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I'm the one hurting, and she's okay with it.
So, I've been dating this girl for about 15-ish months now. And we both thought it was pretty serious. We've both done our share of hurt to the other, unforgiveable hurt, but somehow, we've managed to get through it.I used to cheat on her (I would always tell her immediately, though), but I've been completely loyal for the past several months.The thing is, is that she cheated on me with this girl who I KNEW would be trouble. And my girl said that after that happened, she didn't want to talk to her anymore, the girl was completely out of our lives. Well, it turns out, she lied. It pisses me off, because well, obviously, she cheated on me with her, and I REALLY don't want them talking, cause I really don't like the girl, and it also pisses me off because she lied to me about it.
And this isn't the first time she lied. She dumped me for my ex's girlfriend, who stole my ex from me. And it was like, she's steealing another girl from me, and my girlfriend KNEW I felt this way, but she decided to go try to be with her anyway. And...
This is all starting to turn into gibberish right now. The point is, I used to be the one looking at other girls. And now she's the one looking at all these other girls, and I know that I hurt her by doing that, but she shouldn't be trying to get back at me like this. I can't do anything about the past now. I've been so loyal to her over these past months.
I also gave her a diamond ring a little while ago, and I just recently took it back. And she just didn't care. And I kind of lost the question that I was going to ask, so it's lamost like, What should I do? I love her, but I don't know how much more of this I can take. She'll end up killing me if she keeps hurting me like this.
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to me it looks like shes wanting to try new things... maybe you should to there are sooo many amazing people out in the world and your never going to know unless you stop holding on to someone thats hurting you! . . . i think that maybe taking a break would be good who knows you might like the singal life better! ;)
hope everything works out for you. . .
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I'm really sorry that you're going through all of this hurt and pain. But, I believe that the chances of you two working things out or staying together are very low. You both got into this relationship with each other on the wrong foot by cheating.
Cheating isn't just something forgotten over a period of time, it hurts for a very long time and the pain and jealousy will not be ignored. And I'm sure you know this from your girlfriend.
I think if you haven't already, need to just say,"Look, I really messed up in the past and I regret hurting you the way I did, but honestly I've been faithful to you for the past 7 months and I want you to be able to trust me. But now all I really feel like is that you just want to get back at me or hurt me because this hurts a lot. So please don't waste my time and tell me if I'm the only one you want"
Or something along those lines. With her not caring about you taking a ring back, thats not great either and I'm just so sorry you had to go through this and buy something very special for someone who doesn't deserve it. Just remember if you do end up ending it, things only work out for the best and I hope you'll be ok.
-TheTeenGirl
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You do not love her. If you two were meant to be and everything, you would not be cheating on eachother. Dump her, before she dumps you. You guys arn't meant to be. You guys are bored with eachother, if you can't be happy together, with just the two of you.
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ok, I was slightly confused at first, but you are a girl too right? or do you just have a bi girlfriend? ok, well i'm gonna assume you are all lesbians. I would suggest giving her an ultimatum. Just tell her, even if it's in a letter or something, that you really care about her and are in love with her, but you refuse to be in a relationship that is entirely one sided in terms of care and loyalty. If she is unable to adjust her behavior, I suggest you get the hell out of that relationship. There are plenty of other girls out there that will treat you the way you deserve.
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