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Hey Im Ashley Im 14 years old and I go to Hanford High school Its a pretty fun school I am a freshman LOL Im wild Crazy and fun I have crushes.I like A guy named Devin hes a pretty kewl kid lol Bye bye TAKe my advice ask me questions


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i was reading one of your answers and you talk about a promise ring whats that is it like a purtiy ring ?(a ring that shows you wont have sex till your maried)
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Its a ring that promises that you will be together forever!


I like this guy named Matt and we just recently started talking but ive known him for about 2 mounths in 5th period we always talk to eachother over the internet ( the class is keyboarding) and he always says stuff like I love you and Will U marry me and stuff like that Im trying to figure out what this means
Also in 1st and 3rd he sits accross the room and he stares at me alot PLEASE dont delete this I am really confused! (link)
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I am 14 yrs old Im in a relationship and I love it!! We have been going out for 3 weeks and its been going great I dumped my other b/f for him and he seems to like me alot now! But theres a problem whenever I spend the night with his sister I hang out with him when she falls asleep and I dont seem to like him as much as I think! Whats going on ?? Please Help and PLEASE dont delete this!! (link)
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my boyfriend always calls me sayin "oh me and ____ were flirting again today"..and then the whole story like i wanna hear about that b.cz last time he did this we broke up so he could get with some girl (he didnt) then we hooked back up so i think were gunna break up so they can hook up and then when their done its back to me...whats he doin??? and then hes like "she rly rly cute but ur better"..which i dont belive bcz we dont go to the same school so i dont kno her and i wanna talk to him about this but i dont know how i mean if were gunna break up juss so he can get with sum other gurrl then i shouldnt stay with him right?? what should i do? (link)
O thats sucky U should dump him ALL Hes doing is to use u throw you away and then pick U back up to use you again!!!


well today in lunch my boyfriend, i duno if hes really my boyfriend, but im guessing he is cuz he told me he wass. i can't trust him AT ALL. he took my purse from me and took my cellphone and wouldn't give it back. i thought he was goin to do something to it, like break it or call people n stuff. so i turned him in, because hes like that he would do something bad to my phone, and that phone was so expensive. my friends say i did the right thing. but would u hate me? he got 3 days suspension by the way. (link)
I think u did the right thing but U shouldnt of if U liked him well enough but If U cant trust him then U did the right thing but I think you should apologized


well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss (link)
Ok at the begining of the year I had this same exact problem with A guy I liked Named Dave and He would stare at me alot and I was to shy to just go up to him and talk to him but I did and were really really close now at first I only knew that his name was David and I didnt know anything else Now I know like 30 different things about him because I went to go talk to him>> If U dont get it LOL Im saying U should go up to him and talk to him and stuff
need more help tell me U were the one who wrote this or e-mail me at sk8rchick08@hotmail.com bye
Love Ash


Well me and this guy were "talking" or w/e. And we stopped i guess or i dunno. but the other day i told him i liked him and i asked him n what kinda way did he like me and he said "im not sure" and then i signed off. well what does this mean? and was it a mistake 2 tell him that i liked him? (link)
No it wasnt a mistake you told him ITS BETter to tell someone you like that you like them so they know and u have have to stress about it everyday and stuff Sp if he goes to ur school talk to him about it OR if he doesnt them call, or talk to him online it always helps u know lol hope I helped you
if I didnt IM me on footballbabe454
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Ash


ok I like this one guy named Ben and he likes me also and weve been friends since the first day of school and Ive liked him since then well it slowly turned into love. And I still am in love with him. Sounds like nothings wrong right>> Problem I just got asked out by this guy named Ryan and I dont like him because most of my feelings are for Ben and Ben and Ryan are friends and Im going out with Ryan. Ryan is so much different from Ben. Ryan smokes pot, hes weird to hang around with, and im never happy around him
On the other hand Ben hes cute,funny, and Im happy when im around him, gives me hugs all the time!! And is such a sweetie. So this should be easy but its not!! I dumped Ryan yesterday (thursday) and got back together with him today OUT OF GUILT and then before 6th period I felt like I made the biggest mistake of my life!! AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I was planning on telling Ryan that I dont want to be his girlfriend because I dont know him all that well and WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY O i dont want to go out with you because Im in love with your friend even though u say you love me Ok bye! what should I do and I would like guys to answer this but girls are fine TOO!1
please dont delete this I really really need help
LOVE Ash (link)
Hye hun sounds like U Gots a problem to deal with butI would tell RYAN that its not working out for you and you need sometime to find out what you want!! hope I helped love ye


well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me.. (link)
Ok It does kinda come to you the first time I made out with someone I just knew how to do it right away I dunno once you do it the second time will be much better!! I promise and maybe he didnt notice
hope I helped
Ash


Hey every1. Um my problem is a little embarrassing. I have this boyfriend that I have been going out with for a while now. I really like him, but he wants me to do all this sexual stuff. I don't want to do it but everytime I say no, he (its pretty embarrassing)tickles me under my arms. I am really ticklish in my armpits and each time i say no, he holds me down and tickles me. No matter how many times i tell him not to, he keeps at it. I really like him and I dont want to break up with him, but I cant stand much more sexual stuff and tickling. Please help me! Thanks!! Jen, 16 (link)
Umm ok ur 16 and U dont want to have sex what is wrong with you?>??


