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Trying to find old love.
I broke up with my 7 month boyfriend because my very best friend, who I trusted with my life, told me he was cheating on me. About three weeks ago I found out she was 'just kidding around' and I started sinking into depression because her and I are no longer friends and I lost my first love over a cruel joke.
I want him back, I'm still very much in love with him. Were still friends, we flirt but he flirts with anything and always has. I want so badly to just kiss him again, to be with him. I don't know what to do or how to tell him without scaring him off.
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You need to talk to him. That is the only way things are ever going to be fixed. Next time you run into him, pull him aside for a minute and tell him the two of you really need to talk. Invite him out to dinner so the two of you can chat in a relaxed environment. Don't go over his house or invite him to yours because that would just be kind of awkward. Then just explain everything. Tell him you made a mistake and you are sorry. If he is a good guy, he will understand and the two of you can try to make things work again. Just be calm and rational about it. There's no reason why the two of you can't work out this misunderstanding.
As for you friend, I think the two of you need to talk as well. I don't know if you're no longer friends because of this incident or what, but if it's bothering you this much, you need to get her back in your life. Next time you see her, ask how she's doing and tell her you miss having her in your life. Ask to hang out sometime to catch up and get close again.
Patience, talking things out, and time can definitly fix all this. I know you can do it.
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well the only thing i can think of for you to do is just talk to him and ask for him back or maybe just go for the kiss and that its self might bring to realize that you want him back well i hope i helped
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just explain the situation to him. tell him what your friend said and tell him you want him back. he should understand =)
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well first of all that was a rediculose thing for you're friend to say, she probably was just jealous. don't be depressed over loosing her as a friend though! i mean i know it's easier said then done, but if she would do that too you you clearly deserve better than her. and as for the guy, i would just flat out tell him what happened. if you guys went out for that long he would still have feelings for you, they wouldnt just go away. so i'd try telling him that you still like him and messed up and see what he says. if you need anyhting else let me know.. hope i helped
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