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im in love with a man whore
i like this guy a lot and he keeps telling me that he likes me back... but when ever i talk to him he always has a new girlfriend and he always ends up cheating on them with me and i always feel really bad but i would rather have his ex gf's mad at me instead of him so i don't say no. but then they find out and break up with him and he stays single for about a week and one time i told him how i felt and he told me he felt the same way but then i asked him out and he said no and i don't know what to do he keeps telling me he loves me and he is going to asked me out soon but he never does and i just keep doing whatever he wants me to because i am afraid that i might lose him if i don't and i never want to lose him because he is everything to me. and i have tried to get over him before but every time i actually get over him and everything seems fine then i see him at school and i fall for him all over again... should i ask him out again
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" i am afraid that i might lose him if i don't and i never want to lose him because he is everything to me."
You never had him, You don't have him now and you won't have him in the future. The guy cheated, He is cheating and he continues to cheat on his girlfriends. What the hell makes you think that you aren't next in line? You are not the special force that is going to stop his nasty cheating habit. You cannot change a cheater, A cheater must change himself and sometimes they never do change. I am not going to go as low as saying you are stupid like the user below me said but I am going to say simply; He is using you or least trying too. In his eyes you are no more then the next girl to get laid and sweetie as soon as he is done with you he moves onto the next one. That is just what cheaters do, They say and do just about anything to get you to believe them. They are good at manipulation and they are good at cheating....If you allow yourself to fall into his trap well then don't come crying to us later on because we told you so.....
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you're stupid. he is using you. now nobody else may say this to you but you need to hear it. this guy knows you will do ANYTHING for him and that you will always be there to hook up with him. you are a sidechick. nothing more. he is usuing you and will never have a real relationship with you unless he has no other choices because not only does he like to be in relationships but he like to cheat. Stop talking to the guy, and find somebody that won't make you nothing but a second option and will actually will treat you like a queen because that guy is not it, and he might even be bragging to other guys about how you are his "little backup girl".
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