Q: Ok so 13/f and I have a boyfriend(13) and a best guy friend(14) and they dont get along, at all. Today I hung out with my best guy friend and I didnt really tell my boyfriend about it. We hung out from 1-4:30pm. During this time we went to Tim Hortons, went to our school and played basketball and we walked and talked throughout town. We had alot of fun and he is a really close friend so he was joking around and put his arm around me and stuff. I was alittle stunned but I went along with it. We were walking along this one street and he had his arm around me and we were talking and laughing and all of a sudden, he leans in and kisses my cheek. I was freaking out inside. I have a boyfriend! I didnt even have enough time to duck away. I dont know what to do! Should I tell my boyfriend? I promised my best guy friend I wouldnt tell anyone but Im scared. Most of the people in my school dont know me and this guy are friends and I saw 2 other guy friends and the one shouted out my name so I obviously looked to see who it was. No one except my mom of course knows about me hanging out with the guy. I dont know what to do! Please help! I cant obviously tell my boyfriend about him kissing my cheek but can I tell him we hung out? Advice please!

Q: My boyfriend of four years and I broke up about a month ago and within a week I met another guy. He was older, a grad student on exchange from Europe. Since I studied abroad last year, we had a lot in common and hit it off right away. We ended up seeing each other the next night and he stayed over at my house. We did not have sex or anything and I was honest with him, telling him that although I was technically completely single, I wasn't ruling out getting back together with my boyfriend. Less than a week later we did get back together and I cancelled on a date with the other guy who was very supportive and happy for me. I know I made the right decision getting back with my boyfriend because I do love him and things have been difficult because we have been long distance for over a year now, but sometimes I wonder if I missed out on a new and exciting experience. I just am not convinced that it would have been worth throwing away what I have. Did I do te right thing?

Q: Hi!!! ok so i like this guy in my class and i DONT know if he likes me!!! why? well cuz sometimes he's nice and super cool and funny!!! (which is what i like about him!!!!) but on some days he's sooo mean!!!!! (and a a**hole) i DONT even know if he likes or not!!!! he even ask me out then said he would NEVER go out with me!!!! (which really hurt my heart!!!!) HELP!!!!!!

Q: Now before I write this don't get me wrong I love my husband with all my heart but.. We have been married 2 1/2 years. We have 2 children in the home 5 and 2. My 5 year old is his step son who he is really to hard on and he feels my son should do everything when hes told or already know to do it. My son has, adhd, separation anxiety and Aspergers. We never cuddle if we cuddle at night it last 2 minutes and then he wants to have sex. We clean up and roll over and go to sleep constantly. He is very unromantic. If I try and talk to him he does not want to hear it he will stare and the tv or computer screen instead of listening to me talk or hell say i dont want to fight with you and i reply babe im not trying to argue i just want to talk this out and then hell post on facebook worse night over i cant wait until its over. When we didnt even get to talk. I just dont know what else to do to get him to understand a marriage needs to be about communication and love.

Q: I'm a 20 year old female from America. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months, but we've known each other since we were little. But my boyfriend has a dark sense of humor. He'll make jokes about other girls or breaking up with me or other things. He sees them as just jokes, and I'm not the type that can't take a joke but sometimes he does it too much. He tells me he'll tone it down but it just seems to occur again. How can I handle this? Thanks in advance! :)

