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Bassically I joined advicenators to help people. My names Sheridan♥. Most of my friends call me Sherri though. I have a boyfriend who I love very much♥ We just recently got back together again =]. So, feel free to ask about ANYTHING and I'll do my best to try and help you

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me and my gf broke up like 3 weeks ago but we still hang out sometimes. we were watching a movie and when it was over we started makin out and so i stopped real quick and was like, "we're still friends, okay?" and she didnt say anything so i kept kissin her but she wasnt kissing me back and she started crying so i kinda just left. we've talked since then but why was she crying??? did i do the right thing??? what should i have done if i didnt??? what do i do now???

oh boy. you probably shouldnt have made out with her. if you broke up with her then its most likely shes still got feelings for you. if she broke up with you then idk whats goin on, but if she says shes fine with the fact that you two are just friends and that shes gonna be okay.. dont listen to her. if she started crying when you said that you guys were just friends that means she still cares alot about you. and dont go making out with her anymore unless shes up for it. it might make her think you still like her as much as she does you and it will just hurt her more and more inside

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Well ok umm theres this cute boy in my english class and hes always starin at me n stuff but idn if he likes me, he talks to me sometimes but not alot do u think if i ask him out id prolly have a chance with him?

I think if you talk to him more, then yeah you`d probably have a chance. You said you don`t talk to him alot, so maybe if you start talking to him more then yes.

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i want to ask this boy to prom. however he has told other people that he does not go to school functions & isn't going to prom (he doesn't know i want to ask him though). should i still ask? i think it would be awfully embarassing if he said no & i would feel awkward around him after. however there is no one else to ask & this is very last minute (prom is may 13th) & i want to do it before this weekend ends. some people say it's wrong to do over the phone & it's better to do in person, others say it it's OK. so first of all do you think i should risk asking him? & also, is it bad to do over the phone because i won't see him this weekend? thanks!

I think you should ask him. The sooner you ask him the better. If you do do it over the phone it would probably be less embarrasing if he didnt want to go. No one would be around and only you 2 would know about it. Usually people tend to say its better to do it in person, but if you want to do it soona nd your not gonna see him you could use that as an excuse of calling him

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I know a boy and i like him alot, he likes me to but he wont ask me out!! He knows i like him wich is surprising bcuz i ussually dont tell anyone when i like someone.. He said he doesnt want to go out with because he doesnt want to get hurt again but how can i make him understand i would neverrr hurt him??

The most you can do is be there for him any time he needs a friend. Be his friend. Just for now until he can get up enough trust to ask you out. After being hurt it can take some time to get over it, and be able to move forward in realationships with someone. Just give him time. He`ll come around

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i've had this friend for a couple of years now, we're in different grades (i'm a grade higher than him) but we're good friends. well recently when we speak on MSN we've been playing "truth & dare" and talking really sexual and intimate with one another. i do enjoy it, but i'm starting to think it might make things weird between us from now on. also, i kinda have a boyfriend. well, we haven't met yet.. it's an online relationship, but he's coming to stay with me in november. i don't really consider us together until he comes here, but i still feel it's sorta disloyal and "Cheating" for me to act like this with another guy. My bf and I never discuss sexual stuff for the record.

should we stop doing this? is this going to make our friendship too awkward? and i can't tug the feeling that it's cheating somehow, and i feel incredibly guilty about this..
..thanks.. i will rate

Well, it really all depends. Would you want your boyfriend to find out about it. Does he feel the same way you do. (about the not being together until you meet) Because, if he does think your together this might upset him. It is cheating if he asked you out and you said yes. (or the other way around). Just think to yourself. If he was doing this with other girls, would it bother you?

If your in a relationship, its a relationship. Just because you haven`t met yet doesn`t mean that your not in this relationship.

If you do like doing this maybe you should tell your boyfriend that you`d like to wait untill you meet to actually start going out. This way it wouldn`t be cheating.

Or if you`d want to stop because you think it will ruin your friendship talk to your friend about it. This might make your friendship akward depending on how shy the person is in person. Or you for that matter. He, or you, might feel uncomfortable talking normally in person because of some of the things you`ve been talking about.

So i guess to answer your question, is to ask yourself some questions

1. would your boyfriend be upset if he found out?
2. does he feel the same way you do?
3. would you be mad if he was doing the same things you were?

just answer thoes questions to yourself.

