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whats it like to makeout?
how do you do it really?
how do you get over being nervous?
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It's awesome is how it is.
You basically kiss, but you massage the other person's tongue with yours. The nervousness subsides pretty quickly, and its very much based on what your partner is doing. "Go with the flow" is good advice.
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Out-for-the-First-Time
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Hi Xineph! I got these translations from online, and I would like to know if they are accurate. Could u help me out? Thanks ya!
Does Ich Mochte sie fur immer kussen = i want to kiss you forever?
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Actually, the way to say that is as follows:
Ich will sie ewig küssen.
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im breaking up with a guy in like a few minutes. ive never done this before.
what do i say?
do i say "i think we're better off as friends" cause i think im gonna say that.
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The key is honesty.
Just tell him how you really feel. If you hate him, don't say you'd be better off as friends. If he asks you why, tell him why.
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To be blunt, I always get hurt when I have feelings for someone. It never fails; If anything is there for me always, that's rejection. I like guys that seem nice, but aren't that great in the end, or "just want to be friends."
I know it may sound stupid, but when I like a guy, it's not superficial; I actually like who he is and care about him, which could be why it hurts so much sometimes.
Well, my question is, why is God putting me through the same thing over and over again? Why can't He just let me be happy? I'm a Christian, and I definitely love and believe in God.
I know that I'm going to grow from all of this, and I know that having a boyfriend can be hard sometimes, but why do the same situations keep repeating themselves? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Listen...
There is no way I can give you a completely unbiased answer, because I have my own views on religion. But if there's one thing God can't mess with, it's free will. You can't blame God for any of this because the only way he could solve your problem is by screwing around with some other guy's, or your, free will. It's just not fair to anyone.
But either way, I think it would be easier for you to deal with this situation if you didn't consider him a part of it. The most important thing right now is to have a thick skin and persevere. You WILL meet your guy, it might just take a while. Just keep looking and things will sort themselves out.
Good luck!
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So how do u use your tongue... if you know what I mean (link)
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It's not really something that can be explained. Just follow what their tongue is doing, and try to move yours in ways that are comfortable... If you know what I mean.
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What is the most important thing when you look for love?
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Trust and honesty.
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Ok there is a dance at my school, and im going to ask my ex to dance, we broke up cause she wasnt felling it :( . Anywho I was wondering if it is ok to whisper in her ear somthing like I still love or I miss you. Is it ok? She wants to be just friends and her step sister said " dont she will be a dink " but I dont want her to go out with me again out of guilt. But I would also like to no some other things I could say, something affective! But this is a Junior high dance im in grade 8 and she is in grade 7 but were both 13. I need help real bad! (link)
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I seriously wouldn't recommend doing that. You can dance with her if you'd like, but whispering that in her ear will only make things more painful and complicated for her. As for the "it's just comfuesd" excuse (which is spelled "confused", by the way), that sounds pretty genuine to me. But just because she's confused doesn't mean she's coming back to you. You need to accept that the relationship is over.
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How do you let go of someone that you absolutely love, but they don't want you anymore? (link)
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This is not an easy thing to do.... You have to move on. Accept that you love them, but also accept that there's plenty more fish in the sea. There are definitely others who can treat you just as well. In the mean time, it may just suck. Rely on the support of friends and family would be my recommendation as to getting through.
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ok, so i know that i love being called beautiful.
but do guys like being called handsome?
or does that sound, like, stupid?
sorry if its kinda a stupid question.
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Not a stupid question. The genders are a little different...
Girl's tend to prefer being called beautiful or pretty over sexy or hot. Guys, on the other hand, can swing either way. Handsome is good, but so are all the other compliments.
Hope this helped :)
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so i had this class with this guy who was really sweet and always knew what to say. he would always scoot into the chair with me just so we could sit together and he would just grab my hand and just look into my eyes. one day when he was in the chair with me, he put his hand on my knee&i didn't think much about it. slowly he moved his hand up my thigh and i took and put it back on my knee[we were in class.] so i thought he REALLY liked me. but then i was talking to some other girls and they said that he did the same thing to them. i was crushed. he still gives we long hugs everyday and holds me, but i'm still hurt.
now heres my question; should i do something that will make him like me more than the rest of the girls&if so what? or should just forget about him?
