Hey, I'm Cara. I'll do my best to give advice to jsut about anyone. Pretty good school and street smarts so I can help with a wide variety of problems. Feel free to ask me a question any time. I'm totally a people person and I love to give advice about anything! I am extremely open minded and I don't judge anybody. Hope to hear from you soon! :)
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I'm going to write a letter to my friend, and the only thing it'll say is "I like you." My issue is deciding which language to write it in. English? Spanish? French? Swedish? Portuguese? Haha, help me out. What would you think would be most "romantic"/ "cute"/ "whatever" if you got it? (link)
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french is so cute!
I like you is
Je t'aime
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do (most) girls like it when you finger them (link)
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Most girls do.
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how do you finger a girl to where it feels good? specifics would be nice, and it would be better if answers were from girls who have gotten fingered before (link)
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Some girls orgasm from getting their clit rubbed and some like the g-spot. The clit is like right there so you dont really have to go inside but the g-spot is in the back top of the vagina and is more likely to give a more intense orgasm (for most women at least) then do it hard and fast (although some like it slow).
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how do i ask a girl to hook up with me? like what is a smooth i guess pick up line? example scenario would be at a party, and i have been talking to and flirting with a girl the whole night. (link)
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asking ight be kind of awkward. Just start to lean in and if shes not feeling it you will knnow. First just kiss her then if that goes well the making out can commence haha. Good luck.
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anyone know or whats your biggest turn on (girls) or turn on spot? (link)
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Well places that aren't the clit or g-spot? probably boobs, neck, like the collar bone, and the chest.
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This weekend I am going to a couple parties and am going to be drunk at all of them. I'm debating over whether or not I should hook up with some people. I would like to, but I don't want to worry about the "aftermath". It's with mostly people I don't know, and I'm not going to have sex.
Should I do it or not? What in your opinion are the consequences? (link)
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Well if you make the decision not to hook up with anyone, then you should relate that to the aount you dirnk because hwen you drink, you probably wont think about your previous decisions, depending on how much you drink. If you want to, then go ahead. Its not really my place/business to tell you what to do because I dont know you or your situation. A few months ago, I wasn't drunk, but I hooked up with someone I didn't know and did something sexual that some people consider a little out there (not intercourse or oral) and everyone found out after he told and I got a lot of crap for weeks and it sucked. So whatever your decision, just think about and relate it to the amount your going to drink.
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All of the "cool girls" at my school do drugs. All of the guys like them b/c they are easy. This guy I like only likes easy drug girls and I don't kow what to do to make him like me! Help! (link)
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Whatever you do dont resort to what those losers do. If this guy cant like you for who you are, without drugs and easy sex, he doesn't deserve you. Sometimes, there is just no way that some people will like others and if you have to resort to drugs and being easy, its not ever going to be worth it.
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What are some signs (big signs and also just the little ones) to tell that your ex boyfriend likes you again?
Please help :)
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He wants to spend more time with you.
Kaughs when you laug.
When you catch him staring at your.
When you talk and he says "Remember when we..." or "Remember when we used to..." haha
etc.
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ok, so me and my girls six month is on thanksgiving, shes gonna be at her aunts, so when she comes home, shes gonna see me sitting at her front steps with 6 white roses and a necklace/ring(dont know which to get) for her. anyother ideas? (link)
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Sounds cute but just be careful that the istting at the front step thing doesn't turn creepy or stalkery haha and go for the necklace because rings are more for like engagement, marriage, and a promise ring and stuff. THe roses sound gorgeous.
Adorable. :)
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well my b/f and i have been going out for a week or two and all we have done is hugged. i want it to move a little faster. what should i do? (link)
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Well you can talk to him which is rather blunt and possiblly quite awkward so you could also jsut start to go for it and if he reects then it is just moving a little fast for him. If he wants to wait to do more then you should repsect that if you want to be with im.
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a month now. She had been a very touchy feely person, not in any sort of sexual sense, but always holding or playing with hands, or hugging and such.
Up until this week. She has been in an absolutely horrible mood since Sunday, really hasn't talked to me or returned calls or anything, and hasn't been fond of any sort of physical or social contact from anyone. I would chalk it up to PMS (sorry about the stereotype, girls) but it's literally been all day all wee. I had asked her earlier in the week if she was okay, and she said yes, that she was just feeling weird and didn't want to be around people. Today at lunch it was awful. I asked her again, walking to class (just to note, the first time she didn't hold my hand walking to her class) and she said she didn't want to talk about it. She didn't say anything else, and I hugged her an kissed her goodbye, but still.
I've treated her very well, and I've been giving her space. I'm pretty sure it as absolutely nothing to do with me, but nonetheless, what am I supposed to do? (link)
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Well to be honest, she might be PMSing but I wouldn't ask her about that.
Maybe there is something going on and she just needs space or time to think about it herself. Wait it out for a little but and just be there for her until she is ready to talk, that is the best you can do but obviosuly if things get terrible then another clear course of action must be taken.
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I want guys to look at me more. Guys tell me I'm really pretty, but I don't think I have the personality to go with it. I'm very loud and outgoing and sometimes I think I take it too far. How do I learn to hold it back and look less immature and annoying to guys? Thanks :) (link)
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Oh gosh I am the exact same way. You can learn to tone it down eventually with some guys but then you also have to realize that it is important to be yourself. Some guys will ike that you are loud and outgoing just make sure that nothing turns offensive and just be careful what you say. Remember, if I guy can't appreciate the complete you, then he isn't worth your time. :).
