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trust.
so my boyfriend always thinks i dont trust him, when i do.. and i even say i trust you and i dont know why he wont believe me.. what are some things i can do to prove to him i really trust him?
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well. . . i would say that next time he tells you that hes hangin out with some friends. . . try not to ask who he is going to see. . . by not asking, that means theres not reason to know if he says hes hangin out with the boys then if you trust him then your trusting that hes doing what he says next time if he questions you about not trusting him you could ask him why? maybe there something your not realizing your doing. . . another thing is if he is going to be hanging out with some girls that you might not know try and be like oh ok have fun :) showing that your trusting him not to do anything stupid.
i hope things work out!!
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thats a tough situation, and the only way he will believe you turst him is to show him. time, thats the key in a relationship and gaining trust. talk to him more, and tell him things that you wouldn't tell "just friends". however, he may be one of those guys whose just trying to make up excuses just to get out of a relationship, so be careful!
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Trust is something you can prove hun. If you trust him, then you simply do.
Think about it this way: Maybe you shouldn't trust him. Maybe he is messing around and you don't know it. I know you don't believe that, but it is humanly possible.
But it doesn't matter that it's possible. You believe in him. You TRUST him despite the posibilty. Love, trust, and faith are not rational responses. You can't PROVE them.
So stop trying. Hopefully in time he will realize you do trust him. If he doesn't, then it is really him who doesn't trust you.
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