end try asking questions, because then it keeps the convo going.
hope that helped.
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what are some good ways to get a shy guy to come out of his shell? (link)
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When you dealing with shy guys, try making the first move when you see him somewhere be sure you go say hi, dont yell it from far away because then he might not know its you. guys like outgoing girls so be sure to be friendly and dont try to make him come out of his shell once he feels "comfy" around you then things will loosin up.
good luck :)
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Okay so I've been talking to this guy for about a month over the phone and like he is soo sweet and he told me he loves me. Okay well thats not the problem, the confusion comes from him telling me he'll call me and never does or that when he doesnt call i get all "he doesnt like me" and ive never in my life liked someone this much and i havent ever met him in person. Why do i get so upset with myself when he doesnt call? I'm scared i'm going to mess this whole 'relationship' up before it ever gets started and i have commitment issues and i know i do, but i want to be with him. Does age have anything to do with this cause he is 24 and i'm 18? this has got me all confused and worried and upset. any advice would be gratefull. thanks so much.
xox Kim (link)
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dont get me wrong older guys rock but that a big age difference, meaning he might be saying this to you without meaning them. also you cant have a relationship with someone you never see try calling a few friends and planning on a movie over the weekend call this boy and ask him if he wants to come hopefully seeing eachother will break the ice and you never know maybe hes not what you expected.
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Soo the other night i went out with some friends..and i met one of my friend's brother. He really didnt talk to me the whole night until after i left one of my friends texted me and said that her bro said i was real cute and he wanted to get to know me...soo he wanted my number. Well i gave to her and its been a couple of days and he hasnt called or texted me..i dont know if he either forgot or what..what should i do..and what do you think? (link)
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i think he might be shy! he didnt talk to you that much that night but he wanted to get to know you. you should ask your friend if he has a myspace, or get his number. . . guys like outgoing girls so message him asking if hes busy maybe if he wants to go to a movie or if thats to much you could try something funny and be like so i herd you wanted to get to know me ;) something that might make him laugh and then your still talking to him or, you could just say hey whats up thats an old classic that never gets old.
good luck
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Well, normally I would know what to do, but I REALLY need some help:/ I have this friend named Adrain. He's half black, half Filipino, and at my school, dating someone oustide your race is not frowed upon, but it's not looked up too either, if you know what I mean. I really like him and he really likes me too. I can talk to him about almost anything and stuff like that. I wanna know if I should go for it or not. And if I do, how to deal with all the snobs who tease you about it. (link)
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I dont see the problem you like him, you can trust him. i would say go for it dont let that chance go just because your scared what other people are going think. all that matters is how you guys feel about eachother. in the end what the other people wont matter.
hope things between you guys works out.
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no matter how hard i try i just can't seem to get over my ex boyfriend. its been about a month n a half since we broke up. and i love/loved him with everything. i tried dating other ppl, but nothing works :( any suggestions on how to move on?
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moving on can be hard, but its something that we all have to deal with at sometimes maybe just lay low your just not ready to start dating again. try getting into somthing fun like a new sport or just try hanging out with your friends there always there and they make you feel better plus you never know you might just find someone that may take him right out of your head.
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Okayy i like my ex, Im 15 hes 17
Idk, I have his number, and we saw each other for a month, and i think theres stil something between us 3 months after we split. And i see him around and he waves or nods at me like, and i want to get his attention again, start texting him again without sounding too interested..But i dont want him to think like 'Wtf she texting me for..?' So Something a bit flirty, maybe relates to tha past (or would that sound tacky?) ..
If Yuu get me..
any ideas? xxx Jus to start me off like..
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i think the key is being flirty.
yes, sending him a pic out of the blue might be a lil weird unless you guys have been talking for a lil while. i personaly wouldnt send him a pic of his name bcause its his name and he might not know what to think about it, i would send something smaller like some inside joke you guys have together something that no one else would understand but him something that would make him laugh.
hope that helps towards your second question.
good luck :)
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ok this might sound kind of supid, but i really like this guy name chris and i meet him through myspace and i might see him thursday night, but we have things in common and all, but like i don't know if he likes me back..its just iam scared of him not liking me, what should i do to tell him that i like him, but i've only known him for about 4 weeks now and we talk to each other everyday pretty much. i just got out of a relationship so iam just looking for someone.