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Q: 21/f
Im going to try to make this short so here it goes. I had a fling with a guy who had a girlfriend of about 5 years last year. We went to the same college in pennsylvania. I lived in Pa and he lived in Ohio which was where his girlfriend lived and went to school. It was more then a fling though, we spent everyday together and I believe we both fell in love with one another. It turns out that we were transferring to different colleges our junior year (which is this current year) and we both cried and he said he would visit me since he was not willing to try a long distance relationship with me which I was willing to do. He never visited in the summer like he promised yet we texted all the time (he didnt break up with his girlfriend until the end of the summer) through the school year this year we've been texting still and once again he has promised to see me about 3 times and never came which got me upset because I still loved him and wanted to see him. He claimed he didnt have enough money and that he couldnt see me in the summer because he still had a girlfriend at the time.He texts me that he misses me and thinks about me yet he dosent do anything about it. Well, I met a guy through the guy from ohio at our campus named drew. We hung out over winter break and we ended up having a crush on each other. It turns out I found out that he liked me for about a year. He transferred to the ohio school that the guy from ohio transferred too, plus their roommates. drew has voiced to me that he wants me to be his girlfriend in the future so possibly in the summer we will make it offical and he is willing to make the long distance relationship work where as the guy from ohio was not willing to do. I realized that the guy from ohio was a jerk yet I still love him and probably always will he kind of is to be the guy that got away even though he was a jerk to me. So to move on, I deleted him from my friends on facebook and his number so I can forget him. After I deleted him about 15 minutes later i gt a message on facebook from the guy from ohio saying: Hey, I was going to text but I remembered you got a new phone, but listen just wanted to say I think about you a lot and it still bugs me how I think you view me or us. I'll never try to come between you or drew and you don't have to answer me back I just wanted to say that to make me feel better. The "make me feel better part" really got me like what a jerk. And he did not even have to say that i mean he did not want to try to do a relationship with me and what he just told me did not really need to be said ya know? plus he is kind of interfering with me and drews relationship. I like Drew he is such a sweet guy but I still think about the guy from ohio because I loved him and he always comes in and out of my life. Should I respond or not say anything? did i do the right thing because if he "thought about me alot" he would come and try to visit me right?like what did that note mean? Thanks!

Q: So, me and my boyfriend are deciding to take it to the next step. and we were talking about fingering and handjob but the thing is i get really wet when we do stuff and i feel like he will be grossed out how to i stop myslef from getting really wet or aviding it when it comes to the moment.

Q: I'm stuck between picking two people that I really care about. One is a guy I was in a relationship with for a year and a half and am madly in love with, but we've been broken up for almost 2 months. We broke up bc we had many problems in our relationship but the break up helped us realized how much we love each other, and will do anything to make it work. The other guy is one that I started dating after the break up. Normally I couldnt move on that fast, but something about this guy helped all the problems in the world fade away. I had an amazing month with him, and he's just like me. I know its probably bc its new and exciting but I stopped talking to him 2 weeks ago bc I wanted to make things work with my ex. Now that Im making things work with my ex I cant stop thinking about the other guy and it confuses me. I love my ex but I love what I had with this other guy. Im afraid if I got with this other guy things would be good but its nothing something that would last forever...I know if i stay with my ex it will last forever. This other guy brings out the best(confidence, fun, etc) in me while my ex brings out the worst(jealousy, insecurity, etc). What would you do?

Q: I have a crush on this guy that my friends told me about. He's not in any of my classes so it's hard to ever see him. I have never met him, but my friends tell me that we have similar interests and I would actually LOVE to meet him. I'm on the shy side and I heard he is like that too. In what ways can I approach him? My friends don't really hang out with him so it's hard. What should I do? I really really want to meet him and capture his attention.

Q: I like this guy and he's told me before that he really likes me, but he doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship ( we live only an hour apart), so that's why he hasn't asked me out. And he's still trying to get over his ex who goes to the same school as him and i'm afraid of her possibly taking him back, and he'd go for her 'cause she's physically closer to him. I feel the real reason he doesn't want to date me has to do with his ex, like that he still has hope with her, but i don't know for sure. Do i have a chance with him? Is he lying? Can some one explain this to me?

Q: I am a fourteen year old girl, and my boyfriend is fourteen. We both like each other A LOT. Anyway, I was just thinking. I have a few questions. I really want to give my boyfriend a hickey, and I want him to give me one, too. How do I ask him if I can give him a hickey? How do I get him to give me one? What does it feel like? What are the best places to give/receive hickeys? (Also, I have braces, which may make him nervous. How do I convince him that I am not going to rip up his skin with my braces?)

