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My ex and i...
Hey i wanted to ask you this because i saw that you have a bf whom you love very much. And i dont really know where to start... but ill try my best to explain it. Ok well i was going out with my bf for 9 months -- first serious relationship and its hard for me to stick with a guy because i get tired of them easily.But i really thought he was the one for me.... just the things he said to me, made him so much different from other guys... We broke up several times because of fights.. but out of know where he told me he didnt want a g.f anymore.... i didnt know what to do. I thought it was just another break up that will probably last a couple hrs...but days went by. and every single day we would argue about things. and i kept hearing rumors that he started about me. But i just looked passed that because i still loved him and i would take him back in a heartbeat...its been two months since we've been apart. And i cant take it... im seriously going crazy. Ive tried other guys. But they just dont compare. And i talked to him about it a couple days ago and he said we can keep it a "secret" .. so i said ok well atleast i get to be with him. But since the breakup things have changed. My whole family hates him with a passion because of all the pain hes put me through.... and his whole family hates me. because they think im still stuck on him and i dont need to be... and blah blah blah-pointless stuff. Anyways, back to the "secret" i told him i dont want to keep it from people anymore. I want people to know about us because that was the best part. And he told me no, because then his parents are going to find out. And i cant see him because my sister was always my ride and now she wont take me. Even if i pay her lol. And we go to seperate schools....& he just got his license taken away... So we wouldnt be able to see eachother. Another thing that happend during the breakup was that he started talking to this girl on myspace... calling her baby and stuff. And it says all over his page on how much he likes her. It just makes me depressed because shes sooo much prettier then me. And i know that its just computer talk. But he told me he didnt want a gf... but now hes trying to hook up with someone else... So thats giving me the idea that somethings wrong with me. Im always trying to think on the bright side of things... and this whole breakup changed me, because before this i wouldve never cried/thought about a boy this much. OR give up all the things i have. The main thing im trying to say is... that he keeps playing with my heart. One month he tells me he wants me. And the next he wont answer my phone calls. Wont text me back. Or answer me. And im stupid enough to fall for it everytime. I guess he changed... but i dont know what to think anymore.. can you help me please.
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My ex boyfriend is the same way. Me and him have been goin on and off for the past year now. We would always break up for the stupidest things and this last time he broke up with me i thought it was because he was going through stress *hes moving* but he ended up asking out my best friend. If he tells you he doesn't want a girlfriend right now its not forever. Maybe hes just not sure on who he likes at the moment. This doesnt mean that theres anything wrong with you, just that he may want a change?. Just because he has broken up with you doesn't mean that its forever. The only thing you can do right now is not be to clingy towards him. Don't call him as much as you used to. Don't get all sad about it. I'm the same way you are with the whole cant keep a boyfriend that long. Me and my boyfriend don't see eachother alot but we get along just fine. Maybe 9 months was enough to make your boyfriend realize he wants to try something different for a change. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.
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