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Who is right?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and eight months. We have been through a lot together and I love him with everything that I have. So we had an issue today. I had work and he said he was going to come get me and help me get to my a dance concert I had to attend for class and write a paper on. I usually get off at five but the next person taking my shift came late so it was about five thirty by the time they got there. I called my boyfriend asking if he was still coming or not. A part of me was irritated because he was not there yet... He knew I was working and didn't just come you know. So anyway...after asking him if he was still coming or not, he started getting weird saying that he didn't like like my attitude....so I then repeated to him the same thing telling him that if he is canceling on him I need to know so that I can find someone to take me....we ended up hanging up on each other. Am I wrong?
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It was rude of your boyfriend to cancel last minute, without even letting you know he was canceling. That was very rude and inconsiderate of him.
But further than that, we can't say. You haven't told us enough. Fights don't take place in little glass jars. There is likely a lot going on in your lives that led to this, and it's unlikely that you are completely blameless in every disagreement you have with him.
You need to ask him what happened, and be clear that it was really not cool to make a plan and then just not show. You also have to be open to hearing that you might have handled things better as well.
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