well my name's carly & i loveeeeeee to dance with all my heart and soul cos i'm just cool like that...psh yeah! well i deff. love smoothies and starbucks, shopping x3, hangin out with my girls, flirting (a must, haha), my cell phone, talking, laying out, swimming, going to the beach, going to the mall....ohh yeah and just being crazy, ow ow!
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Ok today i was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and he said that today it was like diffrent because he didnt know like he didn't want to talk to me. I said maybe its beacause we talk all the time together he said yea i think your right then he said i spend alot of time with you i like spend the most time with you out of all my girlfirends. Wait stop right there is that bad or good it sounds like he dosnet want to talk to me or be with me. !!
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of course not! to me it sounds like you just spend a LOT of time with each other. i say take a break from being together all the time (still go out of course, just not as much) so that gives you both time to relax and do you're own thing for a while. he'll respect you for giving him space and you'll both feel more comfortable together when you're together. good luck!
love/advice always,
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do most girls shave their pussys? (link)
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it depends on their age. a lot of younger girls don't because they're not sexually active. but most older girls who are active tend to do that. it really depends on their age and if they're sexually active
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there is this guy and i have liked him for 2 years now. We went out last summer but the day before school started back we broke up. My dad found out some stuff we did and talked to josh and told him not to talk to me ever again. josh has a girlfriend now but i still want him so bad. My dad told me the other day i could talk to josh again. And i really want to but we havent talked in so long and i dont know what to say. I dont even know if he wants to talk to me anymore. Any ideas on what to do? i'll rate high for answers!!! (link)
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if he has instant messenger, just pop up and talk to him and be like "hey, hows it goin? i haven't talked to you in a while and i just wanted to see how ur doin." u kno, friendly stuff. then after like a week or so of this, casually ask him to a movie with a bunch of people. he'll feel comfortable and so will you. if he doesn't have instant messenger, maybe e-mail or letter, but meeting and talking in real life is always good too. Good Luck
Always,
Carly
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well, this is not really a cry for advice, but i have a question. Wehn you are kissing someone while standing up, what do the gurls do with tehir arms and what do the guys do with theirs? (link)
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Easy! Girls usually reference their hands with the guy's neck and shoulders. Like if it's a passionate kiss, the girl's arms should be around his neck or up and down his back. If it's a more soft kiss and not as passionate, their hands could be on the guy's shoulders, neck, or holding hands with the guy. Guy's usually reference their hands with the girl's waist or the small of her back. Sometimes for gentle kisses they might place their hand under her chin or behind her ear, but usually it's on her waist. I hope i've been as helpful as possible and feel free to ask me anything again! Good Luck!
always,
Carly
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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
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it might last and it might not. i have no doubt you love this guy and he is probably an awesome person. but you'll go to high school soon and meet tons of new guys, and he'll meet tons of new girls. then it's off to collage and you meet even MORE people, and you might not even go to the same collage. i'm not saying it's impossible, just highly improbable. There is nothing wrong with seeing him as "the one" as long as you don't get carried away (making wedding plans, ect.) if you do keep thinking this way, if you break up you will be devastated and no one wants their heart broken because they were foolish (not that you're foolish at all for thinking he is the one, but if you do break up you might think you are b/c you could've prevented it) either way is fine and it's perfectly normal for girls to imagine things in the future, hey it's what we do! lol. But if he truly is the one, hold on like heck babe! I hope it all goes well in the future and i hope you end up with your one and only, who ever he might be! Good Luck!
Always,
Carly
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I have a guy friend that I really like, but he's shy and I kind of want to leave hits that I like him. Does anuone have any tips for flirting, but not coming on too strong? I don't want to freak him out or anything... Thanks! (link)
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it's called "the leg move" it sounds strong but it's very subtle and casual. if you're ever sitting next to him, like on a couch, pretend that you're bending down to tie a shoe lace (if you arn't wearing lace up shoes, pretened you've just dropped something) and as you bend down, casually place you hand on his thigh or knee as if to balance yourself. it's not too strong b/c it's very casual, but it will definitally get his attention! good luck! i hope it all goes well!
always,
Carly
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I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone? (link)
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aww it's ok! i havent' either but my friends have told me about what helps and what doesn't.
