i love music i have been told i give great advice except if i'm the one who needs the advice i get alog with most people as long as they get along with me i'm sumtimes a shy person (only in person)i'm in a relationship i live in wisconsin i kinda am a screw up but if other people need advice i can help ummm... well if u want to know anything else u can email me or w/e so yea ok then if you need advice i'm the one to come to and sorry i dont have a pic that will fit on here
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14/m
So there's the girl I like. I always liked her and it feels like I always will.
We were never dating but we were close. But now she's moved on to another guy. I can't get her off my mind!! I'm always thinking about her..she just seems so..perfect.
And now and then I look at the old notes she wrote me. The ones saying she likes me and looking at those it..it hurts. I wanna just throw them out but is that really going to help? I want to get over her...right?
Really confused,
Greenlalablue (link)
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ok well yea sounds like me i had the same problem and it does sound like your first love and you should keep the notes and just put them away somewhere you wont look at them distract yourself with something like a hobbie sport w/e now if she doesnt like you anymore or something it's her loss and you cant stop her from not likeing you or likeing another guy so just try your best to forget about her and i really hope things work out and hope i helped at all if not i'm terribly sorry also i'm looking for some more guy friends so if you ever wanna talk or get to know each other better we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so thanx i guess and sorry if i didnt help
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im 14/ m okay it all started at the beginning of the summer, there was this girl i had a crush on(a big time crush) so i decided to tell her and well i got rejected bt thats not the problem, after a little while i got over her but now im back in school ive started to get feelings for her again and i think that if i tell her sheel think im a stalker, what do i do>? help! (link)
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ok well ok first of all telling anyone you like them isnt that easy and by telling her that i admirer you cause i'm a very shy person so yea anyways if you tell her 2 times that not at all being a stalker but i would when you talk to her listen to what she has to say let her know your interested in what she has to say and when you see her dont always be the first person to say hi or het let her do that sometimes and if she doesnt then you say hi but give her the chance to say it sometimes just so if she does you know she does like you at least as a friend and stil wants to talk to you then later in the year go ahead and tell her again but dont get your hopes up cause she may say no again and if she does it's her loss cause i'm sure your a really nice guy anyways i'm looking for some more guy friends or some friends in general so if you would like we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so ye i hope i helped if not i'm terribly sorry umm yea ok thanx
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Is facial hair on a 15/m attractive or is it showing that your a some kind of beast (link)
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well it all depends on the girl but personaly i dont like mustaches but if you get a little beard but dont let it grow really long i think thats sexy so yea well hope i helped if not i'm sorry oh and no it doesnt show your some kind of beast ok if you do have a mustache shave it cause almost every girl i know dont like mustaches but you dont have to change yourself for some girl they should like you for you but if you really want to do it for you not any girl ok well yea hope i helped if not i'm sorry but also if you are a guy wich i'm assuming you are i'm looking for more guy friends so yea if you ever wanna talk we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so yea thanx and hope i helped
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ok well the thing is ive been going out with this girl for 6 months. im 15 so is she! i want to finish with her as she is too clingy and does not give me any room to breathe. the problem is she loves me more than anything and she might do something really stupid. ive also taken her virginity and is o broke up she would brand me as a user. how do i go about breaking up with her but not hurt her? (link)
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well if i were you just tell her that you need more space and or if you cant do that if she wants to hangout i know lieing is bad but say your parents wont let you or whoever takes care of you or say you are busy but the parents thing might be better cause if you say your busy she might think your cheating on her so yea well if she doesnt give you your space then she obvioously is either obsessed or doesnt love you the right way if that makes any sense ok well i hoped i helped if not i'm sorry oh and i'm looking for some more guy friends and yea so if you ever wanna talk we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com ok so yea thanx and hope i helped
