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should i tell someone i love him? (link)
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It all depends in the situation you're in. If you're dating him, and you have been for a long time, and you're old enough to know what love is, then I think you should. I think it's good for you to ask though. Some people throw around the word "love" like it's nothing. If your feelings for him are really strong and you think he feels the same way, then I think you should tell him. It is 100% your decision, but if you two have been dating for a long time and you really feel strongly about him then go for it.
Good luck. I really hope this helped. I hope everything turns out good for you.
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im fwb with this guy and were pretty good friends..and well christmas is coming up and he asked me what i wanted but i told him i didnt know..i thought it was kinda wierd he was gonna get me something..but anyway..so i guess that means were exchanging gifts..but i really like him ..like i love him..and i know he doesnt like me more then friends..so i want to get him something like special..but not like were going out..like thoughtful but not over the top..any suggestions?thanks tons (link)
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well first, he asked you what you wanted right? hey he might like you! he probably does..not that many guys do that. alright, onto the gift part. ok, whats he into? i'm assuming sports maybe..i mean if hes into sports you could get him like a giftcard to a sports store, or if you dont like that idea and want to give him something more thoughtful, you could give him like a cute picture frame with like a pic of you, or you and him in it or something?? i think thats thoughtful. you might want to consider talking to his close friends and ask them what he really really likes a lot..and make something cool out of it..or if you have like pics of you two like hanging out..or like trips of some sort like field trips you could make a scrapbook? i dunno thats pretty special..its something he could look at when hes down n stuff..so i realllly hope i helped, and let me know how it works out! good luck!
XoXo Steph
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my name is Abby and im from Maryland and im in 9th grade and i like 2 guys and one guy is so sweet to me and he really likes me but he's not popular at all he's more on the loser side like if tomany people would hear that im going out wiht him i think it would be really bad.. but i really like him and there is this other kid and he is in 8th grade and he kinda likes me and i don't have as good as chance wiht him but he's more popular so idk what to do the loser-average guy that really cares about me or the more popular guy that i kinda might have a chance with? i hope you can help.. thankz (link)
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definetly the sweet one who cares about you. you dont want some stuck up popular freak ((dont take that offensively please!)) who doesnt care about you to be you bf. you want someone, true to you and theirself, and who really cares. good luck!
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okay..im like totally confused right now..and well anyway heres my problem...theres this boy..lets call him..john..okay..john and i have been friends since we were like 8..were neighbors..and in the same grade and everything..so well ever since i was 8 ive liked him..and now i KNOW i love him..but last year..7th grade..i asked him out..and he said no..i was okay with that though cuz we were still friends..so anyway..skool started like a month ago and im in english class with one of my other guy friends..lets call him mike..so mike and me kinda flirt.ALOT.and one of the girls who sits in front of me whispered to me she thinks he likes me..well i didnt believe her cuz were just friends..but then the next day in homeroom..mike is in my homeroom..another girl told me the same thing..then later that day ANOTHER girl told me that..and now im starting to like him cuz whenever we look at eachother we both just smile for no reason at all..but this is were the problem comes in..before all this flirting..i asked john to be friends with benefits with me..and he said yea..we havnt like kissed or anything yet..but idk if i should cuz i kinda like this mike kid..but then i feel like ive waited since i was 8 to do this with him and i dont wanna blow my chance..so as you can see i am really confused...THANK YOU SO MUCH!!SORRY THIS IS LONG!!xoxo (link)
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wow. dont worry bout it being too long..i have homework to do but i don't feel like doing it..heh..im so naughty. lol. okay. so then, onto your problem. you really like "John" but he turned you down. so now you like "John" and "Mike". so the way i see it, i think that if Mike asks you out, see what John's opinion is, and if he says well i dont care, go for it ((if he says i dont care, then he mite like you, thats just wut guys say..its like a translation lol)) if he says no, then say "then if you don't think i should say yes, then are you going to go out with me?" and then if he says no, just be like "you know what? screw you." jp lol. then i think you should go for Mike, cause i think John missed his chance. he'll realize he lost someone who is a fabulous person, and he mite not get you back..unless he does something spontaneous..or just something. lol. if he says yes, then go with him obviously. but i say only go out with Mike if he asks you out. if he doesn't then i would forget about it and him. and if you really as you say "KNOW you love him" then i would just completely forget about Mike altogether..unless you know you cant be with John. so you should probably ask John if you two have a chance at all. like..next time you two can talk personally..since you're neighbors n all. hope that wasn't confusing or anything. lol. good luck! i hope it works out and everything! if you need more advice, IM me or just drop one in the inbox. let me know how it turns out!
