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ok...i have been going out with this guy for about a month now...he has become one of my best friends too...any ways....my friend is all over him ALL the time! she hugs him, holds his hands...and i dont like it...im going out with him not her! im not jealous....i just dont like it! what should i do!?!?!? thank you soooo much! (link)
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HIT THAT BITCH!
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alright im bAhAmAmA0250 but my friend said she tried asking me a question but it said that i am not accepting questions... whats up with that? i mena i havent been online for awhile now so i dont know if thats the problem but i can get other questions that are in thing like where anybody can answer so whats the deal (link)
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well u need to log on n then go to profile settings and click the area that says "who can ask you questions" that should do it
-katharina-
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my boyfriend is awesome on the phone and stuff but then in person hes like distand he doesnt hold my hand, put his arm around me or anything like that...he hugs me when he says good bye and soemtimes kisses me ..i know hes not prude or anything like that because ive seen him with his ex girlfriends and i know hes not a virgin but i hate it like i hangout with my friends that are dating and theyre all over eachother and im lonely which is pretty sad when i have a bf what should i do (link)
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well the most obvious answer is tell him how you feel..tell him you feel as if there is some weird distance b/t u..if things dont change or he says he feels uncomfortable making the first move then HELLO...make the first move. other than that then u just might not b right for eachother..hope i helped
-katharina-
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Okay, at homecoming i hung out with this one guy. we both had lots of fun but it was the first time i had ever talked to him. Well, yesterday me and my friend were walking down the hall and she looked into this one class and said, "hey look its the guy you danced with!" he looked out and saw me...i was sooooo embarassed. well, I really wanna talk to him but he probably thinks i'm a little kid now b/c of my friend :o( guys if you can answer this that would be awesome!
he's also a year older than me and he hasn't tried talking to me yet, but it's not like i ever see him during the day. Do i have a chance at all? (link)
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well just try making small talk with him..say somthing like "hey..ya have fun at homecoming" n start a lil giggle..then just continue from there.
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ok i broke up with my X boyfriend last year for the 2nd time. I don't kno y but everytime i read a story about a relationship tearing apart i think of him. I have a new boyfriend and hes the best and i love him but i realize i miss my X sooooo much. He was always there for me. He would make me feel better. I cry every time i think of him and all the things we talked about. What am i susposed 2 do. I kno i should 4 get about him cuz we go 2 dif. skools now and i never really see him n e more but i really miss him. help me!!!
sry this is so long
-confused (link)
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well if oure still thinkin of him then doesnt matter how happy your nguy makes you cuz he cant filhe space your ex has taken...dont let dif. schools be the barrier b/t the 2 of u..u need to talk to him and let him kno how u feel..then get on with your life.
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my boyfriend of 2 nd 1/2 weeks lives in a homeless shelter..i jus found out..he says he lives in juvie but he doesnt. that doesnt bother me..its jsut i only see him on weekends nd i dont know if thats enough for me..im supposed to see him this sat. nd go to the movies nd im def. gunna go..i just dont know what to do about our relationship..i love him its just im a very attractive gal nd i have a crush on this otha kid ant..im SOOOO confused..any advice is greatly appreciated.. thnx (link)
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well honestly if you love him like you said..it wouldnt matter where he lives..but if youre doubting the relationship then maybe you dont care as much as you think you do...i do understand the part about it not being enough time tho..just ask what the deal is and see if you can arrange some more time..if not and if its bothering you that much talk to him..if the problem persist it might be better to end it.
xokatharinaxo
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well my title kinda says it all! i want my ex boyfriend back! we went out alot during 7th grade and now im in 8th and we went out 1 so far! and this time i feel so hard for him and i really really like him still and i want him back but i think that he just want to be friends but i want to be more then friends ! to tell ya the truth i honestly dont know what went wrong when we went out this last time everything was perfect! when we were together we cuddled and held hands and that kind of stuff but we do go to different schools but live by eachother! i really want another chance! do you think that im just wasting time and that i should give up! or do you think that i should stick with him and try to get him back ! im open to anything! PLEASE HELP!!!
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does he know you want him bakk and that you feel this strongly about him..if not then tell him...if he does know and youre positive he just wants to be friends there is nothing more to do about it.
xokatharinaxo
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i'm in eighth grade and my mom doesnt think girls my age should have boyfriends. im not really close with her either. and ive never had a bf either. i dont know what to tell her if i get asked out..? please help, thx ! (link)
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well ive been dating since the summer of my 5th grade yr and my mom didnt know i had a bf til 9th grade..u just have to make her think they r good friends or somthin..if u want him to come over say its for school..if u want to go to the movies invite other friends so it wont seem suspicious..hope i helped and good luck.
XoKaThArInAxO
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about a month aqo ii broke up with this quy who ii was datinq for almost 2 monthsz cuz he cheated on me with his ex-qirlfriend . it doesn`t bother me so much that they`re toqether anymore but ii still have major feelinqsz for him . the only problem with that is the fact that he practically hatesz me because of some stuff that my best friend said to him shortly after we broke up . this one chick has been hanqinq out with him a lot and it makesz me sOo mad and ii dunno why . ii know ii still love him but ii dunno why it`sz botherinq me this much . can anyone tell me why ? and what should ii do about it ? (link)
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well yes there are plenty f fish in the sea but what if you dont like all those other fish..men are more like cookies..sometimes u get a good batch sometimes you dont..all you can do is try and be str8 forward with him and tell him how you feel..if he says he doesnt feel that way see he he'll still b friends with you..if not let it go somehow...if he turns into an a** within the first sentence say well screw u then n walk off youre better without him.
