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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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i dont understand the instructions on this tip:
You put the end of the pen on the right corner of your mouth and hold it with your teeth.Then hold the other end of the pen with your right hand. But while doing it have no eye contact with him, and keep your head perked up. I have no idea why but guys think its sexy and it makes you look atractive. Go get em girls!
so basically chew on one end of the pen? is there a picture or video of this? haha
im pretty sure its saying just to put the end of the pen in the right corner of your mouth and bite it, but not chew on it. just keep it in your mouth. and keep your hand on the pen. i dont understand why guys would think thats sexy though? maybe because the girl would have something in their mouth? okay good luck...
So first of all I'm a sixteen year old junior. I have my tight group of friends, 7 other girls, who I'm practically always with. I am pretty well known around my school, not for anything bad, I just am involved in a lot around my school. I have no problem meeting or talking to people, I'm not socially awkward. The problem is that recently my friends have ALL been in relationships. We all have jobs and sports, so schedules conflict. But when they dont, they all hang out with their boyfriends. Its not that they've never been in relationships before, but now they are all in relationships at the same time. I'm extremely alone. I've never been in a relationship, never been kissed. I have been asked to dances, which leads no where except the boy grinding on me, which is not enjoyable. I've been told that I'm extremely attractive, really funny and fun to be around. I'm blonde, medium height and skinny. My eyes are blue/green, they change color, and I dress cute/fashionable without putting my whole body out there. I am really athletic too. I dont portray myself as desperate cause I'm actually somewhat confident. I get crushes and normally the guy ends up liking me too. Then he meets my friends and he starts dating one of them. Three of my friends boyfriends are guys I liked who I introduced them too. I would like to know, what i should do. I cant see my friends anymore and I can't get a guy to like me. My life has basically become work, school, studying, and ice hockey. I'm not satisfied. Please help.
sorry but thats pretty bitchy of your BEST FRIENDS to go out with guys that you like! i mean seriously.. thats a total no no. and THREE of them. you should totally confront them about that! tell your friends you feel left out and you want to hang out with them too. suggest a girls night out or something with just the girls and no boyfriends.
whats it like to makeout?
how do you do it really?
how do you get over being nervous?
okay well its pretty amazing. if its with the right person. most people like it. unless the other person is really bad. you just go with the flow. you kiss them and then you use your tounge. i know you probably feel like you have no idea what to do but its really not that hard. you'll get it once you do it. type into google 'how to make out' that might be helpful. i dont think its possible to get over being nervous. i've made out plenty of times and i still get a little nervous when i do it. its part of the thrill. just dont worry about it and have lots and lots of fun. good luck!
im almost 16 and have NO boobs at all. it is pathetic and i prob have the smallest boobs of any girl in my grade maybe my whole school. i havnt had a boyfriend in like forever and i know boys are probably turned off by it. do you think guys wont wanna be with me cause of my no boobs? plus is there any way to make your boobs bigger. lol
im guessing that yes, that is the reason why you havent had a boyfriend in awhile. unfortunately, a lot of guys are really shallow and they go for girls with big boobs/butts. you cant really make your boobs bigger but if you gain weight they naturally get a little bigger. i would only suggest that though if you are like REALLY SUPER skinny because then maybe thats why you have no boobs. im sure they arent done growing. you might just be a late developer. just show guys your personality and hopefully they will like you for that. you could also try push-up bras. good luck :)
There's this kid in one of my classes that is incredibly shy. And if you're getting the impression that he just doesn't initiate conversations with girls, or he wouldn't hug girls or be alone with a girl, it's WAY beyond that. He only talks to his group of friends, if you talk to him he'll blush and give a nervous smile and turn away (not rudely), and if he's made to talk in class, he gets nervous and embarassed.
Clearly a guy who I don't even talk to is not going to ask me out or initiate anything. I've tried talking to him a few times, but he's just so shy and awkward. I was just wondering if there's anybody who was in this situation, or if anybody is a shy guy like this, how would I approach him? I mean, obviously I'd have to take things in steps by tryhing to have small talk with him and maybe if I could ever possibly be friends with him that'd be truly amazing. Some stuff about him is that he's really deep, he's incredibly smart, and he's like a rocker-type..oh yeah and he's an anarchist, but I wouldn't approach him with this information because there was really know way for me to know this information in the first place =\
How could I talk to him in a way that he wouldn't just shyly turn away?