i don't know hes very differnet from the last person i went out with its kind of hard for me to stand up for myself in a relationship but hopefull i'll get used to it.
well i just need your adivce or oipion (link)
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WOW! red light!!
you have been talking to this guy on myspace for 4 weeks and your going to see him? personaly that sounds like a bad idea i dont wanna sound like a parent but i wouldnt go see someone you meet online there are so many gross pervs out there who will do anything to get a kid younger than them if you not going to listen to me about not going take a friend or two with you. so if things dont go as you thought your not alone and i wouldnt go in any place where there arent alot of people thats just asking for trouble.
i realize i didnt answer your question but i just wanted to say something so you didnt go off and make a really bad decision.
p.s just know what your gettiing yourself into before you do anything, if you wanna tell someone you like them you have to be honest dont play mind games, just come out and say i have feeling for you.
hope i helped a lil.
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so this guy im dating broke up with me this morning because there was a lot of drama and people presuring him to brake up with me because this other guy whos kinda popular at my school wants to go out with me so he was getting his friends to try to get my boyfriend to brake up with me because he thinks my boyfriend doesnt treat me right, a lot of people tell me that and i really love him but i found out yesterday he cheated on me with my cousin.. i got mad more at my cousin then him and i said we could work it out, if it was any other guy i would have dumped him but i lost my virginity to this guy and he basically lives at my house and i dont want to leave him but i no i should and so he said today lets brake up for a couple days untill the drama stops but hes comming to my house on wednesday to stay for a week.. should i listen to everyone else and not see him anymore? or should i stay with heart and try to work things out? im so confused and this popular guy i was talking about i dont know i always look to see if hes online and i think i might kinda have a little crush on him ah im so confused? help?! (link)
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i understand where you coming from, liking somone that you know isnt good for you. i must say that i have been in a relationship and that happened and i decided to give him a second chance. . . turns out i was wrong about him he cheated on me 2 more times. . . i learned that you shouldnt let someone treat you like that why waste you time with someone when you know you can get better, i say try things with that new guy who knows maybe you will like being with him more.
first off cheated is never ok, and you shouldnt be and should want to be with someone who is going to cheat on you.
hope i helped.
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I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We love eachother, believe it or not. I just have hard times showing it. Like i mean we can hold hands and hug but I want to show I love him, not just say "i love you so much baby". Does anyone have ideas or anything on how i could show my feelings for him other then words? Opinons and ideas are appreciated :] (link)
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whenever i like/love a boy i show them by never looking around at other guys on the streets cause its a small hint that you have him so you dont need to look at anyone else. you can also show him like when you watching movies by kissing him and always holding on to him but be sure your not over doing sometimes when you have someone hanging on you its get a lil annoying. another good way to show him you care is by telling him. . . say he texts you say hey baby hows your day. . . instead of saying good u? you could say GREAT now that im talking to you :) something small and cute.
hope that helped :)
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my boyfriend kisses me on the lips a lot; just a peck. its usually spontaneous and I don't mind, I think its sweet. but I'm usually caught off guard so I end up missing his lips or something, and then I feel like an idiot. I've made out and I know I'm not bad but I get clumsy when it comes to that simple peck. any advice for me? (link)
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try this whenever your hanging out with him just expect that he is going to kiss you. . . like if you sitting next to him just be aware that a that second he could kis s you lol. or you can do what i do when guys do things like that to me you can do it to him sneak up on him and kiss him when hes not expecting it :) its fun and funny to see what he does. plus then it gives you a chance to have the power in a sense.
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okay so i'll get right to the chase..
i liked this boy an awful lot. and he told a mutual friend he thought i was hot. so one day i was smoking with his brother at their house and he came home and played guitar for me then we ended up hooking up. his brother is away at camp for a week so i havent been over their house, but the boy i hokedup with hasnt talked to me since. was he just using me because i was under the influence. and is it taking advantage if i wanted it wen i was sober?? thanks, i appreciate your honesty =)) (link)
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well think about it like this he wasnt smoking or drinking so if you guys hooked up then he had to have wanted it. have you tried talking to him cause he mihgt be a lil shy and isnt sure what to say to you. you could try e-mailing him saying hey whats up something small to break the ice between you guys. it isnt taking advantage because you wanted it even if you were smoking you knew what you were doing... if you didnt then you prob wouldnt remember that much lol.
