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What should i do? Should i tell my boyfriend that my male friend kissed me?
Ok so 13/f and I have a boyfriend(13) and a best guy friend(14) and they dont get along, at all. Today I hung out with my best guy friend and I didnt really tell my boyfriend about it. We hung out from 1-4:30pm. During this time we went to Tim Hortons, went to our school and played basketball and we walked and talked throughout town. We had alot of fun and he is a really close friend so he was joking around and put his arm around me and stuff. I was alittle stunned but I went along with it. We were walking along this one street and he had his arm around me and we were talking and laughing and all of a sudden, he leans in and kisses my cheek. I was freaking out inside. I have a boyfriend! I didnt even have enough time to duck away. I dont know what to do! Should I tell my boyfriend? I promised my best guy friend I wouldnt tell anyone but Im scared. Most of the people in my school dont know me and this guy are friends and I saw 2 other guy friends and the one shouted out my name so I obviously looked to see who it was. No one except my mom of course knows about me hanging out with the guy. I dont know what to do! Please help! I cant obviously tell my boyfriend about him kissing my cheek but can I tell him we hung out? Advice please!
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This question might be best asked in the open forum as I am one of the older advisers hear and it has been sometime since I've been 13.
I will say this that I think honesty is the best policy. Since you did nothing to encourage the boy to kiss you, you have nothing to worry about by telling your boyfriend about it. Just tell him what happened.
You did not ask but I will stick this in anyway. At 13 I believe you are too young to be having exclusive dating relations. Here again your mother is aware of your relationship and she is the one raising you so her judgement prevails. My feelings are the at at 13 you should be group dating mostly for the protection it offers you while you grow the skills required to date exclusively.
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i dont think you need to tell your boyfriend. might cause a fight with your bf and guy friend. only makes things worse. but if he asks just be honest. and if it meant nothing to you, you should talk to your guy friend and let him know that you just want to be friends and that your not comfortable with him acting that way with you.
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all he did was kiss your cheek. and you don't have to tell your boyfriend when you hang out with girls so you shouldn't have to drop down and feel guilty for hanging out with your guyfriend. but you might want to talk to your guyfriend because the reason why he may not like your boyfriend is because he LIKES YOU.
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