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Okay there is this guy I like and yeah he dosn't know I like him and tomorrow is valentines day. I don't know what to do or say. I've liked him for such a long time! I hardly talk to him. If this helps I'm 13/f. Just any advice is appreciated. I don't want to tell him I like him, just little hints I guess. It isn't really hard to talk to him but it would be a little weird to just go up and talk to him. And I don't have many classes with him too. Thanx! (link)
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Since you two sound like you are acquaintences, you won't be able to talk about too much with him.
If you see him during the school day, simple gestures will make you stand out to him. Smile at him or say 'hi' if you pass him in the hall, and make small talk if you happen to have an oppourtunity to talk to him. Be careful not to overdo it though; you don't want to stand out to him too much because it will seem too obvious. To hint that you like him, just be outgoing & always make eye contact. If things start going well, (no rush!) you can flirt a little, and if he goes along with it, then you're good to go.
Some other ways you can hint that you like him are to email/instant message/text him about homework, or something like that. If you don't have any academic classes with him and you can't really ask him about the homework, talk to him about something else that you two share, besides a class. Music and hobbies are favorite subjects to bring up with people you don't really know. Find out what bands he listens to/etc. or how he did at the basketball game.
Good luck, hope you get the guy, and have a happy valentines' day
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heyy, im a 15 (nearly 16) year old girl. im having baddd problems with both my boyfriend and my Friends. i know the expression "Chicks before Dicks" but that isnt working. i dont hang out with my friends as much i'd like to. and i hang out with my boy every weekend (his grandma lives across the street and he lives 30 mins away) so every time i make plans with my friends on the weekends he cant help but to get upset. i love spending time with him, but i need friends, you know. i dont know if i should break it off. i've been with him for 9 months now. i've been trying to work it out but it's not working. my friends dont like him either. they think he is trouble. bhe is also one of my best friend ex. (link)
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Talk to both your friends and your boyfriend about it.
Start with your guy. Make sure you let him know that you love the time that you spend with him, but you miss having a little time with your friends too. If you really care about this boy, don't break it off unless you're completely sure that he's directly interfering with your friendships (or something else). You say that your friends think he's bad news, and your best friend did date him, so figure out why they're saying this. It could be simply because they're jealous of the time you're spending with him that they used to spend with you. But...they might know something about him you don't. Listen to your friends; they can usually see what we are blinded by when we are in love.
Another idea; hang out with both your boyfriend & your friends in a big group. This will allow you to spend time with both, although it might cause some conflict between your friends and guy, as it sounds like they don't get along. Be careful of this; if it seems like it will cause problems having your friends and your boyfriend in the same room, skip the group date and hang out with your friends & boyfriend separatley.
And finally, you should always confide in your friends about how you're feeling about the situation. You definetely all need to spend a little girly time together every once in a while, and it sounds like you miss hanging with just the girlies. Don't let your guy get in the way of great friendships. Make plans to have a girls' only day; go to the mall or have a sleepover. Call them on weekends just to see what's up. Don't drift too far from your friends, as long as they are true to you.
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