Thanks for leading this long thing =]
try talking to his friends first and seeing if they all wanna hang out with you and some of your girl friends. that way he can feel more comfortable because he will be with his friends too, so it will be less awkward and he can slowly ease into talking to girls.
What is a cute name I can gall my boyfriend named Ryan?
ry ry
cutie
baby
sexy
sweetie
honey
babe
okay so this is SO complicated but please try & help me.
alright so i met this boy named james. we started talking. very flirty we were. after talking for a while everytime i went to a party or a guy friend he'd ask "did you do anything?" or before id go to a party or before a guy would come over he'd beg me not to do anything. like meaning kiss etc. so i was like hm okay. we'd always flirt and he'd always make me smile. then later on he told me he liked me. i was kind of like woahhh. but then more and more talking to him i started really liking him to. like to the point where he was the only thing i thought of. then one day we kind of got in a fight? so then my guy friend mark came over and then james was being like a total ass. like he wanted to fight mark becuase mark liked me. & im totally against fighting. so i was like fighting with james and was like no your not fighting him blah blah then hes like whatever ill talk to you later. so then i thought he didnt like me anymore. so i started being all flirtyish with mark. little did i know james was totally crushed. he didnt tell me so how was i supposed to know. well me and marks thhing ended pretty soon. and of course i still had strong feelings for james. me and james were on talking terms. then one random day this girl named shauna came along. like OUT OF NO WHERE. then he started liking her a lot. started putting her name everywhere. in his profile his myspace his away messages with the little
he sounds like a really big dick. sorry. hes probably not a good guy to get into a relationship with. he sends mixed signals and he doesnt seem like he can be loyal to one girl.
So i've been talking to this girl for a while, and I kind of like her but im just getting to know her and her friends. We went finally got a chance to
hang out and we went to the movies last night and i had my arm around her most of the movie but didn't make a move cause it's hard to do in a
movie, plus hanging out with her the first time but...anyway i txted her that night and said what a great time i had and she said "me too :) you
should come over kelseys tomarrow" and i said yeah just lemme know what time and ill go :]. So the next day comes around but she doesnt get back to me, and i heard her friend did have people over
her house, now i'm wondering do you think shes interested? i mean some text conversations we have usually indicate that shes pretty interested lol but i don't get it, any girls have input on this? thanks alot!...im a male btw
okay if she wasnt interested at all she wouldnt be letting you put her arm around you in the movies, let alone go to the movies with you at all. there could be a lot of reasons why she didnt invite you to kelseys the next day. maybe they just had girls over. maybe she really likes you and she didnt feel like making the effort that night to flirt with you, look cute, etc. i dont know if you understand that or not, its kinda a girl thing. sometimes we dont feel like seeing the guy we like when we're not looking/ acting our best. maybe her friend told her she couldnt invite anyone else. i would wait a few days and see if she talks to you/ texts you. dont text her. you'll seem too desperate.
ooook so there is this guy. i met him in 2006 and ever since, he's all i've thought of. everything in my life i do to impress him or whatnot. hes one of my close friends and he knows i used to like him, although im sure he knows i still do. whenever im with him i just feel...happy. i feel like life is perfect and like i never want to go home. and when im not with him, i feel crappy. i feel self-conscious, depressed, etc. did i mention he goes to another school and i only see him like once every 3 weeks? so, as you can expect thats a lot of time feeling depressed and crappy.
i want my life to move on. usually about once a month i try to get a life of my own and make other friends and try not thinking about him. but it never works and im beginning to think it never will. so this is where i turn to advicenators. i need help. im sick of feeling depressed, im sick of not having my own life, im sick of my crappy friends who never want to talk about real-life problems, im just sick of the life i claim to live.
any thoughts?
haha im kinda in a slighty similar situation. except i like more than one guy so it definetly isnt as bad as you feel. but yeah one of them goes to a different school too and i only see him like once a month maybe less. and since 2006 is a long time to like someone. obviously you like him A LOT. you should definetly make other friends. your crush on him shouldnt stop that. you still need to have girl friends and guy friends even if you like someone else from another school. call him more often and ask him to hang out. flirt with him a lot. try to find out if he likes you back.
