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Hey so thairs this guy i really like (i mean alot)and some times he flerts with me at lunch and i flert back and today one of his friends came up to me and said he liked me right in front of him but he said he didint, and my sister was makeing up stupid jokes like you two are gunna make out and stuff and all he did was smile and i not 100% sher he likes me plzzzzz answer me i'll rate 5's plz plz plz!!!!!!! and if he dose wut should i do? (link)
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Well, he may really like you. i mean, he may just dont want to say anything right now because he may be embarrased about it in front of his friedns or anybody else. but since he smiled and eveything when your sister did that, he may just like you. so just go for it and try to ask him out or try to get him to ask you out and go from there. and dont let anything bother you about you going out with him because nothing should get in the way of you and the guy that you like, except for maybe your friends, depending on the situation. Hope I helped! Get back to me as soon as you can and tell me how everything goes if you can!
love,
candie
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Well, there's this girl at school named Garrison. I can't keep her out of MY FREAKING HEAD! I was sleepless for two fucking nights just thinking about her face, and I can't stand it. I want to ask her out, but I'm too nervous. Please help. (link)
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Have you ever talked to her. If you havent, just talk to her and get to know her. I know nervousness is a hard thing to get over and i know b/c i have the same problem at times when talkin to guys that i really like. But its something that you need to get over so that you will be able to ask her out. But just talk to her and maybe flirt with her to get her attention if shes that kind of girl. Then after awhile, ask her out. But dont wait to long b/c she just might get caught by another guy and/or she just might get to close to you and feel that you all too close of friends to go. So, just go for it and see what happens. Hope i helped. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can.
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okay...theres this boy that i wanna ask to our end of school dance, but i already asked him whose hes goin with and he said no one and i didnt ask him to the dance. i have no idea how to do it. any suggestions? or any ways to get him to ask me? (link)
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Well, just go up to him and talk to him. Once you have worked up your nerve, then ask him. but don't wait too long, it just might end up that you dont get to ask him because he either is going with someone else, or u waited too long for you to ask him, or both. So just go and do that, and he'll appreciate for you doing that, if he doesnt, then he's not worth your time.
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This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention? (link)
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Just go up and start talking to him. Ask him why hes treating u like this, etcetera. If u feel like he's not being truthful, then tell him that and ask him carefully why. Also, if he keeps on acting like this, he probably doesnt really care about you and hes probably not the right person for you and you need to move and find someone else that can treat you better and that will actually cares about you. Hope I helped. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can.
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Ok well i like this boy who i have gone out w/ before and we were like Brother and sister before we went out!! i still like him !! but now hes going out w/ some other girl and he is barly talkn to me online!! how do i get him to talk to me and how do i get him to no i still like him?? (link)
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Just ask him why you guys arent as good of friends like you guys used to be. Also, just tell him how you feel. Ive been through almost the same exact thing, or you could say that Ive been through it too, if you knew the story. But it wont help any if you dont go up and try to talk to him. The guy that I used to date, we were such good friends, like bother and sister and it was like that after we dated. Then we started acting like we were dating again, but after he found out that his best friend liked me, it was over before we even got started again. Now we barely even talk anymore, but I havent talked to him yet, heart to heart, and I dont know if it will work or not, but hey, its worth a shot. So give it a try and see how everything goes. Get back and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, shorty8706
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ok im 14 1/2 ok and theres this awesome guy at my school and i mean i like him and i think he likes me i mean he goes to church and everything job but the thing is he's 17 and ive heard rumors saying that guys make bets and crap on the freshmen to see how fast they can get into there pants i mean im not going to do anything like that but i don't want to be apart of a cruel joke so should i take the chance and go out with him or no.................. (link)
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Well, if hes a true christian, then he wont do something like that. He will want to save sex until marriage. If he acts like he wants to get into your pants, then hes obviously not the right person for you if thats all he wants to do and probably a true christian. But about the age, theres a possibility that it may cause trouble from his parents, but age is just a number, just as long as you really like/love the person, you know. Hope I helped! Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, shorty8706
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how do you ask a guy to be your boyfirned? i mean im old fashioned and i dont think me, being a girl, should ask him, because hes a guy. i mean i dont wanna screw it up because i like him ALOT, i think about him all the time, but my friend, whos like his best friend, he just said that i should either ask him out or not like him at all, which is making alot of sense, but im too scared. how should i do it? (link)
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Im the same way, so dont feel bad. I have actually asked worked my nerve up though and asked guys out though. I used to get my friends to do it for me, but I have actually gotten better at it. Just try to work up the nerve to go up and talk to him first and then when you get used to talkin to him, ask him out. But dont wait to long because he just might get another girlfriend or start feelin like you guys are gettin to close to each other, or both. Trust me, thats happened to me before. Just try it and see how everything goes. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Peace and Good Luck!
