I just want to help people and make sure that they don't make the same mistakes I did.
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ok i told my mom i was going to tell nick i like him but she said no becuz hshe said he is the type of boy that will run off and never come back but im not really sure about that aslo if i do tell him that i like whats a godo way to tell him? (link)
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The truth is the key.
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iv got hungry eyes one look at him and i fantisize i feel the magic betweem him and i (link)
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Go for it and ask him out. make a move on him if he doesn't make one on u.
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im in love with my neighbor and even if we have to runaway im gonna marry that boy someday (link)
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r u sure he feels this way? maybe u should think about his also.
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OK GTHIS BOY I WENT OTU WITH TELLS ME IM HOT AND THAT IM BEUATIFUL AND COULD HAVE ANY BOY I WANTED BUT HE SAID ALL THIS AFTER WE WENT OUT SO IF HE SAID I COULD GET ANYBOY I WANT HOW COME NO BOYS AVE ASKED ME OUT? (link)
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Maybe there just scared. Try and give them hints that u want to go out with them.
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if the boy i liked forgot my age and thought i was 12 still and not 13 is that a bad thing? and does that mean he doesnt like me? or do boys tend to forget girls age? i have repeated my b-day a lot of times in front of him (link)
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Maybe he's just a forgetful guy and can't remember things well. Iits hard to tell if a guy likes u. unless he spends alot of time with u, calls u alot and flirts with u, then he likes u.
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MY EX BOYFRIEND BROKE UP WITH ME AWHIEL AGO AND I PROMISED MYSELF I WOULD FORGET HIM AND YET EVERYTIME I TRY I SEE ALL THE GOOD MEMORIES OF US AND WE STILL TALK SOMETIMES BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND NOW AND IVE HAD OTHER BOYFRIENDS BUT I STILL THINK OF HIM IN THERE PLACES AM I JUST PATHEIC OR WHAT? (link)
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No ur noth patheic. U just have to wait it out and things will better.
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the boy i like well his mom says that he doesnt like any girls but is always hanging around me doe that mean he likes me?we do a lot of stuff like make jumps for my romote control car and we jump on my trampoline together and ride my scooter together do u think he might like me or is he trying to be friendly please tell me (link)
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It could be either both. try giving hints that u like him.
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WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT SHOW A BOY LIKES YOU? (link)
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He looks at u alot, Flirts with u, Does alot of nic things for you. There are alot of signs that a guy can give to a girl if he likes her u just have to look for them.
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i like this boy but im not sure if he likes me back should i ask him? but im like really shy he comes over everyday to see my baby sister which is 9 months old but i think his excuse is to see me i mean he is kind of skinny and plays football and im really in love with him but im bot to skinny im 130lbs but im losing weight and he is like 110lb i think im too fat for him cuz he likes girls like paris hilton and i want to be skinny like her andi have a few months to go to be like her so he is always looking and talking to me does this mean he likes me?please help (link)
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U should be proud of ur weight. some guys like a girl with a figure. if the guy u like doesn't like u for u then he's not worth ur time. dont try to change urself just for a guy.
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Ok see here is the problem,I really want a boyfriend but I am afraid I will not get one because i am what some people call gothic and what other people call punk or a skater.I dont know what to do!I really want a boyfriend i feel so lonely without one what can i do to get one without changing who i am or what i belive in? Also i dont like getting rejected i think it is akward. (link)
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Find someone who is like you. or u can just go up to a person u like and talk to them but dont ask them out right out because that might scare them. Just because ur a goth/punk/skater doesn't mean ur different, when u try to find a boyfriend find someone who wont change you.
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whats the best way to tell someone you don't like them anymore?
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break it to them gently. and tell them why u want to break up and that u still wanna be friends if u still want to that is. Its better to do it in person then on the phone or net but if u cant do it in person do it by phone.
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ok well I have known this kid for about 2 years right. and we would date off and on. and this year I started dating him again and I introduced him to my bestfriend because I wanted them to know each other but I didn't want them to start liking each other.ok well my friend came up with the idea that both of us would date him at the same time. and I love my friend to death and i would do anything for her even this so I was like I guess. so after like 2 days I was like to my friend if you like him that much you can just go out with him I odn't like him anymore hes all yours. but I relaly didn't mean it so now the go out but I wanna tell her how I really feel what should I do? (link)
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It's better to tell how you feel then keep them bottled up inside. Talk to them both at the same time and maybe it will help.
