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am i annoying him?
i really like this guy. and we started talking a lot towards the end of 9th grade.. and like over the summer we talked and texted.. and one night we even stayed up till 2 in the morning talking online. we talked for four hours. and now 10th grade has started and we kind of haven't talked very much. i mean we texted for a little once... and i talked to him online like once... but that's it. i feel like he lost interest in talking to me. and like i want to reach out and keep talking to him but i don't want him to think of me as bothering him. he never reaches out to me... so should i just stop?
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Why don't you just tell him how you feel?
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Maybe he feels that you don't like him as much, or that you've moved on. Maybe he feels that you don't care? Maybe you should try to talk to him once.. and see how he responds. the worst he can do is blow you off.
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Usually, when guys go back to school and they're with their friends every day, taking to girls isn't as much fun as it was when it was one-on-one. He probably hasn't lost interest in you, especially if you were so close, but don't try to start up a conversation. Instead, when you see him in the halls or in a class, smile and maybe even say "hello," but don't try to make him talk then. Maybe ask him [or text him] when he's not in school if he's alright, but don't push it. Let him get back into the swing of your relationship/friendship.
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i don ' t think yu should give up . i think if yu like him try . and give him hints that yu want to hang out more . and stuff like IM him and maybe even ask him y yu two lost touch. yu will re-connect if he sees that yur trying . but if after yu guys hang out hes still acting the same then maybe he has lost interest just . ask him . or like i said hang out with him . hope it works out girl . bye
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If you want to keep this up, then you're going to have to make an effort. Try and hang out with him more, and see how he responds to that in general. It may be time to let this go, but it may be worth checking it out a little further.
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I'd say wait a week more. Randomly im/text him and just say hey. See what happens. After this conversation I would definately leave it up to him. You've put yourself out there & there's nothing left for YOU to do. If he doesn't make a move I'd move on. But do whatever you feel is right & good luck!
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