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hi i'm a 15 year old guy and i like this 15 year old girl....we met almost 5 years ago and ive cared for her so much ever since..we are great friends and i would do anything for her just to see her happy and we went out 2 times before about 2 years ago but she broke it off the first time because she thought our friendship would b in jeopordy and i said i understand that and then the second time i broke it off because i had heard she was going to break up with me and go out with sum1 else so i ddi it to save sum of the pain but it still hurt and i dont know what to do because i ve tried to go out with other girls and none of themm compare to her and i tried to tell her how much i care and she said she just didnt see me as more and i want to show her we can be ive tried this summer to get together with her but she claims she's very busy...summers almost over now and i want to see her before school starts but i also want to tell her i ve tried to go out with other girls and none of them compare to her..is that a good thing to do? Thanks in advance for the help (link)
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ok you sound like such a sweet guy and you deserve a great relationship and life now what you could do is to like ask her for advice say there is this girl you like and you guys have gone out a couple times but it just didnt work and that you really like this girl and you cant go out wiht other girls cause none of them compare and then see what she says to it and then just tell her that it's u guys who ur talking about or maybe you could just write her a letter explainging things and just give it to her or drop it off at her house now maybe you could help me cause when it comes to giving myself advice i cant do it for some reason so if there is anyway we could talk it's also about a realationship thing i hope i helped and if not i'm realy srry umm well you could talk to me on yahoo messanger my sc is for_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com or aim everyonesproblem@aim.com and yea please help i would really appreciate and plus your a guy so that would help more
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15/f;; my bf has awful mood swings [16/m]. ive been talkin to him since i got home from school so basically about 5 hours [this is normal haha] anyway he was totally fine and then like in the last hour he got super quiet and was just giving short little answers to questions -- mm hm. no. yeah. k. -- we didnt argue or anything, he jus kinda shifted moods. he does this a good bit. a lot of the time, hes not in a good mood when he comes home from work [he works at least 6 hours a day 5 days a week] so i try to cheer him up then, but he didnt even work today. he knows he can tell me anything and that ill be there for him nmw, but whenever i ask him whats wrong he always says 'nothing', when somethin clearly is botherin him. im a gerenally mellow happy optimistic person and do my best to cheer ppl up, and he says that i make him happy since im like that, but when he gets like that i really have no idea what to say to him. i have like no words of encouragement or anything. do yall kno anything i can say to help cheer him up?? i hate feeling helpless!! thx (link)
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ok well the problem could be that he is tired and needs more sleep you could just tell him to get more sleep since he is working and school and then coming home and talking to you thats is prolly what it is so just tell him to get more sleep instead of talking to him after school ok so i hoped i helped and you can ask me any questions and i'm really sorry if i didnt help
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Okay a couple days ago i told one of my closest boy(as friend)That i liked him and he flipped his lid.He ignored what i said and started talking about the girl he liked Morgan and how she was the best girl.And i sighed off aim and cried.When i came back on nick popped back up he started talking about how he didnt belong anywhere and i was like i thought i already told you that you belong in my heart and sighed off the next day i came on wanting answers for his behavior and he was over joshs house hes dogs crib the exact words he said to me and then he starting acting like a total man and started being a jerk to me and rae then he ended up calling me a fat a** pig and i asked him why he was saying this and he said he wants me to stop liking him.And my mouth dropped i couldnt believe he would say that to me and when he went home he said he was sorry and i told him to be carefull hes like why i was like my brother wants to kill you cause you made me cry and he made a frowney face and said he never ment to make me cry and i told him that i wont stop liking you for what you said to me cause i know that wasnt you.Ive known nick sence pre-k and a friend that he doesnt know sighed on and asked him if he liked me and he said maybe.Then last night he said he was going out with morgan and i was ughhh im still mad i cannot believe her she hated him ultra hate she told him to his face she couldnt stand him.But now she'll go out with him???so im my pro i wrote that i was jelouse of morgan cause she could do what ever she wanted to him and he would still be there but hes blocking me now.I only wanted to stop him gettign hurt and i know he will be then i sighed on my brothers name trying to talk to him and he was like i dont wanna talk to you,you cry to me to much and ive only cried because of him once but now if i say anythign that means anything im crying.
