Im Nicki, im 15 and im from London. I love helpin people out and some people on this site give really good advise which has really helped me too xxxxxxxx
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Location: London
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Age: 15
Member Since: February 28, 2004
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i have a really big problem. Ive been talking to this kid for about 3 weeks but only been dating him for 3 days. I lost my virginty to him last week and i think he has a anger problem and he makes me cry alot. he gets mad over little stuff, like if i look at him and stuff. and he barley talks to me when i see him and he doesnt say goodbye all the time. he never wants to be near me it feels like. we havent done anything together in a couple of days but weve also havent been alone really. i love him so much and he treats me like shit. And my bestest friend in the whole world who i always hang out with and he always goes to her house along with her boyfriend. but shes been hanging around this other girl whos older and is a pothead and turned my friend back into a pothead. now my best friend lies to me, ignores my calls, rides in cars with all theses boys. never has anytime for me and shes always with that girl and i dont like her and neither does my bffl's boyfriend or mine dont like her. and shes trying to make my best friend hate her boyfriend and tells her that hes treating her like trash and stuff. i have nothing. my boyfriend doesnt feel the same way as i do. i can tell when i look at him. and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what im gonna do. ive thought about talking to my boyfriend and tell him the truth, that i cry myself to sleep every night and that everynight i sit in the dark with a blade across my wrist looking for a good enough reason to do it but then i always think... maybe things will get better maybe hell change. but i dont think they well. im thinking of giving up. my school grades are all fs im probably gonna stay back, my boyfriend treats me like shit and i love him so much and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what to do. plz help (link)
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Well the first thing is dont do anything stupid please. Look it seems like ure boyfiend is a total idiot - i really dnt think you shound be with him. Even if you love him, he has to treat you right and he obviously doesnt.
And with your best friend. when you get a chance i rekon you should sit down with her and tell her everything. You could even show her what you have written on here. If she is a true friend she would understand how you feel.
and with your school work, just dont give up - you have to do your best otherwise life is going to be so hard (moneywise) in a few years time when you leave school.
you seem like a really sensible girl and I really hope everything goes ok, and please please please dont do anything stupid.
Let me know how it goes please xxxxxx nicki xx
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okay here goes..... this girl i been friends with for years we just recently kissed and after that kiss we about to do again till she stopped me she said she wanted to go throw with it but she cant casue of our friends... which i understand cause in the last 5 yrs she been with of 2 of mine and her friends already One was just a fling and other (which is my roomate) was serious for him and her not as much Well they broke up and he acts a a jerk to her but we all still chill in the same group ..... so the advice i need is how to make her forget about the past and just let us roll and see where it goes of course I dont want anyon eto know but she says that doesnt work(which it wont for to long) but i always like her and i feel like i just had my chance but i couldnt take it cause of this convo also i feel if we only kissed once (allnight long Though) why we having so manu convo thats a bad sign I just dont want to go back to being friends I told her i could do that and i can but i dont want to i know she dont want to niether so my question what should I do or should just do nothing and just hope out of nowhere oneday it will spark back up I dont feel like waiting though any advice let me know MIke (link)
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Look if you like her - dnt worri bout wot ure friends think, if they were good enough friends they would understand. Id say go for it - just follow ure heart. U'll kick ureself if this doesnt spark up agen later on, wont ya!!
hope i helped!! xxxx
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there is this guy that i like.. and well he likes me too.. and we acted like we were goin out.. and now that we are.. its like he doesn't want to talk to me.. and i like him a lot.. and one of his friends said that he told him we were goin out but to keep it secret.. wut does that mean.. and i dont know what i should do... (link)
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well maybe he's embarrased 2 ave a girlfriend in fornt of his m8z!! guys r wierd like dat, it cnt b dat he dont like u coz he woulnd b goin out wit u!!! i no dis is probly not wot u wanna hear but i would tlk 2 him about it coz theres nt much else u can really do!!
