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This guy


Question Posted Tuesday February 13 2007, 9:22 pm

Okay there is this guy I like and yeah he dosn't know I like him and tomorrow is valentines day. I don't know what to do or say. I've liked him for such a long time! I hardly talk to him. If this helps I'm 13/f. Just any advice is appreciated. I don't want to tell him I like him, just little hints I guess. It isn't really hard to talk to him but it would be a little weird to just go up and talk to him. And I don't have many classes with him too. Thanx!

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indepthadvice answered Tuesday February 13 2007, 10:16 pm:
Since you two sound like you are acquaintences, you won't be able to talk about too much with him.

If you see him during the school day, simple gestures will make you stand out to him. Smile at him or say 'hi' if you pass him in the hall, and make small talk if you happen to have an oppourtunity to talk to him. Be careful not to overdo it though; you don't want to stand out to him too much because it will seem too obvious. To hint that you like him, just be outgoing & always make eye contact. If things start going well, (no rush!) you can flirt a little, and if he goes along with it, then you're good to go.

Some other ways you can hint that you like him are to email/instant message/text him about homework, or something like that. If you don't have any academic classes with him and you can't really ask him about the homework, talk to him about something else that you two share, besides a class. Music and hobbies are favorite subjects to bring up with people you don't really know. Find out what bands he listens to/etc. or how he did at the basketball game.

Good luck, hope you get the guy, and have a happy valentines' day <3

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aj6030 answered Tuesday February 13 2007, 9:46 pm:
Start with small talk. If you have ANY classes together you could ask about the homework. You could always just say, "Hey! Do you know (one of your friends names)? That's cool, I know (that person) too."

You should always smile when he walks by, and when you can do the cheek to cheek kiss. Show that you know he's there.

Don't try too hard to make yourself noticeable. He will catch on.

And as for tomorrow. Don't ask him to be your Valentine. Just say things like, "Do you have a Valentin?" Make him a little nervous and then say, "Just Chill! LOL!"

AND REMEMBER!!! Always act like yourself. Only then will people love you for who you truly are! :D

-AJ

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