Q: i am a 15 year old guy. i have always like girls and i mean ALWAYS. never ever felt even the slightest love directed at a guy. 4 months ago i asked a girl out. after that, i had a crush on another girl a little less than 2 months ago.
I am really confused because about 3 weeks ago i started wondering i may be gay after i saw some line reading a soccer review where the player said "its a man's game". i have no clue why but that set of a chain reaction in me. after this i can count about 3 instances where i haven't been aroused that much by porn. i have never watched gay porn but for some reason it seems more exciting but not so arousing. i think it might be the hero worship happening now. i am sexually attracted to women ONLY and masturbate thinking about them only and do not fantasize about men.
my relationship with my dad is good but i don't see him so much because he is busy and my brother left for college last year. have not been able to meet my friends so much cos i have study leave for exams.
please help. i really need it

Q: i like this guy at school but he's a year younger than me and i don't want pple saying i'm desperate so i decided not to like him anymore but i still do

what do i do? help plz and thanks!

Q: ok so there's this guy who i met, and he's like this really nice guy but he really likes me. It's not that i like him, but this is the situation i'm facing. He thinks I'm his girlfriend, but he's a little bit mentally behind?? I don't know if that sounds mean..... if it does I'm really sorry. I don't mean to sound mean. He's not retarted but his mind isn't necessarily at the same level as a regular 17 year old boy. He acts like he's younger. On Valentines Day, he had roses delivered to my school and he wrote on the card that I was the best girlfriend ever and that I make him so happy. But, I have a boyfriend, and they go to the same school. I can't have him telling my boyfriend he's with me and start a whole big huge misunderstanding for no reason. But, I feel so bad because I don't know what to do about this because I don't want to hurt his feelings, especially because of him acting younger. I really don't know what to tell him? Should I just not say anything and tell my boyfriend about this before the other guy does?

ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE AND THANK YOU

Q: i have this friend(she really is a friend) whos likes this guy..he liked her at the begining of the year and asked her out alot!!....but she rejected him everytime b/c he did'nt like him then...now she likes him alot...and he likes her friend...he calls her alot and ims her to get info about her friend...everytime he does that she gets more and more jealous...i want him to go back to liking her...is there anything she can do??...she flirts with him and everything..but i don't know wat she can do??

Q: 16,female....

i'll try to make it as short as i can!!..

this guy liked me, we would hangout and stuff then he went out with another girl and then while he was goin out with her he would always say i like you more than her and then i was like why are you even going out with her then?? your stupid! and he broke up with her and hes like i only went out with her because i thought you liked this kid. and i was like nooo! so then he still liked me (i know he did alot =) but he was younger than me so i was like ehh..hes so cute though but then one night he got really mad at me for like no reason and said he never wanted to talk to me so i tried to make things better..and i was like why are you being like this, i heard you were talking crap about me and he was like F*** that i dont talk about you AT ALL. and i was like haha wow alright and he was like why are you even talking to me and i never said anything back but i MISS HIM. ive tried to like other guys, i try and not see him (he goes to a diff school) but i ALWAYS want to see him but its so hard now that he like hates me and now he is going out with another girl and i think he can do SOOO much better everyone thinks she is ugly even all his guy friends and everyone is like they are so not right for each other and it doesnt help that i dont like the girl and i saw his parents and i was talking to them and im like so you know he has a girlfriend and they're like nOO WHO?! and the dad is like i thought you were his girlfriend ;) and im like nooo =( but they love me! and they thought we were going out and i just hate seeing him with another girl. i wish he would just talk to me because ive tried but hes so mad for a reason and wont talk to me. all his friends think im hot they said and want me and him to go out! my good friends were like he just got mad because he liked you soo much and didnt think he could get you. and his cousin and his other friend were like did you guys really go out? and im like NO! who told you that? and they're like oh he did! so he told people we went out and like did stuff and then i saw his older brother one time and hes like how are you and my bro do you still like him and im like i never said i did and he just smiles so obviously he liked me or whatever but i just dont know now..it hurts me to see him and have him give me bad looks and i will go up to his friends and say like hey!! like last night we saw them at a hockey game and he was sitting by his girlfriend and me and my cousin walk up and im like hey bob!hey nick! hey tony! all his friends and then i never said anything to him because he would just start saying why are you talking to me and he gave me the ugliest look like why the hell are you over here and someone pushed him and his girlfriend together and im like haha wow!! but at the end of the game i was talkin to his friends and he was like right behind me talking to his girlfriend and her friends and then he like ran right into me and i dont know if it was on purpose or someone pushed him but he looked at me and then he still talks to my cousin and he came over by us and talked to her but wouldnt look or say anything to me. what should i do? i hangout with other guys, and i cant get over him! even though he is acting like this i just wish he would say i still like you and things could be better....