Most likely if you would be upset if he was doing what you are. Then I`d say stop what your doing with your friend. It is disloyal to your boyfriend.

I hope I helped some.
♥♥♥

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Hi Sheridan, I was wondering theres this boy named Chris and I like him alot and 2 of his friends asked me if i would go out with him and then said nvm but my friend asked him if he likes me and he said I truly dont know... so im really confusedd now

-Arlene

Well, if he says he doensn`t know maybe hes just embarraced. You should confront him yourself asking him whats goin on and why his friends keep goin up to you. If he says he`s still not sure then tell him to tell his friends to back off. Or the next time they ask you be like yeah i do wanna go out with him. If your saying you dont know now maybe he just doesnt want to admit he likes you if he thinks hes gona be turned down.

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i like this boy in school and before he liked me back and now he said he dont know if he likes me or not, what can i do to get him to like me?

Well if he liked you before then im pretty sure all you have to do is be yourself around him. Talk to him regularly. It seems like hes playing hard to get now that you like him.

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I really like this boy and i cant get him out of my mind, i asked him if he liked me and he said he dont know, which to me is like no bcuz how can sum1 dont kno if they like you? Bien friends with him just kinda makes it worst bcuz every time i talk to him i end up liking him even more, how can i get him to like me?

Well if he says he doesnt know maybe hes just embarraced and didnt want to say yes. I think that you just need to continue being friends with him. flirt with him and talk to him more.

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Theres this girl that i rly like and im pretty sure she knows it. She told me that she likes me too. But there is one problem. One of our best friends like me to so im kinda afraid to ask her out. What should i do?

Well if you like her and she likes you i`d say go for it. Try it out see how it goes. Just don`t let the relationship get in the way of all your friendships. Have the girl you like talk to the girl you think likes you and see if she likes you too. and if it would be okay if you guys possibly got together. If shes your guys best friend them im sure she`ll support you guys any way you can. and if it doesnt work out with you and the other girl then she`ll be there for you again.
♥ _ ` S h e r i d a n

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Ok theres this really cute boy in school and I have liked him scince the beginning of the year.. I dont think he even knows my name =/. Alot of girls like him to which does NOT help.. especially when its the pretty and popular girls who start talking to him. ANDD wow lol i think my best friend likes him even though I told her that I have been liking him for awhile now.. shes always flirting with him and I have NO IDEA how to get him to notice me! Please some advice??

Alot of girls say that guys dont notice them. I`m pretty sure he knows who you are. But for the down low, get his sn and try to talk to him that way. Or if your in any classes with him ask him to be your partener for something. Or ask for help with something (even if you know how to do it). Also talk to your friend about him. If she likes him too because it could get in the way of your friendship. Don`t ever let a guy come between you and your best friend. Take it from someone with expirience.. it isnt worth it.

♥_ ` S h e r i d a n

I hope i helped =]

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I've finally decided to get over my ex girlfriend after being completely devastated over her dumping me for 6 months. I tried being just friends with her, but that didn't work. What made me decide to get over her was the fact she got a new boyfriend. I cut off all contact. I blocked her on my AIM buddylist then deleted her so I wouldn't see the love you for him in her profile, and the i love you's in her aways. I deleted her myspace so I will no longer have to see her picture. It's been 2 weeks with not a single word between us. She's in my gym class and I just stay away from her.

I'm sure she's noticed by now. I do feel so much better now, but I don't want this to be the complete end of us. I don't want us to never talk again, but I'm afraid if we make any contact whatsoever any progress I made will just go to waste, and I'll be missing her again. I'd like for us to someday be friends, but I don't know how long I should wait before I try that or if I even should try. She was a good friend before going out and even for a short time after we broke up. I'm not sure how I should approach this.

Can anyone help?

I`m the same way with my ex boyfriend. He has a new girlfriend and I still like him so I try not to talk to him as much. But every time he talks to me I fall in love all over again. Anyways I think you should probably keep her blocked on everything possible. Maybe you could talk to her in gym when you see her. But also remember not to get to close. Try and hang out with other girls you might be interested in and once you start to like other girls or get a girlfriend then you can unblock her and ask her how shes doin. Still don`t get to close to her then. Be her friend but don`t let yourself get anymore then that. I really hope I helped. I know how it feels =\ Oh SNAP itZ Youh is my AIM screen name if youd like anymore help =]
` S h e r i d a n _ ♥

good luck♥

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ok, I am a 14 girl and there is a 14 year-old guy tht i have liked for some while now and he has known I liked him for a few weeks. My friend was talking to him on AIM and she told me he said he was debating weather or not to dump his girlfriend. She asked why and he said because he likes another girl, but my friend couldn't find out who because he said the girl was one of her friends (maybe me?). This may seem a bit mean... but i totally want them to break up. My other friend sayd that if it got to him that I was starting to get over him, then he would think that he better dump his girfriend quick before I'm totally over him. but then i also heard that if I did tht then he might just stop liking me... so my question is, should I let it get back to him tht im gettin over him, or should I just leave it?

