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i like this boy and he the first boy like seen me and my boyfriend broke up and he stop talking to me but he told me that we could talk and chill if i have sex with him (link)
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Smack that kid over the head with something very hard. You deserve someone alot better than this dick, trust me, walk away.
Youll find way better guys than this one.
Im tellin you, dont bother.
Good luck.
If you need anything,
AIM= xXTryin HardXx
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sorry, this will most likely be long, but i'd seriously appreciate it if you took some time out to help me ... 16/f
1. I love/loved my ex boyfriend. i think he was my first love, we had been best friends for 5 years until we finally became a couple, for a short period of time. 1/2 my fault. 1/2 his. he broke up with me over text, on aim, and facebook message ... yeah. kinda assholey. my parents were kinda friends with his parents .. which was a little awkward. he was my first kiss, altho ive never hooked up with anyone. it's been almost 4 months since we broke up, he told 2 of my friends that we are just friends and that it's how its gonna be.. or something along those lines, but the "just friends" part was very clear. we haven't talked for 4 months because the only way i agreed to be in a relationship with him was if he promised me we would still be very close friends and nothing would be awkward, we'd still hang out etc ... he SWORE to me that it'd be like that. we made plans to hang out over spring break and everything .... but then we broke up because i was ignoring him because a girl from his camp was telling him she wanted to hook up with him and everything and he didn't say anything like ... nah. and he wouldn't like show me his texts and im pretty sure she influenced him t break up with me. so probably because i was ignoring him in person, he broke up with me. but i may never know. but anyways. that ended everything.
until, on facebook my friend from another state got a facbook [she knew my ex, they talked a few times] and she asked me to suggest friends for her. he was one of them. i didnt know it would show up on his facebook saying that i suggested him as a friend. and then my friend facebook chatted him and was like, hey. and he was liek hey, and then started to say OUT OF NOWHERE ... "believe it or not [my name] suggested you as a friend and we havent talked in a while...blah blah" he told her not to tell me what he said because it was really mean. but i facebook messaged him and i wrote him a message about what he said was wrong and he never said anything back. i think i still like him. but i know he doesnt like me anymore. what do i do? any advice or thoughts on what i just told you? anything you have to say would help .... thank you again. (link)
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Listen if he cant come out with the truth to you about the girl from his camp and just show you the texts from her, hes not worth it. Relationships are built on trust, there are many different types of trust but youll know yours when your in a relationship. I wouldnt bother, its not worth the time and heartache. Just move on and find another person with better characteristics than your ex. He broke up with you over Aim because he couldnt face you, ive done that before too, its really shitty but it takes some of the pain out of it. That guys not worth it, youll find such better guys along the way youll think back and say why did i bother with that dumbass.
If you wanna talk about it my Aim is
xXTryin HardXx.
Good luck.
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been having trouble lately. We broke it off for a bit because we thought it would be best. But now we're talking again. You see, he wasn't the best boyfriend in the world. I mean, he's a great guy...he's loyal and truthful and he really does love me (and I also love him)...but he never did that stuff boyfriends do, all the little things. All the sweet little gestures that let you know he cares. Is that asking for too much? He told me he's gonna try to do some of that, but he can't change his whole personality. Should I stay with him and see if it works? (link)
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Yeah you should, maybe hes not sure what those little gestures are. I had a friend who was going out with one of my best girl friends, when she was really sad from her friend passing, he didnt know how to comfort her. Some guys dont know what they are doing half the time and wing it. Tell him, give him a list to remember, a good boyfriend opens doors for me, holds my hand, walks me to my door, holds me when im sad, walks me to my classes. Once hes got this stuff down he'll be a better boyfriend than you could ever imagine.
Good luck
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I have no idea why I am asking this question I guess I need to hear it from the "Guys" what are guys REALLY thinking when they see a woman who is overweight? Sometimes I think all guys care about are skinny, pretty woman. What do you think when you see a heavy female? (link)
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Honestly, i think its a major turn off, but thats just me. If overweight women are unhappy then they should do something about it, rather than sit around and complain about it. I know some people have a hard time losing weight but today there are so many things that they can do to lose it. Skinny girls are cute but if your down to bones and at weight of 90 pounds, that is not hot. Im not telling girls to run and throw up in a sink but take the time and lose the weight, if you work for it you will feel twice as good about yourself once your down weight. After you lose that weight youll be able to walk into a room and have guys say,"Dude, i just saw doves fly around that chick."
Good luck and i hope i helped.