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Confront him about it.
He could mean it more to you than the others, or the other way around. It's worth knowing for sure.
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how do you stop loving someone? (link)
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With extreme difficulty.
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well i wont to tell my parents im bi and have had a gf for abotu 5 months and i love her to death and i wont to marry her some day but how do i tell thim (link)
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There's no easy way of doing it. You're pretty much just going to have to wait until they're in good moods, sit down with them, and gently express that you think you might be bisexual. Good luck.
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i really like this guy. and we started talking a lot towards the end of 9th grade.. and like over the summer we talked and texted.. and one night we even stayed up till 2 in the morning talking online. we talked for four hours. and now 10th grade has started and we kind of haven't talked very much. i mean we texted for a little once... and i talked to him online like once... but that's it. i feel like he lost interest in talking to me. and like i want to reach out and keep talking to him but i don't want him to think of me as bothering him. he never reaches out to me... so should i just stop? (link)
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If you want to keep this up, then you're going to have to make an effort. Try and hang out with him more, and see how he responds to that in general. It may be time to let this go, but it may be worth checking it out a little further.
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So I like this guy sooo much!! And He finally asked me out.. I was about to say yes, cause he is like my dream guy, but i remembered that my mom wont let me go out with anyone. I really like him and all of his friends, and him have told me that he likes me back, but my mom won;t let me go out with anyone period!!
so should i say yes to him and not tell my mom..or??
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Your best bet would be to talk to your mom and see what you can work out. Going behind her back would only cause more problems... But I think you should be allowed to date. Explain the situation to her. Maybe introduce the guy to her, to show your mom that he's not a bad guy or anything.
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15/f. This is really long, just going to warn you now. I commend you even if you don't give me advice if you just read the whole thing.
I seem to be good at solving problems for everyone but myself. There's this guy, he's a senior at another school kind of far away and we've only met once, back in June. After we met for the first time, he asked me out. My sister spoke to him a few times and hates him for no reason, but for once that isn't the issue.
So over the summer I assumed that him asking me out was a relationship and that blew up in my face. He told me that it wasn't and I was very embarrassed and hurt and stopped speaking to him. I only came out with that story recently (I took my guilt out of it before) because he and I became very close again. So close, in fact, that he told me that he wants to take me to all the dark, secluded places where he lives. And many times this week it seemed like he had to tell me something but was too nervous. Then on Friday, he almost told me that he liked me, but said that we had to wait to be in person, which could've been as soon as this Thursday (and still could be). I was ecstatic. Then yesterday, he told me that he also likes me and another girl who goes to his school who he sees every day, and he thinks that she likes him. He's telling me as his "escape" because I don't know her and can't tell her anything. And then he says "It's a problem because if I go out with her and something happens with you, then I'm screwed." I've been on/off liking him for a month and I am just so sick of this crap. Thank you for reading.
1. WHAT THE HELL DOES HE WANT FROM ME?
2. I feel like I need closure. Next time I see him, should I hook up with him if I want to? (link)
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Love is intensely complicated, as I'm sure you already know. And unfortunately, the answer here may not be the one you want to hear....
You have little or no future with this guy. It seems to me as though he's just not decisive enough. If he really wanted you as much as you wanted him, he'd leave this other girl.... And hooking up would ABSOLUTELY NOT give you closure. If anything, it would make things worse. I know this is incredibly hard to do (I know, I've done it), but you're pretty much going to have to walk away from this one. Talk to him one last time, explain the situation, and then wash your hands of it.
Sorry. Hope I helped.