hhope it goes k xxxxxxxxx
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im 16/f and i really like this boy but hes in a younger grade then me. hes still older than me because he got held back. he really likes me and wants us to hook up, but i dn, for some reason, the grade thing really bothers me...and i dont even know if im ready for a relationship. i like him most of the time, and other times he is a bit too immature...what the hell do i do? (link)
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well y dont u go out AS FRIENDS and see what happens, hey if you dont like him in dat way, or arnt ready then u havent commited ureself to anything!! if u do like him thoe, go out again!!
xxx
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Hey, my girlfriend and I are really close and i love her so much but lately she doesnt seem as interested in me as her friends, i don know maybe its just me but it feels like she doesnt like hanging out with me anymore, even though i know she loves me. please help me. (link)
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well girls always love hanging out wit their friends, somtimes i prefer it 2 hangin wit my boyfriend. girls love chattin and spendin girly days shoppin and stuff - all things dat boys arnt very gd at!! (no offence) but its true. She must still like spendin time wit u ovawise she wouldnt in a relationship wit u. but her friends are jst as important in her life as you are. so bear with it, but i would tell her how u feel if u are really not happy!!
hope i helped xxxxxxxxxx
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i am finally over my ex but now i find myself constantly thinking about my best friend's ex. i missed him while i was on vacation..do i have a crush on him? If i do...what should i do? should i tell him? my friend still isnt completely over him.. what if he likes me too? oh and im a 14 yhear old girl (link)
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ok well ask ure friend what she thinks, if shes dat good a friend she will understand, but dont ruin your friendship ova a guy!! becuase you should always put ure friens first xxxxxxxx
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ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him (link)
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if you are 100% (and i mean 100%) sure that he is the age he says he is, if uve seen him on webcam then you can get a rouge idea of what he looks like. but if youve only seen pictures of him he could b anybody!!! i would go 2 meet him with a couple of mates - dont go alone thoe!!! he mite not b as nice as he makes out he is!!!
hope it goes ok xxxxxx
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does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me (link)
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well age doent really matter, BUT.... he is probably going to want to do more things than you will probably be ready to do, if you do end up going out dont let him pressurise you into doing something you dont want to do!!! hope it all goes well hun xxxxx
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I love someone very much. Everytime I see him I feel like I can fly. But he has a crush on my best friend. But she doesnt like him that way. I love him with all my heart. How can I let him know how I feel? I'm afraid if he doesn't feel the same way I'll lose our friendship... (link)
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.YOu have got it bad for this guy - i would so go 4 it. Drop hints and get your friend to talk to him about you, get her to drop hints dat you like him 2! Take it slow dont rush things and if you 2 were meant to b something will hapen!
Let me no how it all works out !
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx gd luck!xxx
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at a school dance, i was a little depressed because i had just broken up with some jerk. my friend set me to slow dance with another guy, but it doesn't feel right. what is wrong? (link)
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do you really think that every slow dance you have is going to feel special? nothings wrong with you, it does take a while to get over your ex but if he's a jerk i dont no why you would be depressed. i wouldnt worry about it, it was one slow dance at one school dance. I say get out there and find a great guy and forget about it!
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my boyfriend wont kiss me because he doesnt know how to kiss. im not a very good kisser either. im afraid to make the first move becuause i think he will pull away b4 i get to his lips and i will look like an idiot. how can i get him to kiss me? should i send him a site about how to kiss on email or what? i really wanna kiss him. (link)
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all you have to do is start by kissing his neck then work up, begin by kissing his face and if he starts kissing you back start kissing him on the lips. that way he cant really pull away because hes been kissing you to, hold him and take it slow - you'll be fine
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i have ben single for about a year and a half i have been seeing diffrent lads but none o then what a relationship i want to find the right person how long do you think that will be (link)
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you never no how long its gonna b b4 you find the 1! but just keep looking - u will find mr rite in the end!
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