Okay... so I'm 14, female, a freshman in high school. At the end of last year this guy in the grade under me all of a sudden wanted to be my friend. We didn't talk all that much but he is sooo cool and I really like him. Then at the very end of last year he wrote in my yearbook that he loved me. But now I'm just confused, because (1) I don't know if he was JOKING or not! ACK! ...and (2) We hardly ever talk because we're in different classes and he never does anything but wave to me in the halls. Of course, neither do I, but....
HELP. (link)
He doesnt love you Or maybe he does in A friend kinda way!!


kay im 15 and kinda have gurl probs.

1) every time 1 tries to kiss me i shy away because im scared that a might do somthin wrong
2)im afraid to go on a date again because i might do somthing wrong.
3) i dont no y but there are alot of hot gurls in my area and im ntimidated by alot of them


PLease help me! (link)
well ok next time just tell the girl your shy to kiss her because U dont want to mess up!! That always works good for me because its like ok If you havent kissed before its the same kinda for us I think of it as its another person To kiss one that I havent and I dont know how its going to be like and its weird. Just be yourself on dates if it doesnt work then there not worth it
and I think the reason Ur intimidated by the gurls is because U dont think U have a chance with them!!


Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
no but when is the wedding Because U might want to wait a few years before U get married U should just make it a promise ring!!


I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation? (link)
Its really cute I dont know Me and Troy (my b/f) are still together and he lives in a whole nother town about 5 hours away It might work ok


I really like this guy lets call Him "gabe" well Ok I met him like 3 days ago well OK I met him like 6 weeks ago but we never really noticed eachother till now. well when I met him we were at a party type thing and He drove me and my friend home But he ended up staying over at her house with us and me and him were talking and stuff then all of a sudden we were holding hands next thing U know were making out and kissing and everything else at school he doesnt ignore Which is kewl U know he even kisses me and everyones like "oh you and Gabe are so cute together" Even though were not going out at all but Hes 18 and IM 14 is it wrong (link)
No its not wrong Gabe is really hott by the way haha I LOVE YOU ANGEL!!!!!For those of you who dont know ANgel is my twin sister


well on saturday the 18th me and my bestfriend went and take pictures at the mall and her cousin is my ex boyfriend and she gave a pic to her aunt and her cousin (D = ex boyfriend) saw it and his bro (a good friend of mine) saw it and was like "D" hey look and he was like "whos that?" and his bro recgonized me but my ex boyfriend didnt..then later on the phone my ex was all "you kno you look really good in your pic"... what am i supposed to think of that..because he still says he loves me and misses me but he didnt recgonize me?! (link)
He probably just didnt want to say anything about It U probably hurt him in some way


Hello all,I'm new to this site and I need advice so I'm hoping you guys on here can be helpful. Here is my story..

Me and this girl (I'll call her Mallory) have been talking for about a month now. She asked me to go with her to her homecoming dance next weekend (we attend different schools). Well,I told her yeah until I found out who was gonna be there. This guy I have alot of beef with will be there,and I know all he's gonna do is start mess and try to get me to fight him. I'm not gonna fight him at the Homecoming dance because I don't wanna get arrested plus that'll just make both of us look low life. Besides that,she goes to a private school which means alot of preppy people will be there. All in all,I really don't want to go,but I already told her yes. What should I do? (link)
GO with her and dont start anything with this guy OK? c ause girls dont really like that at all


ok im having trouble attracting boys, i have brown hair brown eyes and glasses, my skin is a light tan, im not sure what kind of makup and hair styles to use but what im doing now is not working. do anyof you have ideas on attracting guys? please help thanks a lot
**hailey**
oh ya im 14/f (link)
I have glases and brown hair and brown eyes WOW dude thats kewl SOrry lol it is WEll anywayz USe eyeliner and stuff that really attracts your eyes and use this cover up called 2 in one it works really well its a coever up and A thing that gets rid of pimples and use some blush
hope I helped Ash




This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out (link)
Make a move as simple as that Hes never kissed? SHow him how lol it always works


i liek this guy a lot...and hes in like i dont think u shud call it "relationship" cuz him n this girl arnt going out but there going to homecoming together....wellll shes kinda my friend like were not the best but were good friends ya know? n e way shes kinda *slutty* like she let him finger her and told him she wud give him head on homecoming but he tells me n my friend how much he likes me and how bad he wants to get rid of the other girl and hes leaving me here hanging and idk wat to do...shud i wait for him cuz i really like him...or move on? HLEP PLZ! SORRY ITS LONG! (link)
Well ok He likely does like u BUT hello hes a guy he has a penis!! you dont know what he'll do BUT anywayz Yeah my friends boyfriend is going to homecoming with another girl because he doesnt want to hurt her feelings SO MAYBE THATS WHAT hes doing to!!!




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