1.don't wear lipgloss, it'll go on his lips and he might be turned off by how it feels cos guys are wierd like that. a light shimer stick should be all you'd wear
2.before you meet him, two words: breath mint
3.don't act how they do in the movies, it's corny and no one likes ne thing fake,
4.be honest. you might want to tell him that it's your first time and that if he could help you out it'd be great. guys are more open and feel like they don't have to live up to past experiences if they know they're the first. he'll appreciate your honesty too.
i hope i've helped! if you ever need advice, you know where to find me!
always,
Carly
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ok i like this guy and we flirt a lot! he has a gf though. i think i've caught him staring at me and he always is sweet and nice. he is not the most popular boy in the class, but he is also the most sweetest boy. when we flirt people always point out to us that we are flirting and we both say" no we arn't" he is one of my friends too. my friend told him" dont cheat on prism(his gf) when we were talking and flirting. and he said " i wont" what does this mean? i mean i like him an lot, i had a dream that we kissed.
what does this mean?does he like me??
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well figuring out boy's emotions is always hard. he may and he may not. it's natural for boys to flirt regardless if they're attatched or not, it's just in people's nature to do that. but don't give up hope! since he does flirt and talk to you a lot there is always a chance! just keep talking to him and be nice to prism while they're dating. if he dumps her, then wait at least a week before you go out with him. if you go out with him before then, people will think he dumped her for you and you don't want rumors spreading about you at all! and if you had a dream that you kissed, it means that obviously you like him! after all, dreams are wishes are heart makes when we're asleep! so it means that you like him a lot and that you'd really enjoy going out with him and being with him. so keep your spirits up and don't give up on him, you never know, he may just like you back! Good Luck! and if you ever need advice, you know where to find me!
always,
Carly
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I just recently invested a lot of time and money in this girl i like. She liked all the gifts that I gave her. I know because of MSN and texting back and forth. I even made tears of joy come to her eyes because of what I did on Valentines-day. Well now I think a "friend" has geven her the advice of playing hard to get. I've already done everything that I had planed and she just said that she wants to be friends. WHAT SHOULD I DO (link)
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haha, girls can be stupid sometimes, i know...i am one. lol. ask her if she wants to go to the movies, casually of course. pay for her drinks and ticket (more money but she'd appreciate it none the less) and after you watch the movie, tell her that you really like her and that if she likes you too that maybe you could be more than friends if she wanted to. girls like to be lavished. they want attention and they want everything perfect...it's a pain. but if you're totally honest and play your cards right, she might accept your sensitive side. she just wants to make sure you really like her, most girls say no at first to guys b/c they think they're trying to play a joke. so just make her feel comfortable and be honest. hope it all works out well! always, carly
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ok well i've been hearing from friends that my bf is goin all out for valentines day. like were goin out to eat and then movies and then he has something for me. and im nervous bout the whole thing. cuz i don't know exactly what were doing yet. i mean should i be nervous? its the first like real date we will be going on. cuz we usually just came over to each others houses. so should i just get over it or should i be nervous? (link)
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don't worry. it's pretty normal to be nervous when you know your going to be with someone you like, even if it's all out or not. i think that's really sweet of him to do that for you. so if he's planned it out, things will be easier for you so you won't have to be so nerous on the date. you have every right to feel nervous, but if you want to seem more calm, just make sure you've prepaired yourself. plan your outfit ahead of time and get advice from your friends on what they think about it. then just make sure to bring breath mints with you (since your gunna eat, then sit next to each other at the movies.)i think though that once the date gets going you'll feel more relaxed and can mellow out during the date. just be open and feel confident in yourself, you can do this! I hope it all goes well! let me know if i've been as helpful as possible!
Always,
Carly
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tomrrow im going to my boyfriends house...i go there all the time and my mom knows him and shes met his parents before...the thing is she trys to get WAY to involved...she wants me to bring cookies over there! she wants to "fix them up a plate of cookies and brownies" and me give them to his family...come on...THATS SO EMBARASSING! shes like oh but it would be so giving...i dont know how to tell her without fighting..hellpp (link)
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it may SEEM embarassing, but it shouldn't be. I see no problem at all with your mom making them a plate of cookies and brownies. my brothers girlfrieds do that and he loves it, (so do i b/c they're really good!lol)Guys love food, they can't help it! Trust me, this is actually a GOOD thing to do because it breaks the ice. Plus, if it get awkward and you need an excuse not to talk, eating a cookie is a great way to cover it up! your guy will probably like you even more for bringing food and will probably invite you over more because he knows you care enough to bring him food. (with guys, if they're fed, they're happy.) so just go with it! i've never seen a guy protest to food before so i don't see how this could possibly end up bad! but if you really want to, if he doesn't like them, you could always say it was your mom's idea and that she made the cookies, not you! lol. I hope i've been as helpful as possible and good luck!