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14/m
theres a girl that I like that im pretty sure likes me, but i only see her once a week. We hang out sometimes on other days but mostly Its only once a week. Im wondering if its even worth it asking her out even if she says yes because I wouldnt get to see her a ton
your thoughts? (link)
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Honestly, what do you have to lose by going for it? It could turn out to be the best thing to happen to you in a while.
Good luck
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18/m
There was this girl that I liked, and when I told her how I felt, she said she didn't feel the same way, and I was ok with that. It didn't really bother me. We still are friends, and we still talk. I had kind of figured that she liked someone else, I didn't really know who, but that didn't bother me either. Sometime around last week, I found out who she liked, and it made me really mad, and that what I'm trying to figure out. I knew she liked someone, but once I found out who it was, it makes me mad. It's not a problem with the guy, I don't even know him.
Why does it make me so mad?? (link)
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Its jealousy, your evil twin who will do anything to get what it wants. The only thing you can really do is let it happen, take the anger out on a punching bag or something. It gets to everyone, your not the only one in this boat man. Good luck and IM me if you wanna talk, xXTryin HardXx
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Has anyone ever felt such a strong physical pain left mentally by someone else? My ex boyfriend used to be everything, my superhero. He moved out to Rhode Island for me but it completely changed him. Our whole year of amazing love has turned into me being dirt in his eyes. We've had problems just like everyone else but we were always there for eachother. When he came here he started to fall into other girls and once he got a job and his own place to live it was like he was completely done with me. I feel so used but I don't want to believe it I want to believe in the guy I once knew. Its tearing me apart literally to the point of hyperventalation. Nothing I do can remind him of our promises nothing I say can change his heart and my heart can't accept that. How can I get his hurtful image out of my head? (link)
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You have to live with it for the rest of your life, its not something that goes away in a year or so. I take all my pain and suffering and put it into anger and hate, all that suppressed rage is getting to me more and more every day. I had so much build over these years that it changed me as a person. You have to just let it go, give your mind a touch of "who gives a shit?" Once you have enough of that in your head everything else that could happen wont even leave a scratch on you. I dont know if any of that helps you but thats what i did.
Luck
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I know this Girl that goes to my school and i can talk her but how can i tell her i like her gg (link)
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Sometimes you dont even have to tell her, start hangin out and little by little you will find a perfect moment to sneak in a kiss on the cheek. Thats what i did with this girl i like now. Or if you dont feel comfertable doin that just tell her how you feel. Good luck, and p.s. if she says she doesnt like you like that its not the end of the world.
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okay so i have a boyfriend. me and his best friend(eric) are really close and he likes me and i like him. my boyfriend is out of town. so me and eric are hanging out one night and we have an inside joke that at 11 each night we will have sexy time.last night we kinda had it. we were in his bed and we would take turns taking off clothes. he was in his boxers and i stole his shirt so i had everything but my bra on.he undid my bra. is this cheating? (link)
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Its not cheating if he doesnt find out =] haha
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I'm a female and I'm 17. I'll just get straight to the point. I like this guy...a lot. More than I have before. The thing is, I really want to tell him that I have feelings for him and it seems like he may feel the same way but I'm still afraid of that famous phrase "I only like you as my friend" or something to that extent. The other part of me is just telling me that I should just forget about him and move on or whatever. What do you think? Tell him? (link)
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I hate that famous phrase! I told this my best girl-friend how i felt about her and she didnt even attempt to give me that phrase, instead she let me hurt. Our friendship has never been the same, she used to tell me everything and now i cant even talk to her. It happened to me but dont let it happen to you, youll never want to ruin a friendship because friendship can come into a relationship. Hope i helped my sn is gameshark7777
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Ok so.. Theres this kid at school I like alot, and Ive kinda liked him since last year. We are good friends, but I want to be more than friends. Im not sure if he likes me. Sometimes it seems like he does, but I dont know. I really want to tell him, but I dont want to risk losing our friendship by telling him. What do I do? Should I just get over it and tell him? (link)
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Tell him, But explain to him you dont want it to ruin anything. If you dont tell him how you feel you will be stuck wondering how he feels about you. Just tell him he probably likes you....
Aim: gameshark7777
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Ok so this is what happned I went out with this girl in 7th grade and now were in 11th and I broke up with her cause I thought she didnt like me and we have gone out severl times since to try and make things they way they were when we first went out. They we hated each other in 8th grade and didnt talk, freshman year we started talking again as friends cause I was in a relationship. At the end of sophmore year we both were in relationships and I had feelings for her and she felt the same way I considered presuing a relationship with her. Now I have just recently started talking to her again as friends and even though were both in relationships I can't stop thinking about her and its driving me insane I need advice should I tell this girl how I feel and risk ruining or friendship or should I keep silent?