Never start a relationship with a lie. If he did ever find out he might be a little mad. If you`re really into lying you COULD also tell him/ or have your friend tell him.. that you want to get over him because you have no chance with him since he has a girlfriend. I highly suggest not lying to him though. If he really does like you he`ll break up with her on his own. Give it time
` S h e r i d a n _ ♥

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alright, so i have a little bit of a problem. I am 14 and im in 8th grade. I have only had one real boyfriend. A lot of people have asked me out, but i just don't like any of them like that. I don't know what to do though, becasue the ones that i like never ask me out. I am scared that i won't have another boyfriend for a reall long time.

Having a boyfriend isnt everything. If you dont have one for a little while thats okay. If you like people you could also take the chance and ask them out. Or let them know you like them. They might also like you and you just dont know it. Take a chance and tell them.. you have nothing to lose. You'll get a boyfriend soon =]. Good luck

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hey, well i have a problem. i am going out with this kid, but i cant tell if i like him or not. at first i really liked him but now i cant really tell.. what should i do? cause its not like i wanna tell him its over or anything because this is something i want. the only problem is i cant tell whether or not i just want to be single instead of just being with one guy. i dontw ant to talk to him about it though because i dont want him to just think that its over. what should i do? i know its something that is all up to me, but how can i tell if i like him or not?

well when you see him if you have kissed him. kiss him, do you feel anything?

think if you did break up.. would you cry? would you miss him?

its really up to you if you like a person or not. if its something that you really wwant then it sounds like you do like him.

I'd stay with him a little while longer and if things aren't goin the way you'd hoped.. then maybe you don't have thoes feeligns for him that you thought you did

♥_Sheridan

Hope I helped

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Ok, well my boyfriend and me met at camp in 2005 summer. So we've been going out since a few weeks ago. We never really talked to eachother but my friend knows him and goes to school with him and my friend would call me and tell me what he said. But we never talked face- to -face and he broke up with me because i told my friend Secrets and then she told him!! He broke up with me because the secrets were gross....

But i was wondering if anyone could help me get us back together that would be awesome!

I RATE 5'S!

Well sorry to burst your bubble if you dont see him and only talk through your friend that really isnt much of a relationship. If your just going out with him to be able to say you have a boyfriend thats not right. If you really do want to go out with him though you could tell your friend to tell him that it was a lie and that nothing happened. Or you could call him yourself and tlel him that it wasn't true. There's not much I can really think of because you said you dont see him or tlak to him face to face.. sorry =\

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well, I have had like 2 boyfriends in the past, but i mean it wasn't big like everyone has now. I'm one of the only people, I'm pretty sure, that doesn't have a boyfriend. Or someone liking them. How will I ever find out, and get someone to care about me like all my lucky friends?!

from,
lonely

It does take time. Your deffinetly not the only person to not have a boyfriend right now. Talk to one of your closest friends, possibly one with a boyfriend and when they go out with there boyfriend, ask him to bring a friend and you a friend. If you like this friend keep in touch with him. What you dont want to do is lead someone on that you have no intention of liking. Also if your not good at talking to guys.. have one of your friends talk to someone for you. You'r probably just shy and need a little boost with the self esteem. I hope I helped. If you need more information with anything you can E-mail me or IM me.

