17/f, My guy friend asked me out by a note about a year and a half ago and i never responded. I liked him then and I still really like him now. He's on my myspace and I've e-mailed im a few times and told him everything each time a little at a time and told him why and everything but he never responded. The last e-mail that I sent to him was a little over 2 weeks ago. I don't know why he's not answering me and I think about him all the time. He's the sweetest guy that I have ever met and I know that he really liked me because he would always tickle me and try to make me laugh. He's like the only guy right now that I can trust and I just really want to be with him but I don't know if he still wants to be with me. I know he read all the e-mails because they all said read. I just don't know why he is doing this by not answering my e-mails and just ignoring me when we are at school when he sees me. Also, I'm scared to go up to him at school especially because he's never alone and is always with his friends. Please help, thanks!!
Maybe he hasn' even read it yet. Go onto myspace and then go to your inbox, and somewhere on the side should be the word "sent" click on it. You can check the status of your sent messages here to see if someone has read them or hasn't yet. if he's read it and hasn't responded, he either doesn't like you anymore or he doesn't know what to say. if he hasn't read it, then just wait it out.
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kayy so i really like this guy but how do i tell him i like him becuase he has a girl friend
thanks
loveboys
If I were you, I wouldn't tell him until he's single. Odds are, he's probably going to tell his girlfriend and it's just going to create drama and cause a lot of problems.
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Ok, so I hope this doesnt sound too minor, because right now it is major to me.
One of my best friends went away to boarding school, so I don't see her very often at all. When she did live here last year full time, we still didnt see each other often because we went to different high schools and I live an hour and a half away. Anyway, my friends that are closer, well I hang out with them alot. And one time, she had a sleepover, and I wasnt allowed to go, because my dad said I had no way of getting back home, but I ended up staying over my other friend's who were closer's house, and my best friend was understandably offended. One of the people who I usually hang out, well, we like each other, and we're finally going on a date this sat. night. And this is supposed to be the date of all dates (the determining factor basically), and we've been planning it (well he) for two weeks. My best friend from boarding school just texted me and told me that me and my two other friends would be hanging out at her house on Sat. night since her bday was two weeks ago, and now she's down here. I had no idea she was coming, she just texted me! And I don't see her often (well, she is coming down for thanksgiving in two weeks), and I don't want her to be mad, because I'm hanging out with the guy. I know she won't understand that it's an important date, and he put alot of thought into it, I dont know what we're doing because he said its a surprise (so its that serious). But I don't want her to think I'm a bad friend. Help! should i postpone the date and hang out with my best friend, or should I go on the date, and just her when she comes back?
In most cases I'd say never choose a guy over a girl, but you did already have plans with him for awhile and it would be kind of rude to just cancel something he's been planning for weeks. Try to talk to your friend about it. She may seem a bit upset because you don't get to see each other much, but hopefully she'll understand. And if she doesn't, maybe you could try to talk to the guy about rescheduling, maybe he'll be understanding.
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i told a guy that i like him and hee says he likes another girl but im still sexy i really want him do i wait or move on?
thanks
loveboys
I'd move on. It sounds to me like the reason why he said "you're still sexy" is because he'll probably use you as a backup in case things with the other girl don't work out. You should have more respect for yourself then to just be a backup hun. =]
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I am 17 and a senior in high school. i started this job a while back and there is this guy i like there but he is 21. he's really sweet and everyone has good things to say about him. I was always shy to talk to him but then i got up the courage to talk to him and it turned out he thought i was cute. so we started talking and i seen him at some parties then i spent the night at his house and he said he felt like a weirdo because of my age but we made out anyway, thats it. then i seen him some more and then we ended up having sex and i felt stupid because my sister said to me, dont you think its wierd how you are too young to date but not too young to have sex with and now that i think about it, IT IS. ive had this problem before but this guy actually tells me that he likes me and stuff so i dont know what to do. i told him we arent having sex again ebcause it makes me like him more than i already do and he was like well maybe thats a good idea cuz i feel the same way and im not sure if this is going to go anywhere. i dont know what to do, should i believe this guy and wait until in 18 (which isnt till another 7 or 8 months) or should i just forget it? i know its hard to decided seeing as you dont know him, just what would you do? please respond soon, i need quick advice, i might be going to the movies with him tonight!
Well four years to me isn't that big of an age difference. If you really like this guy, then go for it. The age of consent differs in each state so it isn't just you have to be eighteen in every state. But if he says he likes you, then unless you have some reason not to believe him, then I would believe him. Any guy at any age can lie andtake advantage of you. So what I'm saying is just because he's older doesn't mean he's lying to you and is going to use you. if you like him, then just go for it.
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Me and my friend met these two guys 3 months ago. One of them really liked me. He asked me out 3 times after a few weeks. I said no because we hardly knew each other BUT the real reason was because my friend liked his friend and he wasnt asking her out and I felt mean for saying yes because things were going well for me and not for her.