ok so there's this guy i know. and we met because he randomly added me on facebook and i had never talked to him in my life (usually i don't accept people i don't know on facebook.. but i'm so glad i accepted him). so, we talked only once when he first added me, and never talked after that until my birthday. so after my birthday, we kept talking and talking and i was in an awkward situation with one of his good friends, and he helped me through that. and we've been talking for a few weeks now, and he's called me beautiful TWICE (more than any other guy in my life..) and he told me he loves me?? i KNOW that he doesn't actually love me, but i can't tell if he's jokingly like, "i love you" or "i have a crush on you and i want you to know." you know? what do you guys think?
this guy goes to your school right? like you know hes a real person right..? just making sure.. anyways a lot of people say "i love you". i wouldnt really think that much of it. he could be flirting with you but i know i say i love you to like all my guy friends and they say it to me. it doesnt mean that he likes you. but him calling you beautiful might mean something. i guess it depends on what type of guy he is. you may need to find out a little more about him. he could be a total flirt that calls every girl beautiful to make them feel good so they like him or whatever. he seems interested in talking to you because you said that you talked a lot. if he didnt want to talk to you then he wouldnt.. so at least you know he likes you as a friend. and he helped you with your problems which probably means he wanted to show you he was a nice guy. i find that lots of times when guys like you they want to help you with your problems so you feel better :) theres definetly a chance he likes you so keep talking to him! and make sure you flirt back a little if you like him! or a lot.. haha ;)
Ive been going out with this guy for 4ish months now and i want to kiss him[i havent yet]
so i no this sound dumb but i need help im despreat]
1:how do i give him the hint i want to kiss him
2:where do my hands go
3:how long
theres more so give me more advivce pleasee
1. get close to him. put your head close to his.
2. they can go wherever you want.. around his shoulders, around his neck, on his waist, in his hair, whatever.
3. as long as you want
my friend told me if you like a gay guy youre considered a lesbian, is this true?
thats not true at all. just because he is gay doesn't make him a girl/not a man.
i have a lot of guy friends and think they all rock. four of them happen to like me, but im a senior and moving to texas to go to college so there is no point in dating you know. but what if i dont find a hot guy in texas. how do i get to meet people and be well liked.
well you still have like half a school year, so if you want to date one of them you do have some time. if you like one of them then go out with them =) you might regret it if you dont. if you guys are still going out when you are ready to leave for college you can then make the decision if you want to keep going out with him or not. you can go to college being his girlfriend as long as you dont cheat on him. if you find a new guy you like better then you can dump him. im sure theres tons of hot guys in texas. and if you dont like southern guys or whatever theres probably gonna be guys from all over the world at your college. so you dont really have to worry about that. you meet people by doing different activities and meet them in classes and stuff.
i have been going out with this guy for like 3 weeks now. and everytime he trys to french kiss me i freeze up. and go mmm noo. nott now. or something stupid like that. and i want to kiss him i really do. but i dont know why i freeze up like that. its like a reflex or something.
any idea whyy?
thankss in advance
that used to happy to me with my last boyfriend. maybe youre nervous? just go for it. dont think about what youre doing and just do it.
i have them and i want to know:do guys really like back dimples/ dimples of venus on girls?
it doesnt really matter. if you have them it means you must be pretty skinny because heavier girls dont usually have them. so im guessing guys would want you to have them because it means youre skinnierr =)
ok ive been going out off and on with this guy for 2 years, at the beginning he was the best boyfriend he was like whipped i guess well not completely but i knew he cared, and since august hes been COMPLETELY different he never calls me texts me or anything im in highschool and i see him everyday and sometimes he acts like im not even his girlfriend.. ik ur going to say breakup with him but honestly i think that will make matters worse bc this new girl came to our school shes latina and shes georgous and to make it worse, hes the captain of the football team.. and he has all of the guys wrapped around his finger in our grade and SHE LIKES HIM. they stare at eachother all the time. whenever i ask him about her hes always like no i dont like her kelly stop asking me. I believe him bc he never lies to me but still it doesnt change the fact that he treats me completely different now. In the summer i brokeup with him and liked 3 different guys but i never hooked up or anything with them. like 3 weeks ago tim told me that he was still upset ad he wanted a break and then we got back together like 2 days later. idk whats going on but i need advice how to not focus or like play hard to get with him more bc i think he knows now that he can get me whenever he wants please help me im open to any advice. and ive already tried talking to him about it a million times and hes just like, ill change babe ughh
THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE this has been going on for to long.
flirt a little bit with other guys in front of him. not like obviously flirt but just enough to scare him a little and show him that theres a possibility that next time he does something you dont like you wont go crawling back to him. you should also talk to him and tell him that he needs to start acting more like a boyfriend. if he doesnt do that then yes i would break up with him. i know you probably dont want to do that because you think he will go out with the new girl. but honestly you shouldnt waste your time on this guy.