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Hey i wanted to ask you this because i saw that you have a bf whom you love very much. And i dont really know where to start... but ill try my best to explain it. Ok well i was going out with my bf for 9 months -- first serious relationship and its hard for me to stick with a guy because i get tired of them easily.But i really thought he was the one for me.... just the things he said to me, made him so much different from other guys... We broke up several times because of fights.. but out of know where he told me he didnt want a g.f anymore.... i didnt know what to do. I thought it was just another break up that will probably last a couple hrs...but days went by. and every single day we would argue about things. and i kept hearing rumors that he started about me. But i just looked passed that because i still loved him and i would take him back in a heartbeat...its been two months since we've been apart. And i cant take it... im seriously going crazy. Ive tried other guys. But they just dont compare. And i talked to him about it a couple days ago and he said we can keep it a "secret" .. so i said ok well atleast i get to be with him. But since the breakup things have changed. My whole family hates him with a passion because of all the pain hes put me through.... and his whole family hates me. because they think im still stuck on him and i dont need to be... and blah blah blah-pointless stuff. Anyways, back to the "secret" i told him i dont want to keep it from people anymore. I want people to know about us because that was the best part. And he told me no, because then his parents are going to find out. And i cant see him because my sister was always my ride and now she wont take me. Even if i pay her lol. And we go to seperate schools....& he just got his license taken away... So we wouldnt be able to see eachother. Another thing that happend during the breakup was that he started talking to this girl on myspace... calling her baby and stuff. And it says all over his page on how much he likes her. It just makes me depressed because shes sooo much prettier then me. And i know that its just computer talk. But he told me he didnt want a gf... but now hes trying to hook up with someone else... So thats giving me the idea that somethings wrong with me. Im always trying to think on the bright side of things... and this whole breakup changed me, because before this i wouldve never cried/thought about a boy this much. OR give up all the things i have. The main thing im trying to say is... that he keeps playing with my heart. One month he tells me he wants me. And the next he wont answer my phone calls. Wont text me back. Or answer me. And im stupid enough to fall for it everytime. I guess he changed... but i dont know what to think anymore.. can you help me please.

My ex boyfriend is the same way. Me and him have been goin on and off for the past year now. We would always break up for the stupidest things and this last time he broke up with me i thought it was because he was going through stress *hes moving* but he ended up asking out my best friend. If he tells you he doesn't want a girlfriend right now its not forever. Maybe hes just not sure on who he likes at the moment. This doesnt mean that theres anything wrong with you, just that he may want a change?. Just because he has broken up with you doesn't mean that its forever. The only thing you can do right now is not be to clingy towards him. Don't call him as much as you used to. Don't get all sad about it. I'm the same way you are with the whole cant keep a boyfriend that long. Me and my boyfriend don't see eachother alot but we get along just fine. Maybe 9 months was enough to make your boyfriend realize he wants to try something different for a change. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.

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alright, well hopefully you can help me out with this one.. i have this friend who likes my boyfriend, but i dont want to break up with him because of her. What should i do? I dont want to lose my friendship with her but i dont want to lose what i have with my boyfriend. I am really confused and i need help with this! Please help me!!!!

xo ;;; sanddy

Well, first you could talk to your boyfriend and tell him about your friend if he doesnt already know. You shouldn't have to lose what you have with your boyfriend if you liked him and was goin out with him first. Talk to her and if it really bothers her that you guys are going out. Try not to talk about him around her as much and don't all 3 of you hang out at the same time. Things can be pretty confusing when your friend likes your boy friend. Just make sure to talk to them so you don't lose either one.
Hope I helped =] good luck
♥_Sheridan

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alright, so this kid who i like kind of asked me out, but i said no becasue i like another guy. He did sooo many things for me though, and he is sooo nice. i feel really bad about saying no though becasue i kind of lead him on. I told him i liked him and he even broke up with his girlfriend for me. i have nooo idea what to do.

okay, my first question is why did you say no? from the way you described this it seems like you like him. if you told him you liked him and he broke up with his girlfriend for you it seems like you have a better chance with this kid then the other. and if you do like him why not take a chance.. theres always another time to go out with this other person you like. Take a chance and if things dont work out tell him that youd just like to be friends and maybe some other time.
I'm not sure exactly if i helped you much but i hope I hope i did
♥_Sheridan

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ok, so i'm not really sure of myself right now. i'm not sure who i like, im getting into sooo many fights with my parents, and im doing horrible in school. i have no idea what to do becasue i've tried a million thingss.

First of all, take it easy. Don't worrie about who you like right now. Take it step by step. Talk to you parents about whats bothering you and ask them for help with your school stuff. Or you could go to friends for help. The reason your getting into fights with your parents so much is because of stress.. maybe because of friends, school, or trying to figure out who you like. Like i said before though, try and solve your school and parents problem don't worrie about who you like. It's not all about being in a relationship all the time. Stay single for a while it will take so much more stress off of you.

I hope I helped :)

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