hope that helps :)
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so my boyfriend always thinks i dont trust him, when i do.. and i even say i trust you and i dont know why he wont believe me.. what are some things i can do to prove to him i really trust him? (link)
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well. . . i would say that next time he tells you that hes hangin out with some friends. . . try not to ask who he is going to see. . . by not asking, that means theres not reason to know if he says hes hangin out with the boys then if you trust him then your trusting that hes doing what he says next time if he questions you about not trusting him you could ask him why? maybe there something your not realizing your doing. . . another thing is if he is going to be hanging out with some girls that you might not know try and be like oh ok have fun :) showing that your trusting him not to do anything stupid.
i hope things work out!!
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Hi, This is kinda long but I really need help.
I been going with this boy for a month now and I was really feeling him. Like he made me so happy. But now I dont even know if he even cares anymore. Like I planned on having SEX with him. I was doing to show how much I cared about him. Like i was thinking I loved him. But He had said he didn't love me I understood, but he had said he was lost without me, i asked him did he mean it he said no! So now i dont even know if I still like him or if he likes me anymore. What do ya'll think i should do about this situation? Please help me!!!! (link)
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i know i dont know you but you really could do better! dont let this guy tell you he can live without you and then turn around and be like i was kidding! what a jerk i understand you not knowing how you feel about it if i were you i wouldnt either! you should look for someone differnt someone who you can trust and who you really care about and someone that you can lose it to . . . i wouldnt advise you loosing it to him because of the way he is acting and becaause doing that your letting yourslef get to attached.
i hope you figure out someting to do...i hope i helped a lil.
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15/f.
I have never made out. I know its sad, im old! :P But whenever I just peck a guy he tries to stick his damn toungue in my mouth. And I back away like noo! I would love to just go and makeout with the world, but I am worried I will make a complete fool of myself and then like the guys will be like wow what a loser haha. I know it comes natural, but when I'm about to makeout with someone I just get all weirded out and freaked, even with a guy I am seriously attracted to! It makes me sad when I can't just go out and have fun and kiss the cute guy I'm hanging with haha! Plus I want to actually have a boyfriend, and when guys ask me out I turn them out, because its weird to date someone without making out or doing anything. My last boyfriend all we did was hug and peck haha. What would help me not be so nervous and just do it already?! Also, after I get the hang of that, say I'm in a relationship..well I am NOT giving it up to some guy I'm dating, thats for marriage. But will the guy like leave me if the only thing we do it makeout, like not even bj or hj or any of that stuff? I would think most guys would at least want more than kissing.. :/
Thanks so much sorry its long I appreciate everyones answers and for reading all this! (link)
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its totaly normal for you to be scared. everyone is before they do it. look kissing is easy if your scared that your going to make a fool out of yourself when your kissing maybe you should try telling that guy that you havent ever kissed someone. dont worry about all the other stuff yea guys like it but thats life :) if your not ready your not ready! if they dont like it kick there ass to the street! i promis that when your with someone you trust and someone you really care about all that other stuff with just happen.
try not to think about it so much your freakin yourself out just let things happen once you makeout with a guy your really doing to look backa nd relize its not as scary as you thouhgt!
p.s just have fun your 15 its not like not hooking up with a guys is going to kill you. but i wouldnt say no to a guy just because you dont wanna makeout with him and not ever guy is that into hooking up you just have to look for the right one but your never going to know unless you try something new!
hope everything works out :)
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My boyfriend family is always nagging him, and his sister always gets her way, no matter what. I feel really bad for him but i don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. and sometimes when he gets mad, he really scares me, he might start punching his truck or just really getting mad. And lately its just annoying me really bad, because not only the fact that i have no idea how to calm him down, but he gets mad at the smallest stupidest things that i just don't under stand why he can't ingore. So can anyone help me by telling me ways to calm him down? (link)
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i understand being scared when someone gets mad. i lived in a house like that, i can really only say one thing if he doesnt get help then it could get even worse, if he is hitting his truck when he gets mad who knows the next thing could be your face. listening to him helps you dont always have to tell him something just letting him no your there when he needs you sometimes is all it takes.
if i were you i wouldnt be with him much longer if this keeps happening theres no point in being with someone who gets mad about everthing, because you dont wanna be the one that gets him that pissed.
