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okay so i'll get right to the chase..
i liked this boy an awful lot. and he told a mutual friend he thought i was hot. so one day i was smoking with his brother at their house and he came home and played guitar for me then we ended up hooking up. his brother is away at camp for a week so i havent been over their house, but the boy i hokedup with hasnt talked to me since. was he just using me because i was under the influence. and is it taking advantage if i wanted it wen i was sober?? thanks, i appreciate your honesty =))
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well think about it like this he wasnt smoking or drinking so if you guys hooked up then he had to have wanted it. have you tried talking to him cause he mihgt be a lil shy and isnt sure what to say to you. you could try e-mailing him saying hey whats up something small to break the ice between you guys. it isnt taking advantage because you wanted it even if you were smoking you knew what you were doing... if you didnt then you prob wouldnt remember that much lol.
hope that helps :)
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Well it could go eaither way.
A) Because you were under the influence...he therefor took advantage of you .. escpecially because he thinks you are "hot". He could just want to fool around with different girls, not every guy is looking for a relationship.
B) He possibly does like you..and even maybe ALOT. But perhaps he doesn't know how you feel about him..he could be asking him the same question.."did she really like me..or was it just a one time fling?"
What you need to do is ask this "mutual" friend if the guy likes you, and show interest in the guy..see if he wants to hang out or something...
HOPE I HELPED..
XOX BBABY
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Try being sober and interracting wit him. Being under the influence is a pretty pathetic thing to be, and you'll never be able to know the truth of situations.
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well really, it all depends on what kind of guy this kid is. if he played the guitar for you, and took that time out to spend with you without hooking up, chances are he probably wasnt just using you. if you wanted to, and he wasn't forcing you, AND he thought you were hot, it really isn't taking advantage either. goodluck and i hope i helped! :]
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