He would ask me to come out and meet him and I wouldn't. Id only meet him when I took my friend and he was bringing his friend along for her. Id also never had anyone like me like that before and I was nervous about being alone with him, incase we ran out of things to talk about or something.
We met up a few times (the four of us) and would stay at one of the guys brothers flats. One night I got drunk and tried going all the way with him but as the alcohol wore off I felt the pain and told him to stop it (im a virgin). It was from here he had gone funny. He still talked normally when I spoke to him but we didnt speak for like a week and I havent seen him since this night (which was about 3 weeks ago). He now doesnt talk to me on MSN first, and I never talk to anyone first. He will be on for hours then just go off.
I really do like him and regret alot of things, but things are fxcked up now and theres no going back. He just isn't interested anymore; However my friend said he asked her if he should ask me out again. He hasnt asked yet???
He has my sunglasses so I’ll have to see him again sometime to get them off him...and he might start liking me again or something if he sees me...then again he might not. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!??
Either he's an ass and is pissed because you stopped the sex, or he might be embarassed because you told him to stop. Or He could've just lost interest. Maybe he thinks(due to the fact that you've rejected him a few times when he asked you out) that you aren't really interested in him. Maybe he's waiting for you to make the move this time. Get over the whole "I don't IM first". I've never really gotten that and I've always thought that was a bit dumb. No offense, but anyways you need to get over that and IM him the next time he's on. It'll show that you actually want to talk to him. Hope I helped hun =]
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this is mainly a question for guys to answer.. but there are some girls who have had same previous experience!
okay so....
me and this guy at school know of each other and we see each other all the time in the hallways.. and we both always "eye" each other.. but we never really talk.. i'm interested and i think he is too but i'm not sure.... how can i be sure of it and how can i get him to be the first one to start a conversation with me?
This happened to me last semester when there was a really hot guy in my elective class. We would always make eye contact, and only speak a few words to each other. He'd sit by me in the computer lab and we'd talk for a few minutes then get to work. I never took the chance, don't wait for him to talk to you. If you want to talk to him, go up and do it yourself. I regret never really talking to him and he ended up glaring at me because he'd see me hug my guy friends that he didn't know. But he moved on and got a girlfriend and I moved on and got a boyfriend. Just talk to him, it's the only way. Don't wait.
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what are some good gifts you can get your boyfriend for valentines day?
thanksss
Maybe tickets to his favorite band?
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a very rocky 5 years and have a child together.To sum it up he has abandoned me emotionally and physically many times.He left us again the other night and while drinking (one of our biggest problems) ended up in jail.We just moved to my home town where he knows no-one.My family and friends say let him take care of himself and not to worry.But I do love him and worry about him. He doesn't deserve my concern but should I abandon him with no one to help him in this horrible situation? I am 34F he is 37M
If his drinking is affecting your relationship, tell him it's either the alcohol or you and tell him you mean it. Try to help him into a rehab center. You're right, after everything he has put you through, he doesn't deserve your concern, he really doesn't. You can offer help, and that's the most you can do. Don't feel bad if he doesn't realize his problem, that's his problem and I know you love him, but sometimes tough love prevails.
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I recently posted questions about this pregnant gurl I met in the welfare office and how I was attracted to her. It didn't matter if I wasn't the father or who was. I liked her but to keep it safe I just was friends and told her how I felt but didn't push the issue. Now, she had the baby and I was there in the hospital when she was in labor and all. She wanted me there and later after the baby was born, her girlfriends came in to visit her. They started gossip and later it was about me! My friend told her gulrfriends that how I was taking care of her and how I did alot of things for her. All her girlfriends like me and all including my friend starting cursing the father out and all said they hated him. My friend likes me, I can feel it but in what ways can I make a move, and and the same time don't destroy our friendship. This gurl I love and her baby is so beautiful. Wat to do????
Well, ask the question if you really wanna get involved first. And I was going to say it doesn't matter if her friends like you, but they probably know her better than she does. So put that into perspective. But to answer your question, if you're sure she likes you, just look into her eyes and kiss her. If you don't want to be that blunt about everything, then when your sitting with her at the table, or she reaches for something, put your hand on top of her's and give her a tight squeeze. Just do small flirty things until you can build up to kiss her. I hope I helped. if you need more time IM me and I can help you further.
AIM:KayleexLikexWhoa
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okay i used to go out with this guy and then he dumped me and he said sorry he was by polar he said he will always love me and im the only one and like 2 monthes later he dumped me and then he said sorry then he asked me back out and i said i will think about it! then he said forget about it like a day later because somebody told him that i thought he was ugly and i never said that and so he doesent want to go out with me and i know he still likes me and the other day i seen him flirting with another girl i still love him he is the perfect guy what should i do to get him back?? i miss him and im sad without him and i know he still likes me and what should i do ?