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Alright, my friend liked this guy and so did i. It all looked as if he liked my friend, but when she asked him out she found out he liked me... then he was being all a jerk to my friend... but she still likes him and can't stop liking him... ummm... then he asked her out cause i guess he realized he was being a jerk... she said i don't know... he said all suprised "You don't know!?!?"... then she talked it over with her other friend and she said no... she still likes him and now knows i like him... should I go out with him... my friend said to me the other day "Why would u want to go out with him if you saw him be such a jerk to me?" and i though about that and can't decide, and i'm afraid my friend will hate me if i do but i like him. (link)
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I think you should stay with ur friends. remember friends last forever but boys don't.
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I guess, any answer to this is just a matter of opinion, but here goes....Um...Ok, my ex b/f has a new g/f, and they seem to being going strong. But, in school he seems so unhappy. I don't know. I still really like him. And I'm not saying that I won't date other people for him, or not hang out with my friends to just sit around and wait for him. But, I don't know. What do you guys think? (link)
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Talk to him. Ask him why he looks so unhappy. Try to get through the route of the problem.
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I'm sure everyone's sick of hearing about these type of problems, but...there's someone at school who I'm really interested in. He has a girlfriend, and I'm fine with that, but I'd like to be closer with him friend-wise. He comes up to me sometimes and occasionally sits with me for long periods of time. The only problem is, I'm extremely shy and have a lot of trouble conversing with him. I usually end up staring into space, wishing I knew what to say, while he talks a little bit. Of course I don't stay completely silent the entire time, but I feel like my lack of interesting things to say is keeping us from becoming real friends. What should I do? (link)
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if you cant talk to him in person try to talk to him on the phone or on the net. It's way easier and u dont have to see him maybe it can help u talk in person better.
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If you're still stuck on an ex who has a new g/f, are you as pathetic as you feel? (which is very pathetic) (link)
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No ur not patheic but u have got to get over him. It wont be easy but you can do it if you set ur mind to it. trust me I know how u feel.
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I'm a 16 year old girl. Lately I have been really distant and detached from everything, and I don't know what makes this attractive or if the moons are aligned or what, but all of the sudden I'm getting all of this attention from guys at school. Any other time I'd be thrilled to death, but right now I'm just kinda like, "Eh." The guys that have professed their feelings, indirectly or through my friends, are great as friends, but I'm just not interested in them in a romantic way. A month ago I'd even be happy to go out on a date with whomever, but now I want to be boyfriend-less and have a good time hanging with my friends and concentrating on school.
The one guy I do have a little bit of interest in is currently into someone else.
How do I turn these guys down without hurting their feelings or making an awkward situation? I still want to hang around with them with my friends, just not in one-on-one sessions.
Ugh. (link)
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You in a phase I went through it to. But dont detach urself from everyone because once u get out of that phase they would have ditched u and wouldn't be ur friends anymore. But as for the guy thing just tell them plain and simple that ur not intrested and that maybe in the future u may be. Tell them u still want to be friends.
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Ok, so ill make this as short as possible, theres this guy at school that i see in the halls everyday and when i walk by him he stares at me a lot and i stare at him a lot, (im a guy). i think he might be gay too but im scared to find out cus he hangs out with all these majoryly homophobic ppl and i dont know if he might be str8 or not. what should i do? (link)
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I say go for it. So what if he has friends are like that it just means that they are not openminded about stuff like this. Talk to him in private and if you can't get the words out then kiss him. If he likes u then thats awesome for u but if he doesn't then ask him not to tell anyone about what happened and try to just be his friend but hey at least u got a kiss out of it.
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You need to answer this really quick because Its almost time to go to school!! Alright well I am thinking of asking this kid out, but Im not sure if he likes me. . and well I just want to get over w/ it so I wont be obsessing over somone who doesnt even like me so I wanna find out and I rlly like him so much I need to do thi I am afraid of gettin my heart broken, but if he doesnt like me o well. . Do oyu think Im making the right decision? I mean I want to, but I've known him for like 4 mounths anyways, but I dont know alot alot about him. . I know hes a nice person, very funny, and hes a total hottie. . Well hurry and answer! PLEASE PLEASE PLEAsE!!
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Dear Trixie,
If you heart feels strongly about this then go for it what do u have to lose. If he doesn't accept what ur asking then go and find another guy. Always remember that there are plently of guys out there.
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Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. . we never get to talk anyways except 4 lunch but he is with all his friends. . and so I just want to atleast be his friend! My life is so horrible MAKE IT STOP! HELP ME! Iw ant to ask him out. . should I I mean I have known him 4 4 or 5 months already. . but I only know that hes funny, sweet & really cute. .HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You should try and send him a note and ask him to meet u somewhere so you can talk in private maybe then it would be better to talk without anyone around. And about the lunch thing ask if you can sit with him and his friends and just try to talk. You never know till you try hon.
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