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so i havent known this one guy for long but i have i have question how to tell if he likes me
ok so like when i talk to him online and ims me 2 secs right after he comes back from away and he says hey! instead of like hi or hey. and hes reallyreally nice like one of the nicest guys EVER and whenever im sad he always tells me to call him to talk and just to talk in general and thats alot. and after i talked to him for awhile he said love you but he said as a friend way and he says to me everytime that he loves me but i dont know if he said that for being in a friend way just cause he doesnt want to seem things to go fast or if it really is a friend way
i dont know if he tells that to other girls as friends too cuase i havent known him for thatt long.and one day he comment me on myspace and my comment box says I LOVE YOU and your suppose to earse it and then type what you want but he said he left it there on purpose.
so help?!
i dont know if he likes me as a friend or more then a friend!!!? (link)
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Sounds to me like he's crushing on you.
The whole "call me when you're sad thing" is something that goes beyond regular friendship.
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15/f. Okay...this is quite complicated. But I'll try and explain. Okay...I joined an online forum (namely a 'Queen Fans' forum) and I met a guy there. Let's call him Freddie. Freddie is 18 and lives in Canada. I, myself, live in the states (farthest state from Canada lol). Well, I've known him (online, "Msn, AIM, etc") for about 7 months now. And him and I have gotten really close, like we've chatted, and sent pictures, talked on the phone, etc. I REALLY like him, and I think he's fond of me too. But the only thing that bothers me about this is the whole "online" thing. The truth is - I'm planning to meet him this summer. My question (for advice) is this -...I might not even HAVE a chance to meet him after all...and If I don't, is there really ANY point in continuing being friends with him? It's REALLLLLLYYYYYYYY weird and confusing...but he tells me that he loves me, and cares for me, and keeps on giving me hints like "When you're 18, come down to Canada again" or "Call me when you're 18" or even "When I see you, I'm going to pamper you with gifts (etc)". I know him now as if I knew him in REAL life, that's how close we are. And we talk to each other very personally, sharing secrets, talking about problems. On a VERY personal level (one that I would be with a best friend). But...the online thing's kind of a turn off. I'm asking you, nice and brilliant advice-givers, if I should keep this little shananigan going on...and if I should make him wait for me...Or if this is just TOO rediculous, and I should just move on in my relationships? weird...haha i know. Thanks so much in advance. I hope I didn't confuse anyone XD (link)
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You're right, this is pretty complicated.
If you care about him as much as he cares about you, then it may be worth keeping it going. Love can indeed prevail through situations like these, and it may be worth keeping up.
However, it's good that you're realistic about the future. The fact that he's so far away makes things very difficult, and it may be better to break it off now before he becomes too attached.
The third end of the spectrum would be whether he's trustworthy... You would know this better than I do, and I'm sorry if these seems un-knowledgeable or insulting. But the truth is, there are guys out there who are just trying to take advantage of girls online.
Ultimately, you're going to have to decide just how important the relationship is to you, and what you're willing to endure to preserve it.
Hope I helped.
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ok so i see this boy in the train every morning. and he is really cute. i want to get to know him. he goes to my school but we dont have classes together. what can i say to him witout looking stupid?. (link)
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Everyone so far has given you sound advice... School is your common ground, so it's your best way of starting a conversation. Ask about grade, teachers, classes... Then, you can move onto the more general stuff, like interests and background. Think of school as your gateway topic.
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I do not know Jake good enough to say hi in the hallways or do anything like that. I JUST got his last name from my friend today. She saved my butt on the bus, but her friend will be mad because my friend said she liked him instead of me. And if she said I liked him (witch i do) I would kill her!
P.S Not Really (link)
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How is this a question?
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Well there's this guy I like and me and him talk alot, which I know is good and everything, but know we've talked so much there isn't too much to talk about anymore, and the conversation starts to die after awhile.
I mean we do the casual "how was your day? school? what'd you do?," and everything, but after that, it's hard to talk about anything else cause you've already talked about mostly everything.
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Mmm... Sorry, but I've experienced this, and it could be the end. Perhaps try talking about more general, long term stuff? Goals, dreams, plans, etc.
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