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Why, God?
To be blunt, I always get hurt when I have feelings for someone. It never fails; If anything is there for me always, that's rejection. I like guys that seem nice, but aren't that great in the end, or "just want to be friends."
I know it may sound stupid, but when I like a guy, it's not superficial; I actually like who he is and care about him, which could be why it hurts so much sometimes.
Well, my question is, why is God putting me through the same thing over and over again? Why can't He just let me be happy? I'm a Christian, and I definitely love and believe in God.
I know that I'm going to grow from all of this, and I know that having a boyfriend can be hard sometimes, but why do the same situations keep repeating themselves? Thanks in advance.
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Hes just making you go through some bad ones before He gives you THE ONE.
I went through the same thing, and in the end....its all worth it...Trust me. Im married now! Yay!
Persevere though...Look at the Israelites...Things were going to be good, and as soon as they blamed God for something, or put their faith into something else, they spent 40 years in the wilderness.
Keep your eyes on God, know he has a plan for you, and you will be blessed in the end.
God knows what you want...just when is the hardest part about everything....we want now, He says wait.
I do hope I helped!
God Bless
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I think we have similar religious beliefs and I trust God for everything as well. Whenever I get hurt I always know everything happens for a reason - you said you know you will grow from it, which is good, I think like that also. Keep in mind that maybe if it wasn't meant to be, God is keeping you from something that may not have done much for you. Don't give up =]
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Listen...
There is no way I can give you a completely unbiased answer, because I have my own views on religion. But if there's one thing God can't mess with, it's free will. You can't blame God for any of this because the only way he could solve your problem is by screwing around with some other guy's, or your, free will. It's just not fair to anyone.
But either way, I think it would be easier for you to deal with this situation if you didn't consider him a part of it. The most important thing right now is to have a thick skin and persevere. You WILL meet your guy, it might just take a while. Just keep looking and things will sort themselves out.
Good luck!
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