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ok i have a boy problem and i don't know what to do! i like this kid and this other girl likes him to and she has threated me to not be my friends any more and i really like him we talk all the time on teh internet and about stuff just between us! but i don't wanna back stab my best friend b/c she likes him too! so if your could help me that would be great thank you...maggie from virgina..im a female and im 13 (link)
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wow. thats almost the same situation i'm in rite now..yea its tough. it all really just depends..i mean if you have liked this kid longer than she has, i would just say "hey look i know that you like him and all, but i think i deserve a fair shot at him first since i have liked him longer." and remember. you're 13. no relationship with a guy should be worth crying over and stuff like that. and if you really really really wanna stay friends with this girl, explain that too. say like "i really dont want this to ruin our friendship, but i really like this guy." if shes a true friend, i'm sure she'll understand. good luck and let me know how it turns out!! hope i helped!!
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okay.. i like this guy.. and me and him have been flirting since school started.. well.. i found out the other day he wants to go out with me and im totally happy.. and i was going to.. but then i got on my bus and i asked my friend if she knew him.. so that she could help with the hook up.. and she was like.. "oh.. hes my ex.. do you talk to him?" and i was like.. "yea... i met him this year.." and she was like.. "but you dont like him right?" and i casualy changed the subject but i do.. and then she asked me to ask him why he broke up with her.. and to hook them back up.. i dont know what i should do.. because i liked him before i knew that my friend did.. pLeAsE help! (link)
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ugh. thats a horrible situation to put you in. but your friend had her chance, now its yours. if he likes you and you like him, go for it!!! your friend needs to learn how to deal with this stuff. good luck!!
Steph
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Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do?? (link)
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well i think ya like him. ya wanna know why i think this? well, cuz usually when i guy tells a girl they like her, then well, she usually rejects them. there was a study done on this. and plus, looks dont matter. ok thats a lie. lol. they help, but personality should matter most. i mean would u rather a hot guy that hits u and abuses you or a totally kind sweet guy who isnt all that hot but you know you can trust? i'd pick the second one personally. idk bout you tho. so give him a shot, and im sure it'll turn out ok. good luck!
Steph
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13/f i have a bf that i really like(maybe even love)and i really want to kiss him!but i'm also friends with his sister!and she goes to the movies with us.also i don't no if he wants to kiss me.so please help me! (link)
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hmmmm...well y would it matter if ur friends w/his sister...? n if she has a boyfriend n u guys go 2 the movies 2gether they mite wanna c something different...? if not n shes younger, ask her 2 let u 2 go just this once...and u would b kissing him, he wouldnt b kissing u...but make sure everything feels right b4 u kiss him if u kiss him..cuz if its not...u dnt wanna ruin ur relationship, ya no? well good luck!! let me know how it goes!! IM me or just leave one in the inbox. hope it helps!!
Steph
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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :( (link)
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give him a second chance...u like him that much, so theres nothin really stoppin u..and he likes u..so if he makes ya feel that good let him try again!! then if u feel that somethins wrong, break up w/him..but i doubt that'll happen..good luck!! let me know how it goes!! or drop one in the inbox.
~*Me*~
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Ok, I just started a relationship with a girl that goes to a different school than me. I will probably not be able to see her more than once every 1-2 weeks and I know theres gonna be a lot of guys hitting on her at her own school. Any advice on how I can keep her interested and make this work? I wont be worried after a few weeks have gone by, but this first little bit is going to be tough. (link)
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just make sure that u 2 stay in touch!! try phones..IM or email...just anything until u can see each other..just talk about wuts new and stuff...hope this works and good luck w/ur relationship!!!