Ok well me and my girlfriend went to a casino for new years with her mom and her mom's boyfriend. We were alone the whole time and decided we wanted to have sex. So we found a family restroom there and went in it and locked the door. Well we started making out, the usual, got undressed. Then a little after that someone was banging on the door yelling open the door and shit so we panicked and put our clothes on then waited a minute and got out of there. Well we didnt see anyone waiting to get in so we went back in there. And tried again, we decided to keep most of our clothes on in case someone tried to get in again. Well a little after we got in the bathroom again and i was hard i put the condom on but i couldnt keep the erection for long. so i took the condom off and she sucked me to get me hard again but it didnt last long after that stopped and our only condom was wasted. a little later someone else banged on the door sayin open up and we got scared again, got our clothes on and left. Well i was basically wondering as to why it was hard for me too keep my erection. I dont know if this has anything to do with it but before we went in i really had to go pee. So was it just the nerves of me neing afraid of getting caught and in trouble or did having a full bladder might have to do with it also? idk please help me i dont want my girlfriend to think it was her fault. by the way i'm 17 and she is 16. PLEASE HELPPP
i think you were just nervous that someone was going to walk in or something. thats why you couldnt stay hard. it was hard for you to concentrate on what was going on because you kept thinking about getting caught. i wouldnt worry about it.
(this question is mostly for guys)
what do guys like in girls and what do they dislike in girls?
well im a girl.. sorry
but every guy is different.
they look for different things in girls
while one guy may be adventurous and want a girl who is also like that.. another guy might be more laid back and want a girl similiar to him. most guys look for a girl that is nice, fun, and they can have a good time with them. some guys are shallow and they look for skinny pretty girls, but other guys dont care what the girl looks like and just looks for a good personality.
17/f
im around the varsity hockey boys ALOT cuz i am one of their managers. and we had to go to an away game that was like an hour away so me and the other manager rode the coach bus with them. on the way up there we sat in the front with the coaches and one of the boys texted me and goes, you should come back here and entertain us, we can have fun. and then they were texting me "show me your boobs" and then one called me and was like your looking pretty sexy today. so i was like okay..there being goofs. and keep in mind alot of them have girlfriends.well then we were watching a little of the JV game and some of the boys came and sat by us and one of the boys was like ahhh im tired can i lay my head on you, and he was like always close to me but he has a girlfriend. and then on the way home the whole bus stopped at a fast food place and i got out and someone touched my butt and then we sat down and they all sat by us and were talking to us and one of the boys was like oh yeah some of the guys were talking about the gift that god gave you and i was like what? i dont get it..and the other one goes ohh her boobs. and i was like oh my godd but mine arent even that big there like a B! but anyways this is the most ive talked to all these boys, and i wanna keep talking to them in school and stuff, but i dont know what to do. do you think some of them are being serious about what they are saying? and then the boy that kept sitting by me came up by me and my friend towards the end and everyone was like OHHH YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! they are all soo cute but it sucks that some of them have girlfriends. it was just such a good day. but i dont know what to think or do about all this.
it sounds like these guys were joking. they might be making fun of you or they might have just been having fun. boys get that way sometimes. i wouldn't take this as anything huge.
I broke up with my 7 month boyfriend because my very best friend, who I trusted with my life, told me he was cheating on me. About three weeks ago I found out she was 'just kidding around' and I started sinking into depression because her and I are no longer friends and I lost my first love over a cruel joke.
I want him back, I'm still very much in love with him. Were still friends, we flirt but he flirts with anything and always has. I want so badly to just kiss him again, to be with him. I don't know what to do or how to tell him without scaring him off.
just explain the situation to him. tell him what your friend said and tell him you want him back. he should understand =)