Q: i like this guy a lot and he keeps telling me that he likes me back... but when ever i talk to him he always has a new girlfriend and he always ends up cheating on them with me and i always feel really bad but i would rather have his ex gf's mad at me instead of him so i don't say no. but then they find out and break up with him and he stays single for about a week and one time i told him how i felt and he told me he felt the same way but then i asked him out and he said no and i don't know what to do he keeps telling me he loves me and he is going to asked me out soon but he never does and i just keep doing whatever he wants me to because i am afraid that i might lose him if i don't and i never want to lose him because he is everything to me. and i have tried to get over him before but every time i actually get over him and everything seems fine then i see him at school and i fall for him all over again... should i ask him out again

Q: i am female 13


well theres this real cute guy and i like him alot and at school i flirt a little but i dont think hes intrested in me. At night i dream about him its really wierd and against my will i dont want to be dreaming about him and it is stopping me from moving on with my life please help me because i cant even not think about him and ive tried to get over him but i cant.

Q: 18/f

I have many good friends on LiveJournal - some people dismiss online friendships, but my online friends know so much about me and vice versa. They are truly some of my closest friends. I've been friends with one girl, K, for a long time now. We initially bonded over being so similar to one another, and we've always got on brilliantly, but as time went on I grew to care for her in a way I care for only a very select few - I empathise with her to the point where if she is upset, I will be, if she's happy, I will be etc. It's rare for me to feel that way about someone.

And recently this has developed into something more - I'm not sure if my feelings for her are sexual (though if it's of any importance, I'm a lesbian-leaning bisexual), but they are romantic. I feel so strongly for her I often don't know what to do with myself, and it is so difficult having feelings for someone and not really being able to do anything about it.

More than that, I feel like she is someone I need to have in my life - I accept that we'll probably never be more than friends (she's straight), but it's rare for me to meet someone I connect to on the level I do her. I'm not one who believes in fate or anything, but I always feel as if I'm 'supposed' to be friends with her, if that makes sense. It just feels right to have her in my life, and I don't want to just know her through a computer screen. We live in the same country, and it wouldn't be too difficult to meet up, but I worry about the etiquette of these things - some people like to keep their online and offline lives very separate.

I guess I just want some support or someone to tell me if they've been in a similar situation. How do you deal with having strong feelings for someone you know online? And how can I strengthen our friendship?

Thank you.

Q: Hi there I have a very long story for you and need you honest opinion on this! Ok here goes.....about 3months ago I met this really nice guy that just caught my attention from the beginning we went on a very awkward 1st date n I thought it would end there as he didn't seem interested but we were still chatting after that on BBM then about 2days later we hooked up again with some other people ohk to cut it I lil shorter we saw each other acouple of times after that n I found out that he had an ex that was giving him trouble n he still loved her but still I didn't give up as I knew this girl had a bad reputation and that he desired better. Ok so they made up again n tried to work things out but yet again they split up n he decided to go back home as he was from a different town we still kept in contact but it faded away after awhile till we had no contact. Then a couple of weeks ago I got a call from him out of the blue telling me that he was in jail and had a lot of time to think about what happened n that he wanted me to give him another chance at first I didn't buy the story but eventually I did as I still had a soft spot for him. He promised that he only wanted to be with me n that he will prove to me that he really wants this. So I decided to give it a try as he was really trying we skoke every day atleast twice even after he was released. He asked me to look for a job for him in my town as he wants to move back here to be with me. However for the past few days he hasn't been texting n phoning me as he use to. He also hasn't been using any pet names as he use to! I have asked him if he still wanted this and he said he does. I just wana know if you think he is being for real about this n really wants to be with me or is he losing interest?

Q: My husband has started changing ever since he found out of my difficulty in having children. He tells me how he detested me company, how it would be good for me to pay him just to be with him. Everyday is a hurtful humiliation from him to me. I like to save money when ever I can and he wants it all. When I refuse to give what he wants he starts belittling me by telling me to compare myself to his good looks. And how he deserves better. I love my husband and would like us to work, I'm tired of these hurtful comments and not bring able to have my husband as a dependable partner. I prefer trying to make it work before divorce. Please advice.

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