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theres these two guys who really like me. one lives in a different state and one lives here, where i live. they both asked me out. and the one who lives in the other state is just like me and the one who lives here is nice, but shy. and being shy isnt me. i dont know what to do. ill barely ever get to see the one who lives in a different state. but the other one i dont know to well.
i dont know what to do.
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Well, you have a few choices. You can get to know the guy in your state better, and IF you like him, then go out with him. If you don't go out with the other guy. Or you can say you will go out with the guy you know more, and stay in touch by phone, email, ect. If really depends what YOu want. I think you should go with who you like more. Forget about the distance. There are many ways to stay in touch.
hope I helped!
~Ank
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There is a kid I like and he is 13 going into the 7th grade. The problem is i'm turning 15 in less than a month and i'm starting high school. He is about 6 inches shorter than me and some people might find that kinda weird. So I was wondering if it would be ok to date him? (link)
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If you really like him then go for it. If you don't care about his height, then i think its fine.
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14/f..
ok. things that make it seem like this kid likes me:
-when he says hi, he blushes & then looks down
-he looks at me a whole lot.
-he always smiles at me
-all of his friends, ask if i'm jaci.. [ thats my name]
-at this party, everyone screamed, JACIS HERE!
& my one friend said, that he looked over at me smiled & then looked down
-hes really shy around me..bc he talked to all the other girls=/ is that bad?
-at this fair..everyone said he'd watch me wherever i went & followed me around.
-at this baseball field.. his friends kept looking at me & so did his brother & theyd smile at me, & then i could hear the kid i like say "shh shut up, she might hear you"
-9 people are like positive he likes me.
& stuff like that.
The one bad thing, that i think he doesnt like me..
some kid asked if he liked me.. & he said, "hell no" really quick. but, my like best friend, which is guy, is like "he probaly just said that, because he doesnt want anyone to know because hes afraid you dont like him back"
do you agree with what my best friend thats a guy said? or no?
do you think he likes me?
or is it pretty obvious, he hates me?
should i ask him.. if he does? or something? like what should i do.. HELP. (link)
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Yeah, he likes you. I do agree with your best friend who thinks he like you because he said 'hell no.'
I think you should become friends with him, and then ask him if he likes you. And if you like him, ask him out!
Hope I helped.
~Ank
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ok i went out with this guy like 2 times.well i want him back really bad but he doesnt like me anymore! what can i do to egt him back? we are both 12.im a female and he is a male. (link)
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I hate to put it this way, but yu can't make someone like you. It dosen't work that way.maybe you should try to become friends with him and get close to him. Maybe them he will start to like you again.
~Ank
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I like this guy but i am not allowed to date till i am 18 and i am 13 now. all my friends are dating and this is the most i've felt for a guy. what should i do or say? (link)
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try talking to your parents. if they wont ease up, here is the thing. im 13 too. im not alowed to date. i peronally think 18 is too old. if you think you can be caefull about all that 'stuff' then ask him out. go for it. sometimes parent want to protect, sometimes they cant let go...
~Ank
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There is this guy (let's call him Bob) and he's really really cute. I just met Bob a few months ago but he's very sweet and whenever I'm with him I get goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach (majorly) I don't know if I should go up to him and tell Bob I really like him or not. And he also dated one of my friends but they broke up, and I don't want her to be mad at me if I date him. What should I do? (link)
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well first of all it might be ocwart for your friend. talk to her about it. see what she thinks, but DO NOT let her make the disisions for you. if she is fine and so are you, get to know him, and slowly ease the fact in that you like him. or, if you really want to just tell him, the worst you can get is an "i dont like you back" good luck!