XoKaThArInAxO
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ok i have a long distance g/f im talkin outastate ne way i call her alota and she means the world to me i could go on and on about her but there is 1 prob i have only seen 1 pic of her and im not even sure thats her and i prob wont ever see her in person what do i do???
plz get back to me (link)
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well most ppl say long distance realationships never work..and youre rite it might not be her see if she has a webcam or anything and if not then idk what to tell you..plus you never know she could be like "yeah youre my bf" on the computer but whose to say she aint with someone else on the side..comp. realationshipd arent exactly real realationships..idk what else to tell you hope i helped..
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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im a 15 year old guy. since i was 7 i wanted a serious relationship where id meet a girl in high school and marry her. now im in high school. i met a girl. and id love to marry her. but she doesnt like to think about commiting. i dont know what to do about. how to approach it. i wanna know if it can work between us, i wanna know if she could love me like i love her, eventally to the point where id be with her forever... (link)
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well ppl always say they want to marry their highschool sweetheart but it never turns out that way so dont get your hopes up to much..and i think you might be scaring her by bringing up marriage of all things rite away..give it some time let the love grow stronmger and thebn when you are about to graduate then think about marriage..you will have learned more about realationships and yourself by that time.hope i helped.
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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My friend, is friends with this very attractive boy, and he just moved here. I see him most of the time cuz now he goes to my church. But anyway im really starting to like him cuz he's real cool. But my other friend also likes him, but she always has boys left and right so im not to worried about her being too upset if we hooked up. But i wanna let him know im interested w/o seeming desperate or anything so, what should i do.
-LEAH!!! (link)
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well first before you talk to him you should talk to her bcuz friends come before boys, tell her you really like him and dont want to hurt her but she always has other options..then see what she says, if she is a good friend she'll understand...then tell him flat out you think hes a cool person and that you kind of like hium..dont thro the whole "i really like you we're perfect for eachother" thing, he'll freak...just let him kno how you feel easily..not harsh..everytyhing will b fine..let me kno how things go.
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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I am 17 f and my boyfriends friend always wants to talk to me about sex and he always tells me how much he loves me and needs me in his life but he knows that i have a boyfriend and my boyfriend is like his best friend I dont know what to do cuz I like my boyfriends friend but only as a friend do u think i should tell my boyfriend what his friend is saying to me? or should i just let his friend talk to me the way he does? (link)
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if his friend is making you uncomfortable and saying this he isnt being a friend to your b/f let alone a friend to you..tell your b/f..you and him will be better off with this guy out of your life..if you dont want to take that extreme measure then tell the guy you dont like him and you want to stay with your b/f...
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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i am so confused. i have written just about the same thing a lil bit ago, buts its not working. and i need help.
*i really like this kid, but he really likes my friend and just has a crush on me but he really likes this girl (my friend) and she only likes him because he likes her. but i truly like him and he doesn't even realize what shes doing to him. but theyve went out 3 times and shes broken up with him for another guy and yet he keeps going back and i wanna tell him what shes doing but its so obvious and i wanna tell her i like him but yet i don't!! WHAT DO I DO??
*so confused (link)
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all you can do is let him know why she likes him without hurting your friend..i mean if she was really a friend knowin u like him she wouldnt date him anyways..but maybe he just really likes her so he goes bakk..maybe he thinks shes playing hard to get..let him know u like him and she doesnt..then let nature take its course..you cant make him do anything..
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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how can you tel if your girlfriend is or did cheat on you (link)
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well one you can ask her or let her know that your trust for her ist to strong and ask if she has been or is thinking of going fr someone new..two you can get friends to watch her when they are around her..or you can pull a cheaters thing and get the detective if its that important..but the easiest is to look for the usual signs...never home not telling you where shes been lieing unusual smells on her new clothing..regular odd things..hope i helped
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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its so wierd...whenever i like a guy, i sooner or later get the feeling he likes me too. i've been right a couple of times, but i just think its wierd. does anyone else feel this way? i mean...if i do make this assumption, and i am wrong, i feel so hurt. this may sound stupid, but is there anything i can do about it?
please answer....i always rate well :)
-britski- (link)
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well a lot of ppl tend to get feelings so strong for others that they start to believe the other person in question likes them in return..so i guess it could be natural but also looks stalkerish...if they really like you youll know for a fact..you wont be the only one to believe it
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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my boyfriend hasnt called me n like over 1 month n he has done it b4 n i dont kno 2 do
should i break up with him or stay!!
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ok a week or 2 maybe but amonth hell no dump him..there is no excuse for that unless hes dead.
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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there is this guy that i went out with for about a week before school ended...when we broke up he said that he liked me but he didnt "like me like me" and he said he just wanted to be freinds. Well i still really like him a lot. we live on the same lake so i see him almost everyday, but i never get a chance to talk to him. the only chance is online...or when school starts. i have tried to get over him, but i just still really like him...so what do i do? (link)
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ive been in this situation..you really like someone but you never get to see them..all i can say is if you cant get over then let him know how you feel online if possible..if he doesnt feel the same way its not meant to be.maybe have one of your friends fix you up or just go out with the girls and check out guys..youll at least feel better.
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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ok im 14, im a girl. if i like a guy i never do anything...mabye flirt a lil bit but other than that i would always wait for the guy to make the first move...but now i feel like all my freinds always get the guys...but they never do anything..so what do i do? (link)
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if u see somthing you want go for it dont let your friends get the best of you.
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ok i like this guy a lot, we've dated befor but at that time i wasnt feelin him ya kno, well the other day we went out just chillen and i kissed him..he didnt say anything like he didnt care i guess but i dont kno if this means we're going out again or if we should go out again or what..im so lost pleasse help me.
desperate need (link)
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girl if you really like him and he didnt seem to mind you kissing him then talk to him about it...let him know that u have feelings for him and u want to be with him..if he say no its not meant to b
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO
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