How do I tell this guy I love him? I know exactly what to say but I cant do it in front of his friends and theres never more than 5 minutes to talk to him. What should I do at this point because I feel as if I dont get it out soon Im going to pop!
Please help! Thanks!
Jacki
If you really loved him, you wouldn't be scared to tell him that you loved him in front of his friends or your friends!
~macy
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I know I'm in love but I don't know if my parents will except it they think we should be 15 before we date but I don't want to wait til I'm 15 to date the guy I love cuz I don't want him to go out with any one else before the 9th grade in June...What should I do obey my parents or do what's right?
-Jasmine
I'm sorry to tell you this, but I think you might be a little confused obeying what your parents says is the RIGHT thing, to do... whether it's something you feel is right or wrong at this moment in time. Your parents are just trying to protect you, that's all.
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Hello. :)
14/F ~ My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now, and the other night he came over. We sat around and talked for a little while, but then he started to pull moves on me... It's not the first time or anything.. we started to make out then he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants..then we started making out more.. then he pulled me on top of him and we made out more. Is it wrong for me to let him put his hands in those places? I'm just wondering so I can tlel him weather he can again or not. Thank you :)
I'm glad you asked. Here's my answer and I hope I help you... It's not wrong unless when he does it, it makes you feel weird or uncomfortable. Every person is different... and some people feel uncomfortable just holding hands while it might not make someone uncomfortable until they move on to having sex or they might be comfortable with doing all of that and maybe even more. So truly it just depends on how it makes you feel and whether or not you like being touched like this by him.
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I've been going out with this one kid for only like 3 days.. and his bestfriend is going out with my bestfriend (If that makes any sense) so we're always hanging out.. and one time we were layin on my bed and her and her bf were makin out, and so were me and my bf..and he has his hand on my stomach and said.. is it okay if i go down? i kno it means down ym pants.. but like what would he be doing.. dont you think it's a lil early? plez help! x333
well if you have any doubts in your mind telling you that it's too early... then it is! it's as simple as that, and I hope I helped
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I NEED HELP!!!!!...Ive Been Goin Out With My Bf For Like 2 Weeeks But we Knew Each Other Like 1-2 Weeks Before He Asked Me Out...Well I Talk To His Cuz A Lot(Ive Known Him For Like 6 Months) And He Told Me That His Cuz Has Another Gf Besides Me...So Last Night I Called Him And Ask Him If That Was True And He Said, "Yes , But I Didnt Kno"...(How Can You Dont Kno If Your Goin Out With Sum1????)...Well I Asked Him If He Likes Her And He Was Like, "Not As Much As I Like You....Once I Get Here From Camp ill Cut Her"...All My Friends Are Telling Me To Cut Him....But I Love Him Soooo Much To Let Him Go....What Should I Do???...Should I Cut Him???... Dont Wanna Get Hurt!..Can sum1 PLEASE Gimmie Advice...Thanx...
ok... I find it odd how all these middle schoolers (which I'm guessing you're in middle school) go out with people for a week or two and they're already "in love" with that person. SO first of all... it's only lust, if that. And second of all, I'd dump him if I were you. He's obviously a player, and players never change. Even if they say they will, they never do. So good luck and I hope I helped you atleast a little! .:.macy.:.
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(14/f) ok well.. i have this guy friend who used to be like my best friend but we havent talked in over a month and his name is steve. hes everything i ever wanted in a guy. we used to be a couple but then i broke up with him cause i thought i liked someone else more (this was in like early july) and now i dont know.. im really starting to fall for him. and i came right out and told him i still like him. and he didnt type anything back so i just said something totally random and he responded to that. but i know he heard me because later that night i said i shouldnt have said something earlier and he was like "oh was it that you still like me? because i already knew that". i dont think he likes me anymore because when he used to like me (way back in may) he used to act like he wanted to be my friend but ever since we broke up it seems like hes just being my friend cause he feels bad for me? so i wrote him and said "if you dont wanna be friends anymore dont lead me on, just come right out and say it" but he kept saying he does and stuff but i just dont know. so im working on making our friendship all good again but i just dont know its hard when i like him so much. and i dont wanna stop liking him in case he likes me too and i dont realize it. should i just come right out and ask him if there is ever gonna be a future for us and if not i need to know because i dont wanna waste my school year being stuck on you while there could be other guys.. im just so confused. sorry this is so long but i need some help and this is the only was i could describe it! muchos gracias in advance! -- christine
Well first... the reason he probably didn't respond when you told him you liked him was that he most likely didn't expect you to say that. But anyways...I definitely think you should come right out and ask him if theres a chance of a "future" between you and him. I mean really, what do you have to loose? and if he says no, then forget about him and just stay friends. If he says yes then don't loose hope, sometiems things like that just take time. ALSO he might be kinda hesitant because of the fact that you hurt him before... but just talk to him about that issue, i'm sure he'll come around! good luck! .:.macy.:.