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hi! :]
my boyfriend & i had been together for almost 2 months. i really had strong feelings towards him. he always treated me right, i knew he was the one.
he broke up with me today and his reason was because he's looking for a girl whose a "woman of god" & that isn't me. he called me back about 3 hours after he broke up with me, and said that he had talked to his best friend & he heard a song that reminded him of me. & he wouldn't know how to go on without me. also that my religion doesnt really matter right now we just have to live each day by itself.
now he wants me back. but ive talked to my mom & sister about this already and they both said i shouldnt get back with him.
i really like him, i might even love him. do you think that me taking him back would be completely bad?
please help.
thanks a lot. (link)
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It really all depends on how you feel about him. I think that if he broke up with you for "not being a woman of God", then he isn't worth it, even when he comes crawling back. However, if you think that you love him you should talk to him and see if you ahve makea comprimise that religion shouldn't matter or that you guys wont let it get in the way of your relationship. You could always try to go out with him again and see how it goes but tell him that it hurt you when he dumped you for that reason.
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if you really like someone and they ask you out how do you say yes to them? (link)
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Just say "yes" or "yeah" in a flrty cute way. You shouldn't sound too desperate or too excited but definately sound happy and like you want to. t doesn't matter what you say as long as its yes but in how you say it.
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There is this guy, Zack I really like. He used to like me but now he doesnt. I dont know why he doesnt anymore. I didnt do anything wrong. We barely ever talk to eachother. I think he hates me but I really like him. What should I do?
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He mgit still like you but not know how to deal with it or maybe he just stopped liking you. You never know. Talking to him is really the only way to see where he is at. It might be awkward but if she pplay if off like your not nervous or anything, he'll probablyfeel more comfortable. Before just going out and asking you should become his friend. Talk to him. Just simple things like "hey how was your day?" or "Ahh math today sucked" (wel lif our in school obvisously) or "Remember that time when...that was cool". Just something like that. Good luck and I'm sure that he would be lucky to have you!
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I go to this camp and there is this girl I like I am 14/m and she is 16/f (I don't care that she is older) the thing is she has told me she thinks I'm hot and I've told her the same thing. She lets me feel her up and we talk most of the day at the camp. But when I asked her out she wasn't so sure because shes older and she said that she had a boyfriend (it seemed like she was using it as an excuse to dodge the question) but then she paused for a second and said she was single but then she game me this really unclear answer and left (it was at the end of the day and her parents came to pick her up so she had to leave). I'm confused, what should I do? (link)
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I think that the girl is just using you to get physical satisfaction. As always, the best option would be to talk to her to see if she wants a physical relationship or a real boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. If its just physical and yo want more, forget about her, there are more girls out there who will appreciate you and want you for more than just physical gratification.
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allright here we go again..
do you think its weird if someone likes you that is like 2 years younger than you and you might have feelings for them too? because im going into 11th grade and this guy is goin into 9th grade and hes really nice and everything! its just the age difference i just dont know. i shouldnt let it get to me but i just find it maybe weird or like i cant get anyone else but someone yougner than me? and people might think i look desperate or something (link)
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It seems like as you get older an age difference wont matter anymore but as long as both of you feel comfortable with the afe difference, it is okay. If the parents are okay with the age differences then I think that you should go out with him if you like him and he treats you well. You might as well give it a try. if yuou really like this guy then it wont matter what people think of you two together and it shouldn't matter. People who think you are desperate are probably just jealous.
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I'm 13/f and I have never kissed a guy before.
Well I really want to kiss my boyfriend within the next 2 days before school is over and I'm pretty sure he is planning on kissing me at one of the end of the year parties. I know I should just go with my instinct but I seriously am really nervous because I don't know how to kiss him. Any tips, or how-to's are welcome. I'll rate.
THANX (link)
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I was really nervous before my first kiss. Don't worry. Don't feel pressured to kiss him within a time liimt, do it whenever it comes naturally. Just make sure your breath is fresh and you don't have any gum in your mouth. Sometimes, chewing gum for ten minutes before you kiss makes thee kiss less spitty, which is most of the time a good thing. You really just have to do whatever comes naturaly to you when yyou are kissing him. Most people move their tongues in circles around each other. Just don't think about it to much and don't jam your tongue down his throat. Good luck!
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Well i kinda got this girl that i like but then i hang with her brother alot cause he's like my best friend and we always hang out i mean i go camping with his family every year and then i realized that i kinda like his sister and his sister is my age i mean we have so much fun together when were camping and just love hanging out but i dont know how this would set with her brother but i do really kinda like her but i dont know how she feels but some of my friends have said we flirt alot... what should i do? Ask her out or not? (link)
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If your best friend was really our best friend he wouldn't hate you for going out with his sister. If you want, you could always talk to your best friend to see how he feels about everything. I once went out with my best friends step brother and it didn't change the relationship between me and my best friend, even after I broke up with her stepbrother. Then, tell the girl you like how you feel, theres a big chance she feels the same way. Good luck!
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ok well my boyfriends birthday is coming up like really soon but i have no idea what to get him.
guys are so hard to buy for and i need help plz! lol (link)
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Guys are and always will be hard to shop for haha. Pac Sun has some cool stuff for guys like watches and wallets at good prices and stuff.When me and my boyfriend (now ex) were going out, I got him an iTunes gift card. You could also make him a mix CD of songs he likes. You could take him somewhere sweet like dinner and a movie or something more athletic like a game of football at the park. It all depends on what your guy likes.
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