~Ank
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My really close friend Amanda is obsessing over this hot kid at school. Every conversation is spent talking about that he looked at her! I mean he just looked at ya! She claims she "loves" him. She doesn't even know what that means! She has talked to the guy ONCE and all it was was him asking her what period an assembly was!! She says that was the best moment of her life! In her profile she writes all this love crap...its pathetic. How can I tell her she should stop claiming she's in "love" and focuz on whats really important?? (link)
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I have been in the same situation before, and it was anoying. my friend would stay up all night talking about this guy she had been in love with for 5 years. i said it was anoying, and so did her friends, and i always thought it was, until I fell in love. then all my friends though i was crazy. and my friends who had already been in love, well we talked about both of them. one of my friends thought i was crazy, but a few months later, SHE fell in love. you never understand how it feels to be in love until you are. your friend is in love. comfort her, and encourage her to talk to him. just be careful. the end of my first secret love, well lets just say it wasnt the happiest ending. you will know how it feels soon enough.
~Ank
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How do I impress the girl I like very much?
How do I ask her on a date? Please, I need help with the whole girl thing. (link)
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things to do: first of all be yourself. girls hate jerks who show off and stuff. most people ask girls out on IM, in person, or in a note at my school. if she likes you, she wont really care how you do it. hope i helped
~Ank
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well theres this boy i think he likes me but im not sure we always talk on the phone abd stuff
he always joking around and stuff to!
how can u tell when he likes you?? (link)
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if a guy likes you they MAY do some of these things:
stare at you
goff/show off around you
try to hang out with you as much as possible
smile at you
say hi when you pass in the hall
ANK
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christmas is 6 days away.. im sher everyone knows that and i am makin a scrapbook for my bf of 22 months this year.. i hve pictures together and stuff but i want like each page to be like something diff u know? like im havin a couple pages just be of pictures.. and i hve a special page for a note that im goin to write him in it. and i also have a page of all the reasons i love him.. does anyone hve any ideas for other pages that kind of go with this.. please please hurry though bc im plannin on puttin it all together tomorrow!!!!
tosha (link)
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ok here is an idea. in the middle of a page write his name in bubble letters. then around his name put things about him; like is he likes running put that and out like traits and stuff. if you want you can also put designs in and then other stuff. good luck
ANK
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Ohk i notcie this big time do you?
When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.
Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.
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i think most people love their boyfriend/girlfriend but when they break up alot of those people are so hurt, they get kind of angery and take all those pictures down, not wanting to see their face or hear their name again so basicly, they do love, but when a heart is broken, most people get angry.
ANK
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Ok, skip the whole. "oh my god, you are so stupid for breaking his heart" stuff. I just need help, I know what I did was wrong.
Ok, first off. I'm trying to get my ex back. I dumped him for another guy, who turned out to be an ass, and i realized what i did was wrong. i miss him a lot and i would do anything to have him back. I have talked to him about this before and he said it was not going to work out. since then we have been good friends, but now im starting to like him again, and he knows. he told me to call him on december 23rd when he gets new minutes on his phone so we can talk about it and i can tell him why i want him back so badly. he is afraid to get back together because he doesn't want me to break his heart again, and i swore on my life i wouldnt. because i won't. i just really miss him and like i dont know if he wants me back or not. im not afraid to call him, just afraid that its going to be a blunt "NO" answer. but why would he make me wait that long for a simple "NO"?
If anyone can help, it would be greatly appreciated. thank you! i give 5s if anyone helps me. (link)
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ok, on the 23rd call him and tell him what you did was wrong and that your were stupid, and basicly all the things you said in your question. if he still likes you, we will say yes, but he might have been really hurt by what you did, so it will be a hard choice on his part. just talk to him. if he loves you, he will get back together with you.
ANK
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I'm 15/f... There is this guy that i have been "talking" to (Grant) for about 2 months and he keeps telling everyone that he's going to ask me out but never does it. And then there is this guy in my Biology class (Todd) that is totally cute and nice and seems pretty interrested in me (ex. always walks me to lunch, always telling the teacher he is helping me just so he can talk to me, always making excuses to go and sit with my study group (all boys and me)) so should i just give up on Grant and move to Todd? please help...