Q: k, so my friend thats a girl(not my gf) was going out with a guy that she didnt really like. Then her bf found out that she liked another guy, but didnt do anything about it and he let her know that he knew. Later into the relationship she didnt want to be with him anymore and they broke up. She then hooked up with the other guy that she liked and now the guy she used to go out with h8s her and is not talking to her. Also the two guys,i think are still friends.

Q: I wanted to know why do some boys act mean and nasty to certain girls after they break up. Like they start saying "What are you looking at?" They also start talking about that girl and they don't speak no more or even look the girls way.

Q: There's this boy. I've liked him for about three years now. He liked me when I first started liking him, but I was too stupid to do anything about it.

Now that I think about it, he's always been the one in the back of my mind. And lately, I can't stop thinking about him.

I even had this dream that he was going out with this girl (who I hate, by the way) and I was completely jealous. Also, if his name even comes up in a conversation that a girl is having, I get extremely jealous. He's not even my boyfriend.

What does this mean and why am I constantly thinking about him? And what can I do to either a) get him off of my mind, or b) work up the nerve to tell him how I feel?

Q: So...I am 15 (soon to be 16) and this past Saturday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We've been together for almost 3 months. His Dad found out and now I have a feeling that he is going to tell my mom. I want to tell her. I really do, but I think that she will be really disappointed in me. I was going to tell her tonight but I couldn't do it. Something told me that it wasn't a good idea, but then I get the feeling that I should because if she finds out from his dad, then she will be even more disappointed in me for the fact that I didn't tell her myself. I don't think she'll trust me ever again. And I have a feeling that she won't want me to see him anymore. I can already see what she is going to say. "You're only 15." or "How could you be so stupid?" or she will call me a slut...I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? Or not...

Q: Me and a friend saw eachother at a dance last friday and there was a lot of flirting. This friday we're seeing eachother again. Last friday he said he was going to dance with me at the dance this coming friday. The thing is he has a girlfriend and when it comes to dancing i freak dance. I told him "yea ill dance with u....but what about ur....nevermind?"...then he said "Girlfriend?"...i said "yea!"....he told me "dancing is dancing". So i don't know if its going to be wrong to freak with him while he has a girlfriend?...also i can't stop flirting with him because he flirts with me....What should i do???

Q: ok so i like this guy a lot but right now i'm not with him and he's talking to someone else. But my real thing is this other guy that i don't tlak to much but he is really cool. He's sweet and he's a really good kid. he's cute too. well i was wondering about how i should start a conversation with him. He's kinda shy. He plays football, basketball, and baseball. He's like the all around american guy. So how should i get him to notice me? how should i start a conversation with him? and about he other guy i like should i wait on him and not take my chances with this guy? idon't know waht to do so help me out. GUYS ANSWER THIS TOO PLEASE!

Q: So this guy , who is one of my good friends but isn't that good looking like at all. (Not trying to be mean) was talking about how he was getting roses for this girl for vday, and then he was like so..do you like roses? and I was like uh.. yeah..? am I just being paranoyed (sp?) Or is he getting me roses for vday?!!! I really don't want to have him give me something..but I don't want to be like oh uhh..thanks.. how do I show him that I don't like him without being mean?! he suffers from depression, so I really REALLY don't want him to get sad if I don't like him. WHAT TO DO?!

Q: Okay there is this guy I like and yeah he dosn't know I like him and tomorrow is valentines day. I don't know what to do or say. I've liked him for such a long time! I hardly talk to him. If this helps I'm 13/f. Just any advice is appreciated. I don't want to tell him I like him, just little hints I guess. It isn't really hard to talk to him but it would be a little weird to just go up and talk to him. And I don't have many classes with him too. Thanx!

Q: Well I don't know. You see, i'm 13. This boy has been my best friend for about two years and we've been together for a year. It's nice and everything. We are real close and know almost everything about eachother and everything. He's different from the rest of the guys i've gone out with. Don't think I am a slut or anything but we are both comfortable being naked around eachother. He trusts me and I trust him. No, this is not my first relationship. Anyhow, he's always there when i need him. Well, he's actually a nice boy and won't take advantage of me or anything like that or trying to get me to have sex with him. I know i'm young and yes i am still a virgin. Most of you are probably thinking "teen love dont have sex with him" Of course i'll be on birth control and have a condem and everything but i'm not sure if i should give up my virginity so young. So what do you people out there think about the whole situation?

Q: heyy, im a 15 (nearly 16) year old girl. im having baddd problems with both my boyfriend and my Friends. i know the expression "Chicks before Dicks" but that isnt working. i dont hang out with my friends as much i'd like to. and i hang out with my boy every weekend (his grandma lives across the street and he lives 30 mins away) so every time i make plans with my friends on the weekends he cant help but to get upset. i love spending time with him, but i need friends, you know. i dont know if i should break it off. i've been with him for 9 months now. i've been trying to work it out but it's not working. my friends dont like him either. they think he is trouble. bhe is also one of my best friend ex.

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