Is it so bad that i want to prevent him from being crushed he really likes her and ill kill her well not liderally but oh my god ill do somthing its not fair that she can do anything and i cant!!1
i highly doubts he likes me but my cuzin thinks its just a flirting thing and im like yeah right-
what do you think??
Katie
I cannot believe men!!! (link)
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awwwww i'm sorry but here is what you could do you could act like you dont like him like dont talk to him for a while till he says something like that he likes you or he doesnt os something if that makes sense or just tell him that you just need to know whether he likes you or not cause you shouldnt waste your life on one guy unless you know he is the right guytrust me if you do the not talking to him thing then he will soon just tell you whether he does or also you could make him jealous like when you talk say you like some other guy and or just start talking about some other guy and when and if he trys to talk about morgan just interupt him and start talking about something else or another guy just act like you dont care about morgan at all hope i helped i was in a situation like this and the not talking thing and the talking abotu another guys works now i'm sorry if i didnt help but maybe you could help me if you would cause i'm usualy good at giving other people advice but when it comes to me it just doesnt work so umm yea is there anyway i can email you or talk to you like on aim or something aim would be easier but email is ok too ummm ok well my aim is everyonesproblem@aim.comso yea ok please hlp me thank sory if i didnt help
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Theres this guy, and we like eachother ALOT. The thing is he moved. He calls me every night and we talk for hours. We still like eachother alot.. but he lives nowhere near me. I may not see him until next summer. I'm starting my first year of high school. As much as I like him I know there's going to be other guys. It's going to be so awkward to still talk to him when I'm dating other people.. how would I even tell him that? How do I bring a conversation like that up? What am I supposed to do. He's not in the same situation as me ebcuase he's going to a private school where he ives. There's not alot of kids, and he doens't like any of them. What's going to happen to my phone calls with him, what happens when he visits... I don't know where to even start with this.. Help? (link)
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ok first do you love this guy is he worth the wait??? figure that out first then if you do just when you are talkin to him you can bring up the subject by sayin like i dont like not seeing you as much anymore or something like that and ask what he thinks about your relationship and all then see what he says then ask him about that like say well since we cant see each other can we see other people for now then when he comes out or back you guys can get back together if you want or something ok so i'm sorry if i wasnt any help but if i was then w/e rate me please thanks
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I really like this girl but am to afrain to ask her out or talk to her from fear of rejection. I really like her and want a relationship but i dunno what to do. Any advice? (link)
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Ok if you like her then what you could do is start writing her secret admireer letter or something and then start hinting who you are and that you like her then maybe if she does like you she will ask you out or whatever now just remember that everyone gets shy sometime girls are shy guys are shy so if she does like you but wont ask you out you might have to do it and if the secret admirerer thing doesnt work you could just have a friend ask if she likes you or have a friend ask if she likes you or something and then if she does you wont have to be afraid of asking her out so if i was any help to you at all please tell anyone who has questions or if you ever have anymore questions i can answer cause i know what your going through cause i've been through it before and i've been through alot so i relate to alot of questions and i'm sorry if i wasnt any help goodluck
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ok so here's the deal me and muh ex have been dating for 5 years on and off and we really love each other but the problem is we are broken up right now and well 2 of muh best friends like him but i know he likes me and wants to be with me but right now he's into football and i don't want to be in the middle of that cuz football season really sucks with him. anyways i want to be with him so bad but i don't know how to tell him. i mean it's never been hard to tell him how i feel but with these other girls it seems really weird. well...ya i love him and i need him back bad but i'm not sure wat to say. and how do i handle muh friends? thanx!!! (link)
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ok first to deal with your ex just be really supportive during football season give him some space if it seems he needs it or wants it then just tell him you want him back tell him that breaking up was a big mistake and that you need him and want him back really badly well dont make yourself sound to desperate but make sure he knows you love him and want to be with him then with your friends if they are your friends they will back off knowing he is yours but if they dont then they arnt really your friends talk to them tell them how your feeling and what you think then just take it from there ok so if i have been any help to you please tell any one who has questions about me and good luck
