Question Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 12:44 pm
There's this boy. I've liked him for about three years now. He liked me when I first started liking him, but I was too stupid to do anything about it.
Now that I think about it, he's always been the one in the back of my mind. And lately, I can't stop thinking about him.
I even had this dream that he was going out with this girl (who I hate, by the way) and I was completely jealous. Also, if his name even comes up in a conversation that a girl is having, I get extremely jealous. He's not even my boyfriend.
What does this mean and why am I constantly thinking about him? And what can I do to either a) get him off of my mind, or b) work up the nerve to tell him how I feel?
andalixsays answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 5:49 pm: Wow, exact same thing happening to me. I was about to post a question about the guy.
But what you have to do is show him that you like him. First, jsut be friendly. then, send him some hints. But less like flirty ones, because you really want him to know that youre serious.
I think I know exactly how you feel, and I know that it really hurts. If you somehow find out that he doesn't like you(which i doubt will happen) leave on in my inbox. I want to help. [ andalixsays's advice column | Ask andalixsays A Question ]
aj6030 answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 5:45 pm: You have the HOTS for this guy! It's not anything to be ashamed about. You like him and most likely he likes you.
Maybe because he liked you first, and then you didn't do anything, he feels that you don't like him. So maybe if you kinda show him that you like him he will bounce back.
In my opinion, you should never tell a boy DIRECTLY that you like him. It might freak him out, and you don't want that. Try talking to him every now and then. Try to show that you have feelings for him without really saying it. Get me?
runawayxlove answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 3:30 pm: hey, alright when those are obvious signs that your crazy about him. you need to tell him how you feel before its too late -- if it isnt already. just tell him straight up and dont leave any feelings out. the worse thing that can happen is rejection, but at least you tried and now you know that its not meant to be. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
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