He's probably not the "perfect guy" if he dumps you and asks you out again more than once. But anyway, you have to tell him that you don't think he's ugly and pull his confidence level up. Tell him you still want to be with him because you truely love him. And if he breaks up with you again and asks you back out a few days later again, then seriously, he isn't worth it. I'd just get over it and move on.
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okay so i've liked this guy named derek for a long time.and so do alot of other girls. i was his first friend an we are still friends as well i mean i have been his bud since 1st grade and all the other girls liked him since 5th grade when he got taller and junk but anyway its weird to have to like him because he is a major flirt to every girl and if you like him everyone that doesnt have a crush on him or anything will think your weird even my best friend sorta knows that i like him but im shy to tell her because well you know
so should i keep quiet and never ever tell derek i like him so know one will judge me or should i just go for it
if i do go for it how???
-kimberly
Go for it! Seriously. If he's been your friend for that long, and doesn't see you that way, it'll go back to normal. He's not going to block you out of your life because you can't control your feelings.
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23/m
I got married young... while I was still in high school. Shannon wasn't pregnant, we just thought we were ready... probably because we both wanted to get away from our parents. We've had it good and we have a few kids now... but I'm not in love with Shannon anymore. I'm in love with one of my best friends, Tonya, who is also now married. I know things between Tonya and I won't work out, but if I'm not in love with Shan anymore, should we get a divorce? Am I just leading her on? Should we get counseling? I'm ready to let go. I'm done. But I don't want to break her heart... and what about the kids? They'll hate me. Please help me!
Well, how long have you been feeling this way?
I'll help you. IM me if you want.
AIM:KayleexLikexWhoa
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I'm currently in a relationship. And i think i'm in love... But how can i tell? What the signs that a girl's in love?
If you're in love, you don't need to question it. You know when you're in love.
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13/f
its almost been a week ive been sad. and he still ignores me. i found out another reason... he thinks i like another guy, and he thinks i flirt wit' him... and its pretty much natural rightt? you flirt when you dont' know that you are... but he should've told me to change, or told me, or asked me if it was true. Instead of saying "its over." and leaving me there.. thenn some of my bestfriends is on his side, and im like "we have sides now?" and hes still ignoring me.. he looks at me.. but he doesnt takl to me, im trying to straighten things out wit him.. but he wont listen to me. its nearly impossible to get his attention. if i told my friend to tell him he'll say "so?" in a mean way. if anyone wanna know what else happened.. aim me.. i need ALOT of advice. As for it.
he seems happier than i am right now. my life is messed up at the moment, idk what to do.. im sad, im stressed out.. i cried yesterday.. i felt like crying today..
the things i wonder; if hes sad too..
if he regrets it.. [but hes hiding it.. not sure]
if he still likes me.
lemme guess you must be wondering.. "why do you even give a shit about him ?!" maybe because i still like him.. and wondering if he feels the same. i want him back at the moment. its like nothing .. or nobody can cheer me up or get my mind off of him.. HELPP ?! ADVICE.. ?!
Well, from what you tell me, he's overreacting and just being a complete immature jerk.
There might be something going on with him that you don't know, but i doubt that.
If he really cared he would've asked you what was really going on and unless he has some reason why he shouldn't trust you, he should believe what you're saying.
I don't know what happened before this, but if you wanna talk to me about it, feel free.
AIM:Shotgunwedding57
-Kaylee
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OK, i started school and i have all my classes with this guy. Let's call him Joe. well Joe looks at me some, but i dont know if it's enough that he really likes me. Sometimes i catch himn looking at me but not a LOT. I really like him but i'm scared to ask him out. Cuz if we break up hardly, then i have all my classes with this guy that i hate. Soooo...i dont know what to do!! I like him and i really dont want him to say no because that will be really really embarrasing. What do i do?
If that's the only reason why you won't ask him out, then you're just holding back and depriving yourself. If you don't ask him out, you'll probably kick yourself and always wonder "What if?"
Go for it. If he says no, you can move on and find someone else. If he says yes and you two break up, so what if he's in all your classes?
You just need to go for it. If you like him as much as you say you do, it shouldn't even be a doubt in your mind.
Just go for it. That's all I can say.
AIM:shotgunwedding57
Tell me how it goes!
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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing
I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee
Always
Mee
You should tell her. If she's your friend she'll be happy for the two of you and put her feelings aside.
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Well I'm a lesbian and my parents don't know. How do I tell them? I'm scared they'll kick me out of the house or something.
I read in a magazine that if you're coming out and are afraid to tell your parents because they'll kick you out and/or cut you off finacially, wait till you'e out of the house to tell them.
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