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You cant hide how you feel, talk to her more and ask her how she feels about it. If it seems like you got your relationship back to where you want it and you are happy with eachother you should ask her, but dont pressure her Keep it to friends talking about relationships. If you wanna talk more IM me at gameshark7777
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I like this guy, and we talk a lot at school when we can , we're in different clusters though. We have a lot of inside jokes & I'm a Taurus & he's a Cancer. We're good friends & I think he likes me but I'm not sure. I'm 11 & in 6th grade.
-Should I tell (link)
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tell him how you feel, if it doesnt work out whats the worst that cold happen? You dont have to meet in groups of friends just come up to him alone, it might seem scary but just do it, if you wanna talk more just IM me at gameshark7777
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ok so i've(im 20) had a crush(he is 20) on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend(is 19) whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he said he knows what im capable of and he likes u. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused
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First thing, dont worry.
second, you worded this pretty badly.
Definently go to the game, try to send him some signals, you dont have to go all out, dress normal. It might seem confusing but you just need to get your head straight. If he was sending mixed signals that means there has to be something there, go to the game meet with them, send him signals, And if your feeling really good about it tell him how you feel.
IM me, easier to get advice, gameshark7777
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Okay i need your help.
So i've been dating this guy for like a week now, and i think i really fell for him but i don't know what to do, cuz when i say you mean alot to me.. he says like "ok"
and it kinda scares me as to how much does he like me??
you know.. i was hoping you could help me?! (link)
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If he says ok, it could definently mean that he isnt as attached to you as you are to him. You have to really dig into him and see what makes him tick. I think if you have someone else you like you should maintain a relationship with him to. I feel bad saying that but it may end up that way. You really need to get to know him more, for him to have more of a reaction. hope that helps... IM me at gameshark7777
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Ok, here's the situation. I really like my friend Mike because he's so sweet & is extrememly nice to girls. However, he doesn't like me as a girlfriend, just as a friend. I tried to get closer to him, but it feels like I'll never be special to him because there's always someone else that he likes more. I try not to get jealous, but he has a lot of friends, so sometimes I wonder, what makes me so special? Since this relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere, should I just give up & leave him alone entirely (so that I don't get hurt again) or should I keep trying to get close to him & see where it goes? Thanks (link)
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Keep trying, tell him how you feel. He may love you so much that it hurts him to even ask you out. Im in the same place right now, my heart is so broken and shes the only one who can fix it. Dont let this happen to you, be with him!
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say you liked a girl and you knew she liked you back and you talked and had been talking for a while and nothing was happening. would you find it annoying or anything if she asked you if anything was ever going to happen between the two of you. please boys get back to me on this because i really need to know ! thanks in advance (link)
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ive been going through the same exact thing with this girl, and im telling you, you have to make a move or you will lose this person. I missed my chance and now i am waiting for this girl to brake up with her bf. Dont make the same mistake i did, i have been sad ever since.
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I met this guy who is exactly like me, we've been going out for about 2 weeks, and every day he tells met that he loves me.
He is always complimenting me, and we are ALWAYS together.
Do you think we'll last long as a couple? Or would same interests drive us away from each other?
Btw, he isn't a player type, not über outgoing or anything like that. He is the nicest guy i've met in my life :) (link)
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Im so glad someone asked this question, you have to ask eachother, where do you see us in a year?
I like to think of myself as a sweet guy and i would do anything for my girlfriend, Are you happy just seeing your boyfriend smile, is he happy seeing you? everything you have in common is a plus for conversation and other areas.
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i like this boy but he doesnt know i like him,,
we say hi and smile at eachother andd stuff
but like sometimes i dont know how to bring up a conversation and when we leave skool i regret standing there and not saying anything
i dont know what to bring up
can somone like gimie something to bring up
thanks
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Ive been in that situation before, you have to the person feel important and get to know them. If you rush into a relationship saying i love you you wont get far, keep it to like, tell the person how you feel. I was with a girl one time at my house when we where hangin out and i blurted out, i really like you and i think your awesome. It was the best thing i ever did, most people will never say what they feel out loud, it feels great to get it off your chest and that person will fall for you slowly. And for talking to the person, try not to make everything about you and try to ask them about how they are.
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