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okay so since day one [ literally ]i`ve liked this girl named [ a ] .. i really started feeling this chick like A LOT .. then i decided to date my best friend [ b ] .. who not to mention lives in a different state .. once i went on vacation up there for a week &half .. we connected really good & we both fell quick and hard. you can say we were headed to the LOVE part. well days before i had to come back, [ b ] told me that she didnt feel comfortable w. me coming back & being friends w. [ a ] due to the fact that she's scared that i might fall for her again. so basically she made me choose between being w. her [ b ] or being friend w. [ a ] .. well i never was the person to choose between two ppl .. i just couldnt so i told [ b ] that i couldnt choose .. so w. that said, she broke up w. me. [ b ] tried to fix things after a while but i just was too hard headed to change. now im reminising on the times we had & missing the fact that i could call her mine. she seems to be moving on but there are days where it seems like she feels the same way. idk what to do to get her back. idek if i should or just let her go. i really need help a.s.a.p before its too late =/ (link)
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first things first i dont think that it was right for [b] to tell you to choose she should have trusted you to be hers ya no, i think maybe telling her how your feeling would make things better. . . i think she only broke things off with you because she hasnt had the best of luck when it comes to boys, and was scared of getting hurt. . . maybe telling her how much you care about her and how much you want her back. . . that might help alot. . . but if things dont work for you there are so many other girls out there how arent as far away :)
hope things work out
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Alright well me and this guy have been hanging out alot for a couple of weeks now and the other night he admitted to me that he liked me, and I admitted to him that I liked him to ( this was over texting, though not face-to-face ).
So today we hung out and nothing seemed very different. The casual flirting and everything as usual, but nothing else.
I'm just worried that if we ever DO try and be boyfriend and girlfriend, how are we going to make it so it's not akwawrd or anything? Ughhh, I hate going from friends to more, it's always so awkward and difficult. And I've had this happen before and the end result was after a month of dating, I felt like we were just friends nothing more and I broke up him and now he doesn't talk to me anymore and I don't want that to happen with this guy.
Helpppp? (link)
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i undetstand that going from friends to more can be a lil strange... but you have to give things a chance to sink in nothing just happens. if you guys do end up dating and things dont go as you wanted make sure to tell him that his friendship means alot to you.
if thats doesnt help you could try talking to him about you guys dating and maybe bringing up that you think things might be a lil akward between you guys.
i hope things work out for you.
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So, I've been dating this girl for about 15-ish months now. And we both thought it was pretty serious. We've both done our share of hurt to the other, unforgiveable hurt, but somehow, we've managed to get through it.I used to cheat on her (I would always tell her immediately, though), but I've been completely loyal for the past several months.The thing is, is that she cheated on me with this girl who I KNEW would be trouble. And my girl said that after that happened, she didn't want to talk to her anymore, the girl was completely out of our lives. Well, it turns out, she lied. It pisses me off, because well, obviously, she cheated on me with her, and I REALLY don't want them talking, cause I really don't like the girl, and it also pisses me off because she lied to me about it.
And this isn't the first time she lied. She dumped me for my ex's girlfriend, who stole my ex from me. And it was like, she's steealing another girl from me, and my girlfriend KNEW I felt this way, but she decided to go try to be with her anyway. And...
This is all starting to turn into gibberish right now. The point is, I used to be the one looking at other girls. And now she's the one looking at all these other girls, and I know that I hurt her by doing that, but she shouldn't be trying to get back at me like this. I can't do anything about the past now. I've been so loyal to her over these past months.
I also gave her a diamond ring a little while ago, and I just recently took it back. And she just didn't care. And I kind of lost the question that I was going to ask, so it's lamost like, What should I do? I love her, but I don't know how much more of this I can take. She'll end up killing me if she keeps hurting me like this. (link)
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to me it looks like shes wanting to try new things... maybe you should to there are sooo many amazing people out in the world and your never going to know unless you stop holding on to someone thats hurting you! . . . i think that maybe taking a break would be good who knows you might like the singal life better! ;)
hope everything works out for you. . .
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My b/f says he loves me or whatever and i love him but how do i know if he really does love me? (link)
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you will know by the way he acts around you like always wanting to be around you and all over you... you can also tell by the way he says it if he say love ya.. or love you.. me might just be saying it... but if he is looking at you and sAYS i love you, he sould mean it.
hope that helped a lil.
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