Alix (link)
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well it matters who you like more. if you want to go out with tood, then ask him out. if you want to go out with grant, talk to him and see whats up. i think i would choolse todd, but thats just me. good luck!
ANK
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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend? (link)
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13 year olds can be in love. i am. and my friend who is 12 is too. yes, you can say it.
ANK
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What are signs of a boy liking you??? Cause i like this one boy but i dont know if he feels the same way!! (link)
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umm well it depends on the person but smile around you, talk to you alot, goof off, stuff like that
ANK
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Heyy!,
Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!! (link)
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well, as most people know girls tend to get more mature faster than guys so if the gu is o;der its ok, if the girl is it really depends ont the guy. but over all if you love/really like him, its perfactly fine. hope it works out.
ANK
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I'm currently in an internet relationship with this guy in Canada (I'm in Australia) We liked each other for about a year, and only recently decided to give the relationship a shot. We had a few problems before we got together, but we worked them all out. We're meeting in a few months time. I do like him, however, there's a lot about him that bothers me. He's a REALLY extremist Catholic, and whilst i am catholic too, I'm nowhere near as religious. A lot of what he believes I respect, however disagree with. I have to act different around him, for example, I can't swear or say anything even remotely 'suggestive' Sometimes I feel like he's testing me, because he asks me questions like "did you go to mass today on sunday? Did you enjoy it?" and "How far do you think is too far?" I never feel comfortable around him and he doesn't know much about who I truly am due to this reason. He's a really innocent guy for a teenager, and whilst its good that he respects me, he's really uptight and we can never talk about things or joke around like other couples can. I realize that not everyone is into that kind of thing, but it's like we never do anything 'fun'
I tell him I love him every night but sometimes I wonder whether I truly do. I want to make this work but I have a nagging feeling telling me that this isn't right and I shouldn't be with him. What should I do? Is it normal to feel like this? Do you guys think I should still try with him?
Thanks. (link)
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ok well you will hate this answer but this is the only one that will truly work. you need to talk to him. tell him how you feel, then is he thinks its ok then give it a shit. the point of a relatiomship is tp BE YOURSELF. if you cant do that, then it will never work out. if you have any more questions let me know,
ANK
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ok there is this guys that i like alott and he is about to ask out this girl. anyway before this girl came along he liked me ALOT "he said". Now that i look backhe was giving me signs that he like me but i guess i did not pay attention and i still like him alot what should i do. (link)
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TALK to him!! soon! tell him you like him BEFORE he askes this girl out. say "look _____, i know you want to ask _____ out but i really like you."
and go from there. good luck!
ANK
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I need ideas 4 my girlfriend for X-mas...any suggestions...plz? (link)
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umm...well you could get her some kind of neclace or bracelet and then bring her out to dinner or something...it really depends on what kind of stuff she likes....
ANK
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**Caution: Very LONG**
Okay so i'm in this choir for my church and there's 5 other girls. And this boy named matt plays gutair and he always is there whenever we are. Well during the summer we went on a retreat. and i started to get these feelings when i was around him. And now i really really like him. But there's this girl lanessa who is also in the choir. she flirts with him all the time right in front of me! and she knows how much i like him to. And we went to a concert last friday right. well he was really wasn't talking to me and everything and i wanted to talk to him. and just get to know him better.. well lanessa was like all over him. sitting right next to him. flirting with him.! everything!! and now i find out that she calls him baby and there gonna go to the movies together!! i guess what i'm trying to ask is what should i do? i really truly like him. almost at the point of loving him!! and i really hurts me soo much. My heart can't take anymore of this. Every guy i've ever liked always screw me over! i've never had a boyfriend or anything! and it suxs!! I just want to know what i should do. so please if anyone has any GOOD advice for me.. please let me know!!!!
JennY!
p>S..I'll rate you for good advice! (link)
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well first of all completly avoid this girly that flirts with him and start to get to know him. then take the next step and so on and so forth.
ANK
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