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Ok so there's this guys Shawn, and he doesn't live here. We have been off and on since the summer, and i'm so insecure about the relationship because all the other guys i've been with have been pricks. I never see him so i dont consider it a relationship..and i can't just be friends with him because i have stronge feelings for him, and it's not going to work ever again. But it hurt's so much when i see him sign on or talk or think about him. He was the first real guy that accepted my eating disorder and my cutting habbits. I need to get over him because i don't wanna feel this weay anymore. But everytime i try it feel's as if i can't feel the same way with another guy. I'm thinking of deleting his s.n and getting ride of anything that has to do with him..taking him out of the picture completley. (Because if he really loves me then he'll be there later in life, right?) What do you think? (link)
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Yeah, hell be there later in life if he really cares. But even though he accepted your eating disorder and cutting problems, maybe in a way, it still scared him off. I personally dont know why people have those kind of things even though I have a friend who has an eating disorder, I think that you go and try and get some help for that. Then about the guy problem, if it is meant to be, then dont feel insecure about it, hell be there. Plus, if you get rid of the stuff and he comes back later in life, youll regret throwing that stuff away. Trust me, I have done it before. But again, if it is meant to be and you all arent together right now, dont feel bad for goiong with someone else because that relationship is probably going to happen later in life. Plus, you shouldnt commit yourself to one person at a young age. But if he really cares about you, then hell treat you with respect, so dont feel insecure about the relationship. But him not caring is what you have to worry about. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can.
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14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help (link)
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Well, just try to flirt with her or something. I know that its hard to do that, but just try it. Or you could ask her if she would like to go somewhere with you and your friends, and have have a friend or two with you to ask her if you need to. Just try and break the ice and she feels the same for you and tell her how you feel. Maybe she does and if she is a nice girl, she shouldnt get mad at you for being honest. Just try and see what happens. Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, Shorty, Candace.
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ok hope this isnt too long. ok so there is this awsome guyy that i REALLY like. hes so awsome. hes my hight and he plays ice hockey. (big plus for me) so anyways he would flirt with me all the time. so i got this big idea that he liked me. so my friend wanted to do something about it. so we had this big plan and all. she was going to ask him if he liked me more then a friend or not. so she did and he said he would think about it. me and my friends waited for about four weeks. i was so sick of waiting around that my friend asked him again. he wouldnt answer yes or no so this guyy who overheard our conversation took him aside and asked him (this guyy is a total idiot who you could never trust with your secret) so anyways he talkes to him and comes up to my friend and tells them the answer. i didnt fine out till later that night. turns out he said no. but then i started thinking. if he didnt automatically say no then he must have something for me. am i right and could you explain please?? thx a lot!!! i rate high!!!! if it helps im a 13 year old
~natalie` (link)
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Well, not always. Not all guys are mean, rude, and inconsiderate. He probably didn't want to be like all other guys and tell you no in a rude way. He probably just couldn't figure out a way to tell you because he didn't want to hurt your feelings. But there is still that slight chance that he might like you, but youll never know unless you ask him youself. Some guys dont like it when girls have their friends ask them for the girl who wants to know. Yeah, you might be nervous to go up to him and ask him yourself, but hell be glad that you had the nerves to go up to him and be honest with him. But if he isnt, then he isnt worth your time and probably a jerk because he cant see you for who you are and what it took for you to go up to talk to him. Just try it out and see what happens. Get back to me if you can and tell me what happens.
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Ok i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months now and in the beginning of the realtionship my bestfriend thought we were perfect for eachother... well about 2 weeks ago he fractured his ankle and was really upset about becuz he couldn't play baseball and baseball is his life!! so he got really angry and took it all out on me! well now were both over it and we couldn't be any happier with each other... well the problem is i always told my bestfriend wat was happening and she kept telling me to break up with him and that she doesn't like him... how can i prove to her that my bf and i are perfect for each other and everybody has their fights!? (link)
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Well I think that you should just sit down and have a long talk with her. Tell her how you really feel about him and how you know that everyone has arguments with each other. Try and bring up the fact that even you and her have arguments with each other, but that doesn't mean that you all shouldn't be friends. But if she still states that she doesn't like him and can't be supportive of you, or even act like she is, then maybe you all should try to move on away from each other and hang out with other people now and again. But if you don't want to do that, maybe you two should give each other some time away from each other because maybe you guys have hung out to much. But see where the sitting down and talking it out goes and get back to me if you can.
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Last summer I met a guy and we started dating. We broke up three times and I'm still not over him. I really love him and he doesn't feel the same. He changes his girl almost every week and I can't cope with it anymore. I can't get over him, I've tried but I can't. I don't know what to do about it, I love him so much. (link)
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Well, I know exactly how you feel. Last October I started to see this guy that I had just met. He had another girlfriend, but we weren't technically going out. Then hr finally broke up with her and we started to officially go out. We did have some problems before that, but I was happy that we were finally going out. But the night before Thanksgiving, he broke up with me. I felt that he did that just because his cousin didn't like me and told him to do that and also he wanted to go out with someone else. But let me tell you, there are some people out there who aren't ready for relationships or just don't want a committed relationships. Do what I did and let time heal you and try to busy yourself with your friends or extra-curricular activities. It may seem hard at first, but eventually it will get easier, that's what I did and it helped for me. Try it out and get back to me if you can. I'll try to help you out again if that doesn't work. Plus, you just to forget about him because he obviously doesn't feel the same and is a big time jerk.
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