Always,
Carly
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Hey there is this guy i met over the summer and i really liked him then and kept talkin and then slowly stopped talking and then resently i have seen him online and talked 2 him here and there and he called me last night and we talked like we use to and i think i am liking him again is there anyway that he likes me again? but how can i bring up that i wanna go out with him and everything and he got this new job at a bowling alley and he said it is free for friends and i guess he was kinda hinting at me coming but i am not sure, should i just keep talkin to him and hope things go well and what are some things that i can do 2 make him really like me this time and i not lose him again? thanks for any help (link)
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there's no way in telling whether a guy likes you. but you'll definitally know it if he shows it. don't be really straight foreward on going out, it'll take a guy aback and suprise him and he won't be able to think straight. If you wanna bring it up, don't do it face to face. maybe a letter in his locker or talking online. i do definitally think you should go to the bowling alley to see him and bowl. (bowling would be your second priority,lol)one thing i do that gets guys attention, i call the "leg move." if you happen to be sitting next to him, lean over like you're picking something up or tying your shoe, then casually place your other hand on his leg like to keep yourself up. it'll definitally get your attention. another move you could try (this only works if he's not wearing a hat) if your happen to be walking by him, raise your arm up and run your fingers through his hair as you pass, i'll get his attention, let him know you're here, and drop a hint that you like him. a lot of people say small hints, well these people don't know guys. guys arn't smart enough to figure our small hints. try medium or even large hints if you're up to it. running your fingers through his hair as u walk by and the "leg move" would be medium hints. don't try large hints yet, you don't want to seem too clingy. but yes, keep talking to him like everything's natural. just be free with him and not seem unsteady or on your toes, guys like to feel comfortable around girls so make it easy for him to feel that way around you. I hope i've been as helpful as possible! Good luck!
Always,
Carly
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my friend alyssa was seeing this guy ryan but they broke up bc she cheated on him. shes in love with this new guy tai they went out brok eup but shes still hooked on him. alyssa doesnt liek ryan any more and says she doesnt care if her friends like him but i feel likeid be betraying her if i did.. me and ryan have been talkin for a few weeks now. just online and on the phone and were making plans to hang out & stuff.. hes such a great guy and has the best personality. do you think its wrong that ryan & i are hanging out and talking??? me and alyssa have been friends for 4 years but she says its ok..i think shes too wrapped up with tai right now but.. i dont want to ruin our friendship at all... what do you advise..??
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If you want to go out with him, i say go for it! Just not imediatly because it makes you look desperate. I think maybe a week after you get back to school from christmas break would be a good time to go out with him. As far as hanging out with him, i see no problem. If you still feel like you're betraying her, ask her to come along with her current boyfriend along with a few friends to clear your conscience. That way it really isn't like a date and you can decide from the way your friend acts if she's really ok with it. I hope i've been as helpful as possible! Happy Holidays and good luck!
Always,
Carly
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my boyfriend got me this really nice watch for christmas and im supposed to be giving him his tommorow but i have no idea what to get him!!! helpp.. (link)
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giftcards work really well. if you want to get him a material thing, try cologne. Lots of girls personally prefer to have their guys wear this cologne called "Curve". its very sexy and classy. you can find it at www.ulta.com under unisex fragrences. "curve" is acctually an after shave but it can also be a cologne. If "curve" doesn't fit your budget, try "BOD", it works great too. Also "Axe". any one of those really. For giftcards try places like "Virgin Records", or "Cinemark Theaters." Something he'll use. Hope i was as helpful as possible! Happy Holidays!
Always,
Carly
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hey this is for guys mostly but if girls want to answer ok. so anyways im going out with this guy we have been dating for 2 weeks and i really need 2 buy him a christmas gift but he wont tell me what he wants. guys when u say that what does it mean. and any gift ideas would be soooo great. thanks. (link)
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Yeah that can be tricky. Lucky for me i have an older brother and i've seen and solved this delema multiple times. The one thing you have to know about guys is that they don't really think into it like girls do. When he says he dosen't know what he wants- that's exactly what he means. Girls drop subtle hints and have meanings for different actions and expressions- guys don't. So if he doesn't know, no sweat, he's being honest and that's all you can hope for!
Now on the present idea, it depends on what type of guys you're dealing with. Cologne is always a good idea. Try "Curve", it's a very sexy, classic sent that every girl wants to see on her guy. you can find it at www.ulta.com for $35. It's actually an after shave but it works like a cologne. Not that big of a budget? Any homemade christmas treat guys love. It's a fact, guy's LOVE food. Sugar Cookies are great along with chocolate chips. This is also great, because guys will know that you took the time to do this instead of taking the easy way out. Not enough time? A giftcard to anyplace is fine. Cinamark Movies giftcirtificates, music stores like Virgin Records, anyplace that he likes will do. Clothing stores arn't always a great idea unless he asks for it. If you ask him if a giftcard to a store would be ok, that's fine. It all just depends on the guy. I hope I've been as helpful as possible. Merry Chrismas!
Always,
Carly
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