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what do you do if you like two guys at once and they both like you?? (link)
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well normally what i would do is make a pros and cons list for both guys then just follow my heart but that sounds really cheesy doesnt it?? well i guess just figure out wich guy you like more i mean you can make a pros and cons list for both themand see so w/e hope it all works out for you and if i helped you in any way please tell friends or people who have questions to ask me cause i can answer them
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hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!! (link)
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what you can do is talk to your boyfriend you both have friends and you both should hang out with them just ask him if some school dances if you both can go with your own friends and if you dont think he will understand or you dont think you can talk to him or you dont think he will listen or something then write him a letter explaining it that away you can explain it well and read over it if i have been any help to you please tell anyone who needs advice to ask me cause i can help i'm sorry if i wasnt any help
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I curentally live with my boyfriend and his great family. Everything is great except I wonder one thing, he is 19 years old and anytime we go anywhere he mom calls to see where we are and when we are going to be home, he also cant go a day without talking to her, and can never stand up for himself when she says no. She also calls him habebe whichs means "my baby", and she says she dosent like it when he is out late. I understand she is worried but he is 19 years old and I thought at 19 they would be a man. Mabye I am wrong but I was thinking of marring this guy because he is the love of my life but I dont wanna marry someone who is attached to there mother and can never grow up and be a man. Mabye its just me But i would really love any advice anyone can give me! Thank yOU!! (link)
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ok if you have not already tried go talk to him tell him how you feel i guess tell him that he is 19 years old and he can still see his mom and talk to her but that he has his own life he needs to start without his mom help him stand up to his mom then if he still cant get over his mom you might have to make him choose but just remember noguy is worth the pain unless they are the love of your life so make sure he is the love of your life also try talking to his mom just sit her down and tell her that you know she is worried about him but that she needs to let her son go he has his own life and he needs to get it started now this was kind of coplicated qestion or me but if i am any help to you at all please spread the word about me i'm am sorry if i did not help
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ok so i hav a boyfriend i really love him but the problem is he lives half way around the world my friends hav all told me to try to get over him but i just cant ive tried but i cant seem to get over him i love him so much but the distance is so hard what should i do?? (link)
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if you two love each other the distance shouldnt keep you apart or tear you apart i'm going through a similar situation so i know how you feel you dont know if you should give up and move on or stay together well i am only 13 just so you know and your prolly thinking what do i know i'm younger then you but just listen me and my boyfriend love each other or he has told me so but we are goin to just keep in touch then when high school is over we are going to hookup so if that helps in anyway, anyway back to you if you know you two will be together someday then just do what we are doing keep in touch try a long distance relationship and if that doesnt work then just keep talking then someday when you two meet you can hookup if that makes any sense well if i helped you at all pleas tell your friends or anyone who needs advice to ask me cause i can help
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So I have this HUGE crush on this guy. But 'this guy' is no ordinary guy, he's the most popular guy ever! I know we have a lot in common and we would be perfect for eachother. But the problem is since he is sooo popular he has a lot of other girls after him. (The only reason all the other girls want to date him is because he is popular and cute, but they don't know ANYTHING about him.) Just to let you know I liked him before he came Mr. Popular.. See first I heard somethings about him and I thought he was just the sweetest, kindest, funniest guy and one day soon after I saw him... And it didn't take long until he was popular. So my question is should I just take a chance and do whatever I have to do to get his attention? Or should I just forget him? And if you say forget him, how? He is not an easy guy to forget. Please and thank you (link)
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first if i'm any help to you tell people abou me please and if u ever need more advice u know where to go anyway ok so he is popular so if you like him ask him take a chance and just ask him out now if or when he says yes take it from there if you two end up loving each other then the other girls wont matter if not he is not worth it no guy is unless it's the guys you are destined to be with anyway yea ok if you like the answer and if i am of any help to you tell people about me and if you ever need more answers i can help
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