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uh i liked this guy, (like recently) and he also liked me but we wernt goin out or anything, then one day he just tells me that he doesnt really like me any more, but i could tell he was sorry when he had to tell me cause he was really sweet about it and all, but i still like him, what should i do, ill rate high!
You should tell him how you feel and ask him why his mind changed so fast about you. He might just be scared of getting into a realtionship with someone. .:.macy.:.
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I feel like I can't be then 'just friends' with a guy. I really don't see why! All the guys go after the pretty popular girls, and I feel like I can't compare. :( Can someone out there give some advice?
I know how you feel because sometimes I feel the same way, but you need to think positively and I'm sure the boys will come around. No matter what, don't give up! .:.macy.:.
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Hey,
I need some help!! I really like this guy and he knows that I do but one of my best-friends likes him to but she also likes someone else better!! I have liked him for three months and three days today and she says that I have liked him longe and that I like him more!! He still has not asked me out!! I think he is kind f getting annoyed by me cause I like am obbsesed with him or at least that is what they think!! WHat should I do to get him to ask me out?? If you wanna IM me my sn is volleyball092209
well, I think you should maybe back off a bit and yet still be flirtatious towards him. The fact that you are "obsessed" might be scaring him away, so just try to back off and I'm sure he'll end up asking you out sometime soon! good luck! .:.macy.:.
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Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?
14/f
Well... you should try and get him to notice your lips... try wearing some lipgloss and also lick your lips... you could even try leaning towards him REALLY close and make him think you're gonna kiss him, but instead give him a hug or something... .:.macy.:.
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ok so last year i went out with this kid Ben right but he cheated on me now hes having a baby with the girl he cheated on me with. He called me about a month ago and told me he missed me and i told him my feelings i still had for him so i've been talking to him ever since and i kissed him a couple of times. and i dont know what to do cuz hes still with the pregnant girl and i know i shouldent even be talking to him but i need an outsider opinion.
P.S i ve also been seeing this other guy whose 22 im 16
I'm not sure what to say about Ben, because he seems like a player from what you've said, but I'd like to point out that most of the times girls like guys that are hard to get... say... too old for them or guys that already have girlfriends...! I'm the same way though. It just makes things more exciting. Now.. thw 22 year old thing I can kind of relate to. My friend Jonathan is 21 and I'm 16, he's such a nice guy and he's always watching out for me... but I have more feelings for him then he knows. He jokes around with me a lot asking if i want to makeout and stuff, but I always turn him down because I don't want to get him in trouble. You should think about that... the fact that if you get with the 22 year old and wind up having sex... it's rape... whether you willingly had sex or not and he could get in HUGE trouble .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help!
YES YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!! No matter what he says you did the right thing. Don't go back to him, you didn't deserve to be treated the way he treated you. Even if he says he's sorry and it was an accident or that he'll "change" don't get with him again cause chances are, he won't change! besides you deserve better to begin with! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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I'm 17 years old and I was friends with my boyfriends sister before I started going out with my boyfriend. I never really hung out with her that much or anything and I got to know her brother through parties. Blah blah blah. We have been together 9 months and now she is saying things infront of my friends that arent true. Such as last night infront of my friends she said "My Mom said your ditzy" I got so embarassed so I said something to my boyfriend like how I dont want to be at his house when his mom is there because I feel like an idiot because I haven't gotten to know her too well she works a lot. My boyfriend got mad and said his mom woudl never say that and calle dhis mom and she denys it and he called hsi sister flipping out and she is saying that it was said. I dont know what to do because I feel like I caused a whole big problem and I feel like I can;'t show my face at the hosue because one of them is lying and its embarassing and everything. Any suggestings??
what's wrong with being ditzy?!*giggles* ha jk, but no... for real, who cares! I don't see anything wrong with being ditzy! Don't even worry about it, just forget about the whole thing and pretend is never happened! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend?
I think you should give it some time and then maybe after a week or so try and see what happens... it's difficult when you have the same taste as your friends! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!)
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I think i am a pretty cute girl,i have a great personality, and all of my friends love me. i just can not seem to get the attention of the guy i like. we are friends but i like him more than friends. i just dont know how to let him know i like him without messing up our friendship. what can i do to let him know in suttle ways that i like him?
You should try getting to know him even better than you already do. Spend time with him and eventually you might be able to just tell him how you feel. Explain that you don't want it to effect your friendship, even if he doesn't like you, but that you just had to get it off your mind! -Macy (rate me!)
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