~*Me*~
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14/f...ive liked this guy since i was 7 okay..n a couple months ago all my friends were buggin me bout him to ask him out so i did..but he said no..n right after that i told another kid i liked him..but i only did a little..n now i actualy asked that kid out..but he didnt answer yet..but i love this other guy so much and i just want to tell him everything..like how much he means to me..but i cant cause i feel weird hangin out wit him ever since i asked him out..n we use to be like bff but now it all has changed..and if the kid i asked out says yes then i dont no wat to do cause i still love the other one...i m like really confused and need any help u can give me..thanx soo much! (link)
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no problemo..this sorta happened to me b4..kinda..well, if u really like the other kid, then u need to make sure that the kid who u asked out and said yes, nos. if u dnt feel comfortable going out with him, just tell him the truth! say, i didnt think about the consequences of asking u out..ya see i really like another kid, and i wuz upset b/c i asked him out, and he turned me down..im just not over it yet, and i think i need some time. so that would take care of that. as for the kid you like, just tell him how u feel. tell him the truth...like im really sorry if i put u in an awkward position, but im comfortable around u, and now i just want things back like they used to be...would we be able to do that? just give him some time..it probably came as a shock to him..so give him some time and make sure u find out how he feels..good luck!! let me know how it works..im me..or drop one in the inbox..hope this helped and good luck!! ;)
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Me n my bfz 1 year iz in october but so iz his birthday so im tryna start to save up sum money to get him sumtin but i dont only wanna get him sumtin i wanna like make him sumtin really nice and cute n e ideas?!?!?!?!??!
hmmm.... (link)
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you could get him a nice picture frame w/a pic of u in it..??? sound good? hope that helped! ;)
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wut do i do? my boyfriends best friend ahas been saying crap to me about how i should treat my boyfriend and is always gettin me and my boyfriend into fights. i told my boyfriend about it and he says maybe u should listen to him and wont tell him to stop. i no i dont treat him like crap but he thinks i do bcuz his bf tells him i do. his bf had a bad relationship a lil bit ago andi think hes tryin to ruin r's. wut do i do? (link)
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i think that ur boyfriends friend is jealous of your relationship...and if ur bf's friend is gettin in the way n really gettin on ur nerves, LET HIM KNOW!!!!!!! dont let him get in the way...and mayb get ur bf sumthin...mayb itll sho him u do care and he'll forget about his stupid friend or somethin...cuz that kid is up to no good...good luck and i hope this helped!
;) me
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yesterday i told *him* i liked him. after i was finished talking, *he* said "cool." then nothing happened, and i had to go to the bus. ok, yeah, so my question to you is...how, on monday, can i bring this up again with him without sounding awkward/pathetic/desperate. he's my friend, i have lunch with him, and he rides my bus, if that helps. (link)
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well, he might bring it up, but try to sit with him on the bus, and just say..so i was kind of wondering wut u thought about this...like are you okay with it, do u like me? just stuff like that..dont worry..i think everything will turn out ok..good luck! ;)
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early? (link)
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tell him how you feel!! i dont think its abnormal either..i think you're really in love!! make sure he knows how you feel...tell him how much you love him and how you never want to lose him...good luck!! let me know how it works out my sn is on my column. :)
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ok..my guy friend tells me he kinda likes me.. and i had secretley kinda been crushin on him too.. so i told him..then he started talkin bout how we have a lot of things in common..and i thought he was gunna ask me out..but he still hasnt..i noe hes shy but he also noes that i think the guy should ask the grl.. i still like him and i think he still likes me but he jus wont ask me out..and like i said i still think the guy should ask the grl...help!! (link)
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be the brave one and ask him!! itll work if he likes ya..dont worry hun...cuz guys think its pretty cool when the girl asks the guy, so its all good..dont worry, ull get the hang of it, and it might seem odd, but its a lot easier than u think..i no ppl who have asked the guy
good luck i hope this helped!!
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If a guy that you like gets mad at you.. even for something stupid.. this happened to me during the school year.. and he was playin mad and stuff.. what do u do? cause like i always got close with a guy and we'd joke around or whatever and then he'd like get mad.. but not seriously mad just this like 'im not tlaking to u u said this " or whatever.. what do u do? (link)
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ehh...its probably just mood swings or hes around his friends..a LOT of guys r like that when theyre around their guy friends..i no its annoying and it gets u upset, but ask him wuts wrong n apologize if u need to. good luck and i hope i helped!
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Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend? (link)
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i say you go for it!! if she wasnt too upset w/the breakup, then she should be fine and might even be happy about it...make sure she knows how u feel first..good luck!! ;)
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Hey guys =) I was just wondering if any of you know any sites I can put pictures on, that's free.. anything besides, picturetrail and photobucket. Thanks so much! (link)
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well if u get an xanga, u can put pics on there and u can write some stuff 2! its nice..classic xanga is FREE but the premium xanga is NOT FREE so good luck w/that and i hope i helped
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ok so im 15 and
this kid who is
like 17 or so
wants to hang out
wit me and im all
for it but im wondering
what we should talk about
or w/e..if neone has ne
ideas please help
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just let the the kid who asked u to hang out start the convo..dnt worry, ull find plenty of things 2 talk about
hope i helped
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