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he even ask me out then said he would NEVER go out with me!
Hi!!! ok so i like this guy in my class and i DONT know if he likes me!!! why? well cuz sometimes he's nice and super cool and funny!!! (which is what i like about him!!!!) but on some days he's sooo mean!!!!! (and a a**hole) i DONT even know if he likes or not!!!! he even ask me out then said he would NEVER go out with me!!!! (which really hurt my heart!!!!) HELP!!!!!!
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hahahaha. welcome to the world of crushing sweetie and this is your typical teenage boy. Not only do they NOT know what they want but at the moment they might not even see the effect it has on you because they don't understand teenage girls either. You said he asked you out, so its obvious HE DOES like you but he doesn't know what he is doing. Talk to the boy (alone) about it.
And to the person who said he is bipolar you may need to brush up on your definitions of bipolar disorder because being bipolar doesnt mean you feel one emotion and then another the next day. its LIKE a period of time where you feel high like you do anything like you are unstoppable and then one day out of nowhere you begin to start to feel low for awhile.
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With all due respect the individual who gave advice saying this person was either bipolar or in need of a shrink wouldn't know bipolar disorder if he ever really saw it.
This kid is just a teenage boy not unlike any other it's what they do especially when immature. If they like you one day they'll show it and the next day for reasons unknown but to them they try to repel you. To him it's just a cat and mouse game.
What should you do? Don't take it so seriously. Next tell him that someone who likes me would never hurt my feelings like that or pretend to be interested. How would you feel?" Maybe he'll see what he has done. If I were you I would even say "What's your problem? You're really coming across like an A-hole (use that word to illustrate what he's done. and let him fend for himself.
Wait and see how he acts after that but I would have to wonder why you would want to be with someone who treats you like this. A lot of guys before they mature play games like this with girls they like and as they mature or get told they're acting like idiots it fades.
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Sounds like this kid has either anger issues or is Bi-polar or something of the sort. to be nice somedays and terrible some other, and to ask you out one day and another day say he would Never go out with you, makes me believe he is mentally unstable and needs to seek advice from a mental health official. My advice would be to stop talking to him immediately and stay away from him..if he starts conversation.. ignore him. Hes no good for you... you can do better. Goodluck to you. -Istalio
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