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Confused: How do I pick between two guys I REALLY care about?
I'm stuck between picking two people that I really care about. One is a guy I was in a relationship with for a year and a half and am madly in love with, but we've been broken up for almost 2 months. We broke up bc we had many problems in our relationship but the break up helped us realized how much we love each other, and will do anything to make it work. The other guy is one that I started dating after the break up. Normally I couldnt move on that fast, but something about this guy helped all the problems in the world fade away. I had an amazing month with him, and he's just like me. I know its probably bc its new and exciting but I stopped talking to him 2 weeks ago bc I wanted to make things work with my ex. Now that Im making things work with my ex I cant stop thinking about the other guy and it confuses me. I love my ex but I love what I had with this other guy. Im afraid if I got with this other guy things would be good but its nothing something that would last forever...I know if i stay with my ex it will last forever. This other guy brings out the best(confidence, fun, etc) in me while my ex brings out the worst(jealousy, insecurity, etc). What would you do?
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you say "forever" but the problem when it comes to love there is no "forever". do you know how many people are together for almost 10-30 years randomly divorce after one figures out it wasn't love or just plain old falls out of "love"? You may "love" your ex but let's face it, if you are thinking about another guy and allowed yourself to move on that quick, that's not real love. Someone in love wouldn't allow themselves to think about other people and it would have been WAY to hard to move on. You can try working out with your ex but if you do apologize to that other guy because if you were going to run back to your ex the whole time THERE IS NO REASON another person's heart should have gotten dragged up in your relationship problems.
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You dont know what will last forever and what wont. You should always date someone who brings out the best in you which in your case is the second guy not your ex. You may think things will last forever with you ex now but think about it how long did it last the first time. When you break up with someone its because something wasnt clicking between you two. Its obviously up to you but i would say stick